Is there anything wrong with being a bit of a tease?
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fyrespryte
ANSWERS: 34
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Personally ;-) I am of the mindset that for a guy to be a bit of a tease is entertaining for the guy that's going for his girl, and for the girl to be a tease is a natural defense mechanism for the guy that is meant to break through the wall and ride her out on the "white steed". therefore, BOTH sides should be "teasing", or "playing the game" in order for the real truth of love to be established.
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It's difficult to know how much a "bit" is. Since everyone has their own opinions what might be a little bit to one person is a whole lot of something to another. I personally feel that if someone is a tease, then they are not very trustworthy and I lose a "little bit" of respect for them.
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I think that being a bit of a tease is ok. Its only when you go overboard and the teasing becomes hurtful, and starts tearing down that I think it becomes wrong.
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its okay to be a tease as long as everyone knows that you're teasing. that way, everyone is in on the game. otherwise its just cruel.
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Becarefull there are many dangerous personality types that are predators .protect yourself at all times.If your run in to1 of these people it will change your life,not for the better.
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so long as your not a 'prick tease' ... no flirting is cool:)
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Nothing, but be careful. Things can be interpreted differently by different folks.
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No. I think it's hot!
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yes I think I lost two friends today because I was goofing around and unintentionally upset others :(
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Teasing a guy isn't cool. Its like holding a steak in front of a dog. At first its funny but after a little while you feel bad for the dog who has his hopes on getting that steak when you know he won't be getting it.
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As with other forms of "teasing" - that is, joking around as opposed to being sexually flirtatious - you have to have a feel for your audience. Some people are easily offended. Some people have poor emotional skills and may well misinterpret your intentions. I would think that a girl who did much teasing would likely find that she soon had a lot of guys trying to make serious moves on her - which is probably not a situation that many would really want.
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it's better than being a "bit of a slut"
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Not if the other person is horny to begin with. That is kind of like playing with fire at that point.
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I'm a self-professed tease. But there's ways to be a tease and not have someone get tired of it - you should give up a little every now and then. Following the earlier gentleman's comment about it being 'like holding a steak in front of a dog', instead of the dog getting nothing, you give him little pieces at a time. Moderation, people. :D Just being a total tease and never letting the other party receive any benefits makes you a tease no longer - it makes you a c***tease (applicable to all sexualities). And that's REALLY not a good title.
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I think it is blatant false advertising..if you're not going to deliver, you are a liar..if you are going to deliver, then you are not a tease! :(
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Each person is responsible for what they think and the feelings they experience. Attempting then to evaluate the rightness or wrongness of this behavior seems rather moot - as this behavior is about you - and who you think, at times, that you are. So the question here might be, of what value is "being a bit of a tease" to you? By "being a bit of a tease," it may be that you are attempting to convince yourself that you are, in some way, something that you are not. An example of what you are NOT is: responsible for what others think and the feelings they experience.
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It depends... if you are being a bit of a tease to everyone then your a horrible person. If your being a bit of a tease to your significant other, then its "generally" okay. But at some time you will have to stop teasing and start pleasing.
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Absolutely NOT! :D
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I do not feel there is anything wrong with being a tease, because teasing could be taken as a form of foreplay ya know? But if you're teasing someone to the point of self indulgence, then that's when it's wrong. Come on now... honestly why would you want to give a man blue balls for nothing? They say it hurts... but if that was your intentions in the first place and he deserved it... be my guest Haha, but on a real note... it's all good when it's all fun.
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a tease..probably so a flirt..no problem
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Yes, there's a lot wrong with it because it gives false witness to who you are and it creates the wrong kind of intimacy with people.
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Not if you're single. If you're married, your wife or hubby might not appreciate it.
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HA! Look at how much money men throw away on women who do nothing but tease them - lets face it, strippers are strippers because they like the money. Is it okay to be a tease? Ask the patrons of strip clubs, they love it! Otherwise, to lead someone on is a lie, so it depends on how you feel about lying...
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Yes---being a bit of a tease is a tease in itself. Either you're an all out tease or your not. Make up your mind!!
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if your a girl no not really. the only thing most girls have to offer guys is sex, therefore its important you make the most of it!
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If you ask for trouble then you really can't complain when you get it. It comes from that "it's all fun and games until someone gets hurt" mentality.
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Not if its with your partner! a bit of fun is good!
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Depends on what you mean by that. Nothing wrong with flirting and having fun with people. If you're hurting people or malicious, that's not good.
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Depends on how much time I have.
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Not at all!
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no it proves your not easy
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I think flirting is healthy. Tease seems to put more of a game spin on the concept.
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Getting raped?
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Nope, teasing is fun ;) +5
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