ANSWERS: 31
  • yes, back in middle school this girl told my friends that i couldnt trust them and they all stopped talking to me for awhile. it sucked:/
  • No. Never. I can't say I have an enormous amount of friends. The ones that I do have, I choose very wisely and they are very good ones. I would hope I shouldn't have any problems with them.
  • yup...... Waaaaay back in high school my so-called best friend screwed with my boyfriend......on the night before my birthday......IN MY CAR.......wearing MY FAVORITE SHOES. What a class act, right? Look....they were both equally to blame, but guys come and go....your best friend is always supposed to be on your side. Being betrayed by her hurt far more than being betrayed by him.
  • Yeah, I have.
  • If I was, it was so long ago that I don't remember it.
  • Yup.. when i was in my sophomore year in hs... she invited me on her birthday and told me that the party will be at DON HENRICO's and I waited for her, her other friends, some our classmates and guess what, it turns out that the party was held at the YELLOW CAB... I was such a fool to trust her... and she gave me a lame excuse that the party was cancelled because they were alll sick!!!!! and me, being a 14 yr old girl who is still young, gullible and naive, gave her a chance and be my best friend for 3 years!!! until, 2 of my good frineds already spoke up to me about the "REAL"because I told them about her problem attitudes.. and that, I had cut my communication withy her... until our sem break during my freshman yr in college, she apologized but... It was really hard for me to forgive her because we only talked with each other in cellphone not personally nad by showing that she wanted to rekindle our friendship, she keeps on textin g me quotes... but for me, it won't work... coz I've lost my trust and I've learned... it's been 3 years since we haven't seen and talked with each other.. I've learned o be careful with my friends and also I've learned to trust and gain more friends who are better than her... In the end, my parents were right, not all friends are there for you... I was very hurt by what my former best friend did to me... not only that she lied to me but She betrayed me and that's the thing that will take longer time for me to forgive her... but i'm feeling much better now nad happy.. =) becuase in the end, God was there for me to face all my battles.. =)
  • I Thought I had a good friend. But it's all an illusion. I made her/him my best- but in reality I need one so I made one up. Now I know better I don't need a best- I just let them be the best as they can- imperfect and all, so my friends are all best in their own ways not mine.
  • Oh dear gawd yes. I am so strictly loyal to my friends. I'm usually the one getting betrayed.
  • Yup! I defended by best friend to the bitter end only to find out that she actually did what she SWORE to me she didn't do.
  • Yeah. When he made a pass at me in my house after I was married in front of his wife and in front of my husband. Now, we are no longer friends though I am still friends with his wife.
  • Yuppers...thanks for nothing, God.
  • not to my knowledge :)
  • yup...and it sucks 2 did it happen 2 u b/c i am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo srry it feels HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'(
  • No, only by one that I "thought" was my best friend. Obviously, he was not.
  • yes which is why she is no longer and will never be my friend again.:)
  • Yup. Some people just do anything to be "cooler", than I am. -.-
  • Yes, she did and it hurt me so much, but now im over it and over her...
  • yes.......she is no longer a friend of mine!
  • Not yet, and I hope I never am.
  • yes i have and that was the worse day of mi life! mi friend betryed my over the dude she was fucking and it has been a month and i havent spoke to her since!!! it really hurts
  • yes, unfortunatly...my best friend not only just stole the guy i was dating, she lied about it and slept with him, got him not to talk to me anymore, and then left him and asked if we could have our friendship back...and this was with the one guy i was in love with
  • Oh yeah! We went into business together and based on our close friendship I believe everything she said she would do in the venture. She was actually planning a move out of state all the while. Because we were such * good friends*, we did not have a partnership agreement...you know just trusted one another. I got royally screwed. She still doesn't see that she did anything that I should have gotten so upset about. I think that hurt the most...that she would never own what she did.
  • yes, three different times.
  • yes, when we were like 14-15 years old.... a little insight: i was the one who betrayed a friend (as an adult) and let me tell you, when you are the betrayER instead of the betrayEE??? i believe you get it worse in the end...no one can run bullshit on you cuz you KNOW how bad things can be, you know about people's lies, etc so it makes you aware of what people can do and how they can do it... so it kind of eats you up for years why am i posting this? to let all you people out there who've been betrayed know that the person who betrayed you definitely gets it in the end, just as we deserve peace to all of you
  • yeah.. he cheated on me :( i never thought in a million years he would do what he did.. i forgave him.. but it was the most excruciating and devastating feelings i've ever felt.. he cheated on me again..and caught him red handed. the second time i thought my heart was going to explode because it was just beating so fast, i couldn't breathe, and i felt so nauseous..
  • Yes. He had an affair with my then wife but now ex-wife.
  • Yes she was my best friend or so I thought she slept with my b/f.
  • Yes. 14 yrs ago she told my fiance a blatant lie about me that ultimately broke us up.She has stopped talking to me for no apparent reason several times and for months.I realized finally she is not my friend.
  • Yes,a long time ago.We didn't talk for a long time and she now lives in another state.I am reminded every once in awhile why I don't confide anything important to her anymore ;)
  • I'm starting to feel that way. I swear everytime it happens, I grow more and more unsympathetic.

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