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  • Probably shouldn't, but thats entirely up to you. IF you are ready to deal with the consequences that can come from it. STD, death, pregnancy, pain, ruining relationships. Those are all possibilities. FYI, I was 13 when I lost mine and I didn't stop to think of consequences
  • God NO! I admit, I was 14 too. You don't know as much as ya think you do at that age. You only get your first time once, make it count...
  • why do you want to? i dont think you should yet you have your whole life i'm only 16 and i sorely regret having sex at 14 i luckly didnt get any diseases or pregnant but he didnt deserve it... i would advise against it but if you must use a condom no matter what he says about it dont feel right or hes not diseased or hell pull out or whatever cause boys lie
  • In my opinion, your first time should be saved for someone you know you're in love with. Wait until then.
  • go for it, you learn from your mistakes but if you want to your the only one who can make the right choice.
  • Hell no. Wtf? I was 15 when I lost mine and take it for me you need to wait. Give it to someone that really cares about you. It takes a while to really know if someone really cares about you. So just chill out.
  • NO! You are going to give it away all ready? What will you have to look forward in the future? Would you not want to be disease free and not pregnant? There is a huge responsibility that goes along with having sex in many areas. Have you talked to your parents about this? When will you talk to them? You want to be all used up by the time you reach adulthood?
  • Oh hun i wouldn't. First Sex isn't what it is cracked up to be. 2. you want to wait, the person you are thinking about having sex with will not be with you later in life. There are STD's AIDS, pregnancy. Be a 14 year old have fun but don't have sex. That is the last thing you should think about. I know it is hard when probably everyone is having sex around you but one is going to get hurt or get pregnant. Or have a STD. Just wait, make out and have fun but stay away from the sex, wait for someone special. I hope you make the right choice. I was 16 when i got pregnant, man i wished i had waited, and the person who got me pregnant isn't even here to help nor does he want to.
  • If you really want to then go ahead. But before you actually do it, think about every single consequence that could sprout from the loss of your virginity. You could become pregnant, there are chances of STD's, and it could definitely affect your future sex life, and etc. No, I don't think you should have sex.
  • NO NO NO.. dont be hasty.. for goodness sake, think of the consequenses, what if you caught an STD, AIDS or what if you fell pregnant??? dont think it wont happen the first time, it CAN and DOES happen. You have your whole life in front of you.. lots of time to have sex after you are at least 16, which in my opinion is still too young... please talk to your parents if you can or someone else but dont rush into this. Really at 14 you shouldnt even be considering this.
  • I wouldn't do it, but I can't really tell you what to do. I think that you could stand to wait a few years, though.
  • well you're going to no matter what anyone says, but no! I was 13 and it didn't hurt, I didn't think about it, I didn't get pregnant, I didn't get diseased... until later - irregular periods lasting about 6 weeks at a time, laying off for 2, then coming on again, what fun... when I was 19 I had fibroids and I had to have multiple operations to remove cysts from my ovaries leaving ugly great scars on my stomach, leaving only half an ovary behind and adhesions that gave me pain if I had good sex thereafter. Later, after years of enduring this, I couldn't see the point of it any longer.. had a hysterectomy. I haven't any kids, lucky for me I didn' want any. I was 26. Think about it fluffnut (great name!)... you could find other ways to have sex other than full intercourse, you know... and I mean so that you get pleasure too. Besides, you're not legal!!!
  • I dont understand why would anyone want to surrender his or her state of purity and innocence so soon and that also for a few hot huffs and puffs by a boy who will be the ONLY one enjoying it.Make ur first time count because once its lost u can never get it back.In the mean time find some other selfhelp ways to deal with ur urges,if u know what i mean.
  • no i dont, liki what?
  • No. If it is with someone above the leagal age and you care about them, they could go to jail and you don't want that. Do you want to have a baby. Because it is a possiblity even if you use protection. Get an education!!! So you can take care of yourself when you get older. Then make a wise informed decision before you do it. Also, condoms do not protect you from all std's and let me tell you, you do not want to live with one for the rest of your life.
  • Yes, it is a natural thing and many people start from 14.. most of my friends at least. It is healthy wanting to do sex. Don't masturbate if you have the chance to do sex. My opinion. Plus if u don't want to get pregnant or get a disease like many and many repeat here make your boyfriend wear a condom. If u want 2 then do it.
  • Hell no! You keep your legs crossed!
  • No, the best advice I can give you is that make sure in your heart you know this is the right guy. Who knows, you might think your in love now, but there is no such thing at your age. It's puppy love. Teenage guys only want one thing and one thing only. there are a few who don't but they are slim to none. DON"T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT YOU DESERVE AND YOU DESERVE TO HAVE YOUR FIRST TIME WITH SOMEONE WHO REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU AND DON'T BUY INTO THAT IF YOU LOVE ME YOU'LL DO IT BULL SHIT.
  • No..Wait. You'll appreciate it when you're a bit older. Besides, you don't want to end up in any bad situations.
  • No you shouldn't.
  • UR CHoice but wear proctection or else it might ruin ur life...
  • Finger yourself hun lol. you cant get pregnate or get a diese from that. and its pretty much the same but without the naked mate. lol. ya i wanted to have sex at 14 but PREGNACY and AIDS scare the **** outta me... so do it yourself and see how you like it, but everything is your choice.
  • No! Please think about this. This decision WILL affect you whole life. You are still so young. Please talk to an adult you trust before you make any decision about whether or not to have sex. If you do it, you will most likely regret it (even if you don't have issues like pregnancy or diseases). Please wait...it's worth waiting for.
  • No. You are not ready. You have plenty of time to experiment if you are comfortable with that (mutual touching and so on). But at his age, he will not be able to keep a secret.
  • dont let it go so soon!!! my first time wasn't as GRAND as i thawt it would be!!! it was NOTHING like i thought it would be... ur young and prolly really smart so do what u believe is right
  • hm... teen pregnancy happens at the ages 14-16 the most on minorities. think you still want it now?
  • wait you will regret it . i know ya think its want you want but believe me you will regret it for not waiting for a guy when you 17teen or 18teen that you really love .
  • go for it, yea their consequences, but thats for the idiots who don't use a fricken condom, jeez.
  • I had sex at a young age. I didn't regret it until I found my fiance. Think of staying a virgin a rarity. Everyone seems to be growing up too fast nowadays. I am going to be 20 in May and I wish that time would go by slower. What I am trying to say is that no one can tell you what to do because you are going to do what you want anyway. Just think about how you are going to feel about not being a virgin when you meet Mr. Right.

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