ANSWERS: 41
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Definitely a hard ass but not too much. I have doubts about a soft guy being able to protect me.
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I require a guy with a soft side. I'm sorry, but keep your hardass attitude away from me. That's a recipe for emotional pain.
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I say a little of both. I want him to be strong but very compassionate.
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A little bit of both
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I"m not sure....my husband swears he's a hardass, but he's the one who always makes sure the dog has room on the bed and helps the kids out with extra money when I wouldn't, stuff like that. So I'm not really sure what a hardass is anymore! lol
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i like a guy who appears to be a hardass but who really has a soft side
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Just from the majority of girls I'm around, I would guess they prefer the hardass. They stay in relationships I would have been afraid to enter into in the first place.
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I would have to say a hardass no offence to the soft side guys.
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I think hardass, I want to know he can protect me, BUT...I also like the softer side as well!
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100% hardass!!!!!!!!!
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I'm sure my wife prefers a guy who's a hardass when it comes to standing up for her and a soft ass when it comes to caring about her and her loved ones. ;)
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No hardasses will find a seat in my home or heart. I expect a mature man to be a decent humble, kind-hearted human, like any body else.
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wow looking at these answers, it looks like im gonna have to go to the gym and start being a dick to people.
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I like a man that can be gentle and kind . I do not need a fighting man. Or a person that tries to dominate my household. we are partners that is what makes happiness.
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A soft side. Everytime. Hardass guys really repulse me. It's unnecessary.
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softer men are marriage material.
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I prefer my boyfriend. He knows how to stand up for himself, but he has a soft spot in his heart for me. I guess that means I prefer a bit of both. :)
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We like a little bit of both. We like our guy to be kind of sensitive and understanding, but they need tot be kind of a badass because they need to protect their girl =)
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I like my men like I like my coffee: Strong and sweet. That ain't no lie.
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Oddly enough, I like a little of both, Hardass, so they can protect me, and a soft side, so they can love me.
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My husband is very sweet and loving. When "Mr. Hardass" comes out, it is not pretty or nice. I usually have it coming to me when Hardass comes out to rear his head.
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When I was younger, I liked the bad boys. Now, nothing is important to me but a sense of humor. My hubby loves me dearly and is only 1% ass. (LOL.)
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I like the soft side. I don't go for the tuff guy stuff. I used to and that got me into trouble. I like men that are able to keep their masculinity, but know how to be soft and sensitive too. The Harda@@ crap gets old fast!
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a guy with a soft side definatly.
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hardass with a softside...
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I'd say one right in the middle.
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In my observation and in general, women will sleep with the hard-ass and eventually marry the the guy with a "soft side." Some never learn and end up marrying the hard-ass and then endlessly complain about it.
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I like a guy with a nice mix. My husband is very protective of me and could hold his own if he had too. But he's very tender and loving with me. He's just the perfect mix.
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A little bit of hardass, but mostly with a soft side.
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I like a man with both.
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I like both, hardass to protect and soft side to love.
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OIn the middle. A few months ago I would have gone for the soft guy. That's what I found and he's way too clingy for me. Put me off!
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A guy with a soft side.
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Somewhere in the middle I guess. It is great to have someone that will let you cry on their shoulder when needed, but it is also great to have someone that will take control ever so often and rough you up a little (in a good omg I need a cigarette even though I don't smoke better than chocolate kind of way).
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A guy with a soft side.:-)+
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I like a hardass on the outside but a big softie inside. And I found him!!! :)
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I love a softie... with a tough exterior. gosh. I love my sweetie. sorry.. I just cant help it. love is...insanity! lol
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I like a mixture of both...but mainly someone with a softer side...
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I'm more into the sensitive type guys (soft side). You ask them if they like to go shoot pool with you, they will definitely say, "Yes, of course, let's go!". I love that! They are easy to please and would do anything I like to do. The ones that are a hardass, man, they are too hard to please them and such! They are the ones that are like, "Nooooo....I don't know. I really don't feel like going out today. Hey, let's go motorcrossing!". They always want to pick the activity (that only they like to do) on a date. No thanks! Not my thing to do.
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the strong silent type with a tender heart.
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half and half:)
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