ANSWERS: 32
  • Don't be the rebound guy..she's no good for you.
  • She made her choice when she took up with this other guy. Why should you be her "safety net"? I hope you have another woman lined up by now and you can tell this former girlfriend "Sorry, no can do" I think she has lots of nerve wanting you to take her back. You are 100 percent correct, what does prevent her from doing this again? As far as your name goes "I'm not good". You are probably much better than you think.
  • Obviously there is something missing in her life that she thought you couldn't provide. Unless you figure out what is the missing piece, I would move on. There are plenty of wonderful people out there, that are looking for some one just like you, and you will no it without a doubt when it happens.
  • she doesn't deserve to be with you. move-on without her.
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  • say no in the most hurtful way possible, make her regret leaving you. Dont take her back
  • say no in the most hurtful way possible, make her regret leaving you. Dont take her back
  • Buy her a "distributor"......cap. <..........>
  • Don't go back to her. She doesn't deserve you.
  • I have been in this situation before and i have taken her back after she left me for my best friend. The final results were her and i not dating after trying again. so its probably not worth it. If you love her idk what to tell you because she might be the one for you or she might be a learning experience. Do what you feel is best.
  • I agree - at this point she's just wanting a place to stay. If you were together for two years and she left for another, then she'll do it again. Good Luck!
  • What have you been doing the last two years waiting on her to return ? No new ladies in your life all that time ? In answer to your query : Sure take her back until you find someone better whitch does not seem likely being you been alone two years and she is better than masturbating I suppose , here is a change to get your dick straitened out bend from all that chicken chocking you sad bastard.
  • Well maybe he has a bigger dick than you or a thicker wallet - but now she spent through his cash and or he can't get it up or something - but she knows she has an ace in the hole a dope like you who probably will take her back because if your coming here looking for answers your not to bright anyway. Good luck sucker !
  • I wouldn't take her back! That is just my opinion, I think you would be setting yourself up to get hurt again! Good luck!
  • If she did it once there is a good chance that she will do it again. It hurt you the first time, but the pain will be doubled if you allow her to do it again
  • She getting dicked by another dude for two months. More than likely hes kicked her to the curb and she is needy at this point for a warm bed. She was not thinking about you when he was blocking her hat so why are you even considering taking her back. Don't be a schmuck........ but if your dumb enough to take her back better have her checked for stds before you start rooting her again.
  • Yes she will do it again. Don't trust her.
  • My dear friend, One good turn deserves another. So if I were u I would go back to her, then dump her as she did with you. This way she will know how it feels to be treated like garbage!!!!
  • I guess it all depends on why you both broke up to begin with & how much you really love her. There had to of been some good things in your relationship back when or you would of not been together for 2 yrs. If the problems that caused the breakup still exist things will probably not work out in the long run. I would take it slow & resolve any of these conflicts or at least agree to work on them. Most everyone deserves a second chance but, you both need to communicate your true feelings to each other. You will know from that if you are just someone to be with until the next one comes along. Use your gut feeling & decide if you can truely trust her because without trust the relationship will never work. Take your time- do not rush back into a living situation until you are sure. Good Luck!
  • Wow feel your pain. . . my suggestion is let her go, you set her free before do it again i wish i was two months down that road
  • Give her the axe....cut her off. SO...you take her back...now what? You are gonna have that doubt in the back of your head for the rest of your relationship. If she is worth that mental torture...thats on you.
  • No don't take her back. When she realise she can come and go whenever she wants she'll leave you again. And if you're the man, why did she leave you?
  • How long was it after she left you and when she got together with this guy? If there was lieka couple of months between when she broke up with you and then started dating this guy, I say she was probably going through a stage. Didn't know what she wanted and after being wiht the guy for 2 months, she may realise that you are the one for her.
  • Don't take her back she is nothing for what she did to you ,unless you take her back and then dump her, don't get mad get even
  • Look this girl just wants a place to shack up at until the next male with a paycheck comes along...give someone else a shot at the lovable person you are! :) Good Luck!
  • Take her back and then dump her, she deserves it.
  • there is a technique to taking her back. in the end, it is your vote that matters not that of the sad angry souls out here. But don't take her easily. start dating her like it's a new relationship and make jusdgment whether you still think you like her. once things happen, keep the past in the past. Don't let the other guy make you insecure. and he probably was a rebound, not you. you dated for 2 years and something went wrong. figure it out before you decide to jump back in and take it slowly. If you are secure and being the man she fell in love with, she won't leave you for another guy. She probably needed someone to ease the hurt of the breakup on her.
  • Dont take her back. she will only end up breaking your heart again sweetie! keep your head up!
  • IDK, man, you can only decide. If she was really something then give it another go, but start all over again, from scratch, as if everything went down the drain and you need to get to know her all over again. But personally, I say fuck that bitch, you deserve better, that hoe doesn't deserve you, she fucked up, now her ass has to deal with her stupid-ass mistake. She did that shit consciously and it wasn't like she called you the day after or the week after and said that she fucked up. TWO FREAKIN' MONTHS! Do I need to tell you how much shit psychologically and emotionally can go down within two months? By that time I'm guessing you already bounced back. So that's my answer. If she was really something, give it another shot. If she was a normal type of girl, or a princess (the abercrombie and bitch wearin' type) then fuck that, man. You have standards, remember that.
  • listen man.My girlfriend left with a man and came back after 6 months I took her back. I did this because I loved her.so follow your heart. dont listen to others its your life.
  • Would you believe i stumbled on this blog because the exact same thing has just happened to me. Though it's too early yet to see if he'll come back. I'm a guy who's been with his boyfriend for the past 18 or so months. We just went to a tropical paradise holiday. i knew something was up, I pushed and pushed and it came to pass he's seeing another guy. What's more, after only knowing the guy for three weeks, he claims to be in love. My story is too early in to tell if he'll come want to come back to me (he said he didn't love me anymore and only loves this new guy), but if he does end this and want to come back, i have an idea of what to do. I think because i still love him so much, I'd take him back but it would be like a new relationship, like someone above said, make the past the past and get to know each other again like you were dating for the first time. I really do believe in the saying 'Nothing ever smells of roses, that rises out of rain', meaning that when your partner leaves you and jumps straight into a new relationship, it is already packaged up with duress, dishonesty, and trust issue. the new lover (who by the way is really innocent in all of this), already has trust issues with your ex, and rightly so. These issues could evolve to become anxiety that nags away at them early in the relationship. I do still love my ex; it's been only 4 days since it happened and I'm still alive (it's tough, i feel liked i've been kicked in the guts repeadedly, every day, not eating properly/leaving the house etc), and i believe that love overrides all. I'm a fool to keep loving someone who doesn't love me back anymore, but that's my cross to bear. If he comes back to me, it can only be because of love and not lonliness when this new relationship fails. i suggest you do the same.
  • your kind of asking for trouble cos there will always be that doubt in your head. If you love her though, why not try again. I split with my guy for 3 months and I met a few people between that but couldnt date anyone. We are back together now 1.5years and we actually learnt a lot from our time apart that nobody compares to him or me!! We are meant to be together I think. Good luck xxxxx

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