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  • nothing more than you are doing now(unless there are things that you are not mentioning to hurt her...like some guys do). She has self esteem issues and only she can work through them.
  • Help her build up her self-esteem. Buy some self-help books on it, and read them yourself. If you find things that might help her, suggest she read them, or read them to her (if she will listen - Some gfs/wives don't! ;-) ) Meanwhile: Love her every day in every way you can think of. Hold her when she needs held, reassure her every time she worries, kiss away her tears, and keep telling her how much she means to you.
  • depends she might have issue before u with people leaving her, she might not be happy with herself and think she is making u unhappy. it could be many things. u should talk to her about it and see if u can figure out why she thinks this way anway. hope that helps just be compleatly ur self
  • There is nothing you can really do except continue to love her. She has probably been hurt in the past, and if you are really dedicated to her you just need to be patient and tell her a lot that you love her. We women love to hear that we are loved :)
  • To her they are not silly things. She has probably been abandoned my someone close to her, and is now insecure. Just keep reaffirming that you wont leave her, time will show her. Actions speak louder than words.
  • You can only do what you do. The issue is that she needs to trust herself enough that if anything happened (like you had an accident for example) that she could handle life regardless. Being able to handle life's ups and downs sounds more like her issue, than her actual trust in you - it is just expressed in the way you are seeing it.
  • Keep talking to her and reassuring her that you are not planning on leaving her. Always buy her nice littles things like flowers or cards to keep her motivated and cheerful.

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