Well the only way you can find out is to stop buying them what ever they want and see how long they stick around,if they leave you then you have your answer.

It could be but then again maybe they just like older men. Believe it or not some girls at that age find older men much more appealing for various reasons. If you want to be sure of their intentions tell them you lost everything and you are broke. If either of them continue to stay with you after that news then you know it was because they like you and not the money.

The fact that you think that's a reason should be a red flag. But their looks don't really matter. I've always dated older guys, and some that may not have been conventionally good-looking. But I sure thought they were. Money was never an issue because I make plenty. So, basically, I wouldn't assume they are with you for your money. Maybe you're a genuinely good guy and they genuinely like you.

It's because you have not met me yet.

Whats your number? lol =P

You know, I wonder why you feel like you have to your girlfriends "whatever they want"? Is it because you worry you don't have enough going for you unless you splash the cash around? The problem with that is you probably are going to attract golddiggers. I'm not saying these women ARE golddiggers - but it is possible. Believe me a lot of women in their twenties do find middle aged guys more attractive than men their own age. A lot of women disregard age entirely, they just want to date a nice guy. But you shouldn't have to buy your girlfriends expensive presents to keep hold of their affection - being treated well is nice, but spending time with a woman, listening to her, and being good fun is far more appreciated than anything money can buy. I'm guessing you're a little insecure, right? Don't be - I am certain that you're money isn't all you've got going for you, so maybe you need to stop making it your main attraction. Try taking a girl out for a surprise drive in the country and stop off somewhere gorgeous. Invite her over to your house and just spend the evening with a video and a homecooked meal you made yourself. Write her a love letter or an email (you can go steamy sexy or romantic depending on the relationship and the girl)- do things where the value is not measured in money. If she's worth your while she'll appreciate it, if she starts moaning about how she wants to go shopping or to a fancy restaurant she's not worth your time. A guy flashing his money around is like the sexy woman who always has her boobs hanging out - you'll attract attention, it just might not be the kind you always want.

What do these women do for a living? What is their current living situation? There is a difference between a girl in her mid twenties who lives with her parents, goes to school, and works at the mall and a girl in her mid twenties who is indpendent and has a prefessional career. Not all women of this age are looking for handouts. But watch out for students. Especially those who maybe are living on their own.....maybe far away from "home", and looking for a father-figure. It is normal to feel insecure....my boyfriend who is older than me (I'm 23, he's 40) often asks "why me?" I'm not with him for his money (he really doesn't have much), and I really don't have much for expectations other than I just want to be treated well. Men in their 20s still haven't learned what women want......doesn't go for all men in their 20s, but for enough of them to point this out.

At first glance, and without knowing you or the whole situation, that seems most likely. If you keep buying her/them gifts, they're getting something out of the situation. They're using you. Try not adorning them with gifts for a week or two and see how long they stay nice and sweet, or if they even stay. You'll get your answer.

Without knowing anything else about the situation, PROBABLY. There's always a chance there could be more to it. Next question. How long can they hold YOUR interest?

Tell both of them that you are broke and see what happens

It depends on the type of woman we are talking about here. I wouldn't be surprised if that were the case. You have two of them so if you are getting taken for a ride just remember you got what you paid for and perhaps you deserve it. Dating two at a time doesn't exactly put you on the moral high-ground, nor does it engender much sympathy....good luck when they find out or you run out of presents for them.

Tis where the smart money is ;)

YES!!! If they know that you have money before they get with you YES 90 % of the time that is what first attracts younger women to older men! However... that might be the reason that they get with you but it might not be the reason they stay with you.. If it has lasted a year or more than their is most likely more there than just money! Try not letting them know you have money.. what ever girl stays, treat her she deserves it !

IMHO: We can generalize but can't really say much without knowing the girls, so I'm not going to say anything else.

i think you trying to buy beauty and not get love!why don't you date your favourite,spoil her.you have money thats the foremost thing most good looking women look for in a man,coz they need to maintain their looks!they don't want you but the benefits. i also think you trying to compensate for not looking good and thats why you have many and to comfort yourself using the money.

we have to have more info than that to say so but you have to make sure not to give them things or pay for much until you know theyre for real.

Is your name Tom? Women work in strange ways, some are there for love, some for money . It seems the more you make the more they take. It would be terriffic to see an independent woman who truly loves a man for who he is vica versa.. I know I have a man with a decent amoutn of money but that doesnt really fasciante me. Im totally in love with him and actually like to buy him things.. Its nice to get flowers or something once ina while, and go to a nice resturant on him, but I like to do the same for him.Looks only go so far on a woman, wouldnt you prefer brains over beauty and someone who will treat you great because you deserve it, not because you have money . maybe if they ahd to work for it like you then they would look at it different. Hope I added some insight..

What does "dating" mean to you? Do you just take them out places and buy them things, or are you having sex with all these different women?

Possibly, I'm kind of curious about what Anonymous up there said. I'm wondering what would happen if you told them you were broke. You should film it and make a reality TV show out of it. =)

Probably. Do you want another girlfriend? :o)

Yes, it is. Why, does it bother you? If it did, perhaps you should explore other options, like not being a sugar daddy for once.

If you have to ask then you know the answer. Sorry Buddy, it all about the Benjamin’s!

Nooooo!They like you for your six-pack abs and starving artist persona and your Emo hairpiece.

yes!

You set the standard... if you were dating them for a week and gave one a trip to fiji, and the other diamonds... then it's your own darn fault. If they ask you for presents openly and drop hints, or act like a spoiled child, and use their looks to manipulate you... then you've got Gold diggers on your hands. If you happen to be an interesting, solid, loving, funny, stable, caring, and sweet guy that is also generous than you may have a couple of "20 somethings" that feel they have found the perfect guy! If I were divorced tomorrow, I wouldn't be running out to date a guy in his twenties, I'd be looking at 30 -45 year olds that know who they are and what they want, and also know how to treat a woman! =) LOL. I think you know the answer to your question. IF you connect with someone you know it. If they are using you ..deep down you know it. Just because your not Brad Pitt doesn't mean that you don't deserve to be with a beautiful woman. Just because you have Money, doesn't mean that you can't find a woman that would love you if you didn't. Good luck!

well, duh. you are a sugar daddy.

I cant answer this question without knowing you in person. However I can assume possibilities. Also depending on where you live, they might find you an ideal person to be with. Some areas dont have a lot of good looking men. There are some people that dont watch TV at all. To them the general public is what they consider to be normal, unlike the college kids that watch MTV all the time. If these women are realistic and know what is available in their areas, then they might find you to be suitable as a partner. Dont feel bad if they are using you. As long as you get what you want from them, you cant possibly be losing in this situation. You want sex from beautiful women. They get what they want from you since you buy them everything. Just dont get too attached. Play your cards right. I'm sure you know how to be smart in situations like this if you made it this far. I'm surprised you are even asking this question. Rich people usually know their advantages. Use your advantages. Dont be depressed over what you dont have. You are still ahead of most people when you are wealthy. I'd rather be rich than good looking. Money buys you lots of things and obviously it got you the affections of many good looking women. How can you really be sad about that?!?!?

Ya think???

I cant answer this question without knowing you in person. However I can assume possibilities. Also depending on where you live, they might find you an ideal person to be with. Some areas dont have a lot of good looking men. There are some people that dont watch TV at all. To them the general public is what they consider to be normal, unlike the college kids that watch MTV all the time. If these women are realistic and know what is available in their areas, then they might find you to be suitable as a partner. Dont feel bad if they love your money more than they love you as a person. When its time for a woman to settle down she will pick someone who is a provider. She wants financial stability. She wants to be able to indulge herself. Go on fancy vacations and buy nice things. If you can provide her with this life style and she is just as exquisite to deserve these things from you, then you should definitely continue with the relationship. Good sex doesnt buy a yacht. Having a good looking man doesnt really pay the bills. When it comes down to it, your money is worth so much more than good looks.

Hell yeah!! nah i'm kidding i dunno it might be, money can play a big role on a relationship. I do agree with the dude Lipp. If your looking for love then don't use your money ... that much just be your self (I know you might think that's lame) but i'm a girl I kinda know. If you don't really want love then just do what ever makes you happy :) but don't be a playa!!

2 women at once??? WOW

Quit buying them stuff and see how fast they flee. Sorry, some woman can be dicks! Find a nice girl that's not into materialistic things.

I think you just answered your own question. Fascinating.

Well, what I say is... "If you have to ask, then it's probably true." :)

Don't buy them anything and find out how long they stick around... that should answer your question.

I'm in my late 20's dating a guy 40 year old. I'm not with him because he "can" buy me things. It has nothing to do with that. The only way you can find out is to lay off the spending at first. Then once you know they love you for you, spoil them!

You answered your own question.

I only answer questions that I have have experience with and this one I do. You as a man I know want to make your girlfriend happy and many of us women love gifts, some gifts make us happier than others. Initially if there was no attraction between you and any of these young ladies then you would not of had the chance to buy them anything and wonder about it later. I think it is a bonus when the man that we are attracted to are able to do for us what we may not of expected. I feel there is something that drew these women to you and how would they know you would buy them anything. You may not want to buy them things very quickly to see kind of see where they are comming from. I can tell you I am 20 years younger than my guy that is wonderful to me emotionally and financially. If I did not get a thing from him I would still stick around but be careful because there are a lot of women that I know personally that are really into the man but what a man can do for them no matter what the man looks like or how the man treats them so if possible see if the woman is grounded and not material before you begin getting them everything they want. We will become use to being treated like queens but at least if you know we did not expect it from you when we met then it may make you feel better about buying whatever your budget can afford. One thing you can try which I did to show my guy I was not after his money was about our third date, now after six years! I took him out to show him how much I appreciated him. If she never does anything for you, no matter how small then yeah it could be the money