Why do Black men oppose the fact I am white and my wife is black more than white people do?
by 
Chris the other white meat
ANSWERS: 33
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Cause you stole one of our sugar mama's! Yo Dog, it ain't nuttin but a g thang
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You can't stop what SOME people think, and who cares!!!!!! Make you happy and the rest is easy!!!!:)
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We have to quit thinking of people by their color and think of everyone as people.
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its about time these people realised that we are all human beings,it doesnt matter what color we are. life would be boring if everyone was the same.
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I think alot of people try to make excuses for things they dont like, to try and make other people believe what they believe..so in your case they would say you hate yourself because your attracted to opposite race, because they themselves dont agree with it..Dont stress over it..I also date outside of my race and used to get alot of hell for it, but now my skin has thickened and I could care less what anyone else thinks, its about a preference..some prefer blonds some brunette, some like skinny women some like thicker women, some like butts some like boobs...I really believe it has to do with preference and not self hatred :)
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It is your hangup not theirs.
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they have never seen a booty like this
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becuase when some black men are in a relationship with white women all they can talk about is how much the black women (someone from their own race) isnt a good catch or other creative words that rhyme with Witch (not sure if you can cuss on here). As long as your attraction isnt based on race and sterotypes its fine, but unfortnately for the guys who really love girls and just happen to have an attraction to someone who isnt in their race theres other guys with the wrong intentions giving every black guy with an attraction to white females a bad name.
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I dont see how dating a white woman, would be self hatred, sounds more like self sastifying. I would guess, they are jealous or mad because they think you should stick to your own race.
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I dunno. Life isint easy people just arent accepting of interracial dating. When my mom was young everyone use to call her a nigger lover and refer to me and my sibling as "halfcast babies" ..Some people, MOST people, on this earth were raised to judge other's who dont act/think/look like them.
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The only time i've EVER said that was when i've actually HEARD a black man degrade and stereotype ALL black women. They'll say things like: They're loud, too proud, they talk too much, cause too much drama, weave too much weave, call them all types of female dogs and whore, and then go ahead and praise white women all in the same breath. THAT to me is a man that has problems. He doesn't love or respect the woman that he came from. It sounds like a bit of self-hatred to me. But if you date outside of your race just because that's what you PREFER, then I have no problems with that. But if you're degrading another race in the process, that's when I feel like there's a problem.
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I've never heard that. Mind you, I'm a white bloke who goes out with an Asian lassie. Does that mean I hate myself?
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If you are a man who lives in America, Canada, or Europe, it's hard to not to find white women attractive, no matter what race you are. We are constantly bombarded by images of attractive white women on TV, film and print, but how many minority women do you see in the media?
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I will tell you this and this is only in my experience so I am not saying it is with everyone. But one of the attractions I have with White Women is how they treat me over our Sistahs. You can take this how you want but with the Sistahs I had to fight for everything. Everything was a fight. A fight to spend money and fight to go out with da boyz a fight in the bedroom on certain things and with White Women there really isnt any of that. The appreciate me much more and because of that they get A LOT more from me. Not dissn anyone here and not saying this is a fact everywhere but in my deal thats how it worked so this self-hatred with some of the brothas may come from being told he aint jack from the Sistahs and with the White Ladies, they are more like "You is da Bomb Bebe".
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there's a lot of ignorance in this world...
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I noticed this too, but I've also noticed that it is mostly hypocrites that say this to make themselves feel better.
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just silly people holding on to racial hatred. I am in an interracial relationship as well and have had some people say some pretty stupid and small minded things. You like what you like and forget what other people think...I myself just find myself more attracted to asian women (I am white) and love knows no color
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Don't worry, brother. We love who we love. I was driving down the street with a male client in my car this week (I am black, he is white) and he said did I realize that he is getting hate stares from black guys wondering why he is with one of theirs? The world is a jacked-up place. Very few of us have the ability to change THE WORLD (like Ghandi, etc.) So we just have to make our way peacefully in a way that makes sense to us. Signed: a black chick who LOVES my Jewish men. (Ha.)
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wclac I would try to not even feed into that criticism or whatever it is. Love should know no color and always listen to your heart. I think it's great that you realize it as non-sense why would ever want to limit yourself to who you are attracted to. People who freak out about not allowing themselves to date who they are interested in based on skin color etc are the ones that have a very visible and real issue. Take care Matt
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THEY STILL LOVE THE SISTAS, BUT HAPPEN TO BE THE ONE WHO GOT HIS HEART IN MOST CASES. THERE IS SOME EXCEPTIONS. SOME PEOPLE DO.
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Ignore what others think, chalk it up to ignorance.
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Who cares what they think people complain ingnore it and live life.
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Wow really? People are very closed minded. Thats bull shit man you love who you love regardless of gender or race. Fuck what they think if you're happy thats what matters right? The world needs more love and if you've got your own little piece people are bound to be jealous. Stay true to yourself.
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Stupid people generalize.I'd ignore it and live my life the way I want.
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It would make no difference to me being a black man. Do what you want to do. I run into the same problem with some folk because I date white women so I understand... Forget about these people. They need to get a life
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Your question sounds like a generalization, and generalizations never serve justice to rest of us who don't give a damn if your wife is black or blue.
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Possessiveness?! ;-)
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I really don't know. But I'm a black man and I don't have a problem with black women with white men. My sister is married to a white man.
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Its a racial Adam & Eve vs Lilith.
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Jealousy, perhaps?
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I think their jealous and wish they were you. These same men probably wouldn't have had a chance with your wife before you met her anyway. And then, you have those who think they weren't good enough for her, so they torture you for feeling this way.
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Partly because of the way us whites treated them in the old days. Blacks haven't forgotten the past. Neither have we. I've had crushes on many a black girl; the black guys didn't like that.
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It's some kind of stupid macho thing that has recently been going around the lower classes of the black communities. You need to find a better class of people with which to socialize. I have a belief that our distant ancestors will all be a nice tan color and this whole race thing will go away.
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