ANSWERS: 100
  • You'll find one...but your only 14..So i would wait a year or 2
  • Be patient. Just enjoy having regular friends and leave the boyfriends to the losers. When you find the right boy, you'll know it, and until then, you're only messing stuff up by messing around.
  • Chill out. You're fine. :) If you're worried that all your friends have boyfriends and you don't, think of what they're probably doing- eating lunch together, having their moms drive them to movies. Not much to be jealous of. ;)
  • Do not worry about it you are still young I was a lot older before I had a boyfriend.
  • Worry about something else. You are too young for that kind of complication in your life.
  • Stop listening to whoever's telling you that you need a boyfriend at 14. or 15 or 16 etc.
  • concentrate on studying and expanding your horizons in other directions. boys are not worth it at that age, i would wait till after highschool.
  • yup dont worry about that now, just live your live.. you a teenager, spend time with friends, go out movies, you know!! i think 18 is a good age to have a serious relatiion,
  • You're not doing anything wrong. RELAX! You're too young anyway. Just take life slowly and enjoy being a kid before you invite all of that drama into your life.
  • You're not doing a thing wrong. Enjoy it while you can.
  • You're not doing anything wrong! If this makes you feel better, I am my boyfriend's first girlfriend. We started dating when he was 17. He didn't do anything wrong, and I love him for who he is! In fact, I love that he doesn't just date anyone and is careful in his selection. Don't have a boyfriend until the time is right, even if you get the chance! Stay strong! :)
  • your not doing anything wrong. i enjoy girls that i know did not date someone just because they did not have a boyfriend. If it makes you feel any better im 18 and oly dated one person for about 8 months.
  • Nothing. Your making a good choice.
  • Nothing your 14 , just give yourself time
  • Nothing.
  • nothings wrong with being smart.
  • Nothing is wrong. You are only 14, you should be learning and having fun with your friends. You have your whole life to worry about relationships. Give it time, it will come.
  • There is nothing wrong...you eventually will be in a relationship. Take your time...there is NO rush... Just enjoy yourself.
  • Nothing is wrong, you are perfectly normal, and dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
  • Nothing. I had my first boyfriend at 13, but to be honest I wish my boyfriend right now was my first boyfriend. I'm 17 now. You're smart. Don't ever feel bad about being smart.
  • 14 is definitely 2 young 2 have a serious relationship, my 1st one wasn't til i was 18
  • your not 14 your 13! LOLNESS
  • Nothing!!! And don't rush it. Don't let peer pressure push you into a 'serious' relationship when you are not ready.
  • Wait till you are 25 before even thinking of having a boyfriend. First finish all your school and that includes college. Then get a career after that you can think aobut having a boyfriend but not before.
  • Enjoy life. A boyfriend will just complicate things.
  • Nothing until you're 17 or 18, then start thinking about it.
  • haha don't worry! 14's young. :) when the time is right.. then it will happen.
  • im 15 and have never had a girlfriend, but i don't get picked on because of it. its really nothing to be worried about, those boys may be n00bs, though i don't know cause i don't know them. but really its not much to be worried about
  • are you ugly and weird and unpopular - if not dont worry about it, if so, dont worry about it, theres someone out there for everyone
  • If I were you I'd be more focused on getting a good education instead of boys at your age. Then when you are a little older and you are educated and successful all of those loser guys that have no jobs and screwed up in school will be wishing they hadn't slept with sluts and became teenage parents. There's plenty of time in your life for guys. You only get one chance at getting a good education and making the decisions that will affect you for the rest of your life!
  • You're 14. You don't need a boyfriend. Popularity means nothing in reality. You're probably not ugly and you're probably not weird. It sounds like you know a lot of insecure people. I have been called ugly and weird myself. I've also been called stupid. You know what, though? I am the one who ended up with a decent guy. I'm 18 now. Anyway, here is my advice to you: Focus on your school work right now. Don't focus on boys. Try to do well in school while these other students around you are trying to be "cool" and trying to "fit in". You will probably be way ahead of them in the future if you do this. Make the best out of your situation. You're not weird and you're not a loser and you're not ugly just because you haven't had a boyfriend yet. It's pretty lame for people to pick on people for that reason. If they're really so happy in their relationships, why would they feel the need to pick on anyone? Think about it, please.
  • Think of it this way. The average age for marraige in the US is 25. If you got married at the average age, that gives you 11 years to date. You're only 14 years old now, so 11 years is a whole other LIFETIME to you. In other words... Chill out, you have plenty of time.
  • lol...be happy...trust me...it's not all it's cracked up 2 be...
  • thats normal, dont worry about it, i didnt have a boyfriend till i was 16
  • uuh, you're only 14? you dont really need a boyfriend, do you?
  • Wait 4 years.
  • I know everyone says "dont worry" or "it doesnt matter, focus on your schoolwork" i personally know that, although it shouldnt it does matter. but YOUR doing nothing wrong. Someone just hasnt realized how wonderful you are. let it happen, dont force it. ihad a bf at 12 and it was so awkward and so not a bf. it was no fun i wanted 2 b with my freinds more than him
  • Consider yourself lucky. You are too young to have a "boyfriend" at 14. Be patient and concentrate on you, your studies and the achievement of the dreams you may have.
  • u dont do nothing ulll get one when the time comes
  • That's normal. U ll get one soon. Dont worry about that.
  • dont rush it. You have plenty of time.. relationships tend to complicate things anyways. Be young, enjoy it. I never had a boyfriend till I was 16. im 19 now and I have been with the same wonderful guuy for the last 3 years. wait until the right guy comes along for you. Besides.. boys need more time to mature that girls do ( sorry guys, its a proven fact ) Hope this helped :)
  • Your still very young! Give it time and it will happen! :o)
  • Relax,enjoy your life right now. Don't rush things.You are still young and have plenty of time for relationships later. I know it is hard when you want what other people have and then wonder what you should do. But it will happen soon enough.
  • Please don't get pregnant before you graduate high school. (P.S. I fully intend on going through my whole life without ever having a boyfriend or girlfriend and that's fine by me.)
  • What should you do? Wait a couple more years and realize how silly you're sounding right now.
  • just continue to be yourself and when the right boy comes along.......you'll both feel lucky :)
  • 14? You should not even be thinking about this stuff, much less worried. You have high school, college, first real job, YEARS of guys looking at you before you should ask this question.
  • Just wait,,,you are still VERY young
  • Whatever you do, don't just get a boyfriend because you feel like you need one, or because everyone else has one. I think socrateswasfat (who has an awesome username), hit it perfectly when he said there's nothing wrong with being smart, because it's smart to not try and find a guy because it's expected for teenagers to have boyfriends and girlfriends. You sound like a smart kid, don't let stupid people bring you down.
  • STAY 14 AND FROW UP!
  • it's not a bad thing!!! Don't rush into a relationship just to be in one. most of them in high school dont work out. so dont worry about ;) its completly normal
  • I never had a girl friend when I was 14 yet. You're alright, don't worry about it.
  • Because you're very young and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's perfectly normal. Live your life and be the best you you can be and the rest will follow in its own time. Try not to measure yourself against what everybody else is doing. I know that's difficult, especially at your age, but try- it's a lesson that will serve you well in life.
  • What? I didn't get a REAL boyfriend until my senior year of highschool. Don't rush sweetie. Guys at your age aren't good for anything except for friendships. All of my friends started young and they have a BUNCH of issues that i'm glad I don't have to deal with.
  • because you are too good for them
  • there's nothing wrong with being 14 and never having a boyfriend...i didn't have my first boyfriend until i was 16 or so...don't try so hard to find one and one will be waiting right around the corner
  • I didn't have a boyfriend until i was 16. now i'm still with the same guy. there's nothing wrong with that.
  • Live life.
  • there nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend at 14 you just havent found him yet
  • Enjoy your time and age as you are. When the time is right you will meet someone, plenty of someones I'm sure. Don't be in a hurry. Your childhood years are gone at 18.
  • nothing.. be yourself and be patient.. someone will find you ... xx
  • I'm nearly 20 and haven't had a bf...HAHAHAHA...don't worry...the best comes to those that wait...anyways...there are more important things in life than dating...
  • you're only 14 - be patient!
  • Im thirteen have a bf and i HATE it. feels like ur on a leash. ur so lucky to be single. enjoy it while u can!
  • Enjoy your freedom. Having sexual relationships, is like lighting a fuse. There's only one way it can end, and if you're too young to take responsibility, it can ruin your life. There's NOTHING wrong with waiting.
  • Count Yourself Lucky
  • nothing...relax
  • honey, your still young, be patient. dont rush it.
  • Drop to your knees, and thank god. High school relationships usually suck.
  • GO back to living and learning and enjoy your life. Make lots of friends, develop interests. Learn how to become a great person with good values and fine qualities, become the spouse you would love to find and later you will one day find one. But there is no rush for something this important.
  • Your fourteen, then concentrate on the school work,I mean it honestly,you have so many years ahead of you,so many wonderful years,please dont spoil them by getting hooked on love now,first you must look in the mirror and be able to say "Ihave made it",you dont need a boyfriend,concentrate on yourself first,believe me,they will come soon enough and in many forms. Concentrate on your school years,they are so important for your future.
  • Live love laugh dance ~ smile and be happy to be you ~ free of any restraints of adult like relationships and worries :)
  • be thankful and enjoy your teen years
  • girl im 19 years old, my first love was when i was 15 and i was with him 3 years. when u have a boyfriend u have responsibilities, risk getting hurt. dont go there, live ur life!!
  • Be a teenager. Go to school. Hang out with your friends. DOnt worry about having a boyfriend to define you. You'll have plenty of time for that when college arrives.
  • Nothing wrong with that! your younge so dont worry you have all the time in the world x
  • You should stop worrying about it. I know that sounds impossible at your age but trust me; you'll have MORE than enough time when you're older to have a relationship. I know this probably isn't the answer you're looking for but you need to concentrate on school as it will take you farther in life then a guy. Plus, men are attracted to educated women and when it does happen, you'll find a quality guy who is interested in you for your body AND mind.
  • Dont worry about it, I didn't have a boyfriend till last year, and I'm turning 20 :P
  • The longer you can wait to start experimenting with boys the better. You are still very young and a lot of parents won't even let their daughters date until they are 16. Don't rush things. Use your time now to focus on school and friends and fun. There is plenty of time in the future for you to start dating. The older you are the more mature you should be and will hopefully help you to make wiser choices in both who you eventually date and the types of relationships you will have with these boys. I had my first kiss when I was 12 and pretty much had non stop boyfriends ever since (until I got married of course). Looking back, I really wish my parents hadn't let me get involved with boys so young. I found myself in a lot of situations that I just wasn't ready to handle. I think my friends who waited until college to date were much better off for it.
  • Enjoy the freedom! But seriously, just be yourself...and you will get one! Don't try to be someone that you are not!
  • I'm turning 18 and don't have a boyfreind or have never been on a date. I've been asked, but I'm not ready. Your only 14. Enjoy your teenage years...they go by so fast, believe me! :D Don't rush into this, society makes it look like your not normal or whatever if you don't have a boyfreind. That is so not true. We don't need bf to complete us...life isn't all about dating, boys, and sex. Try and have fun, hang with your buds, learn new things, crush on guys and flirt. The right guy will come along. Plus, chasing them doesn't help. When the right guy comes, you'll be waiting. Just take it slow. and not having a bf doesn't mean your ugly or anything! It just means that there is someone special out there for you. ENJOY LIFE!!! ITS AWESOME!!!
  • Consider yourself lucky and your Dad even luckier.:)
  • you are too young to think about that. study first before anything else. once you finish your studies and have a great job many men will be after you.
  • i'm 14 and i haven't had a boyfriend either.it's alright,i mean that shouldn't be a problem there's time for everything
  • Don't worry about it enjoy your childhood. You can wait until you're 16 to start worrying about things that will all too soon turn into a plethora of mixed emotions, torment and heartbreak between the good ones. There is no rush for all that take it easy on yourself.
  • Be a teenager, it will come when you leas expect it. Until then be safe and have fun.
  • nothing. live life.
  • Consider yourself lucky. Sexual relationships are too much to master while you are still getting a hold on life in general. Also, remember that a person's worth is not determined by who they are with, but what they do with their life. You can do just about everything out there without anyone's help, and everything with a good friend. Sex may seem mysterious, but there is nothing to it but the excitement of a physical act and the emotions and relationship that goes with it. It does not solve all your problems, and will not keep people from looking down on you. Learn who you are and accept yourself, and having a boyfriend will no longer be a problem. Fending off their many advances will be a problem!
  • Am ready to be your boyfriend, will u accept me? if not, live the freedom life. be happy coz u will not be having any problems.
  • Well you should only want to be in a relationship cause you really like the person. And if you're saying you're 14 and haven't had a boyfriend, what should i do, then chances are you like the idea of having a boyfriend more than you'd like the person. believe me, having a boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't make you cooler.
  • consider yourself lucky. You are too young still. Enjoy being a kid without the troubles of having boys hurt your feelings. The rules in life seem to change once you get a boyfriend. First, you want to spend more time with your bf and not your gf. Then, your gf gets mad and won't talk to you, then, your bf breaks up with you and then you want to get comfort from your gf but she is still mad at you. Then.........Its not pretty.
  • Don't be in such a big rush to get pregnant.
  • go get one
  • it's okay. don't worry about it. it doesn't matter. i'm 16 and my sis is 17 going on 18 and neither of us has ever been on a date! you sould wait until you feel okay with dating, or are allowed to date, then everything will be okay :D!
  • Your too young to have a boyfriend. Try again when you are at least 16. Good Luck!! p.s. don't try to grow up so fast..one day you will want to be 14 again..trust me!!!!!
  • I'm 18, and I've never had a boyfriend. I didn't feel I was ready. I think I am now, but I certainly wasn't at 14. My guess is that you aren't either. Don't worry about it. He'll come along exactly when you need him. ;)
  • Look for a boyfriend!;) kidding. well, there's nothing wrong with that if you still haven't got a boyfriend yet at 14..you still have a lot of years to wait for that someone special. Just take your time. Remember, you cannot force someone to have a relationship with you..just wait and let the boys fall for you, ok? That's why we have this so called "falling in love" because you or someone falls for you or vice versa.
  • dont do anything. dont rush into a relationship. when youre ready, love will come to you and it will be the best feeling in the world. TRUST ME
  • You will soon !Life has got everything for everyone!Keep patience and have inner eyes open!Judge who will be better for long term relationship ,among you like.Don't go for someone who is not compatible with you,as no one is going to give you medal for your deeds!!

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