How you manage living with someone whose a constant unhappy person, who complains about how poor her life is, also beware this person got a substance abuse problem?

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robbie2499

It's close to impossible unless you want to be brought down with her. I don't know if this is a spouse, relative etc., but if not I would get out asap. The word "toxic" comes to mind.

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Linda Joy

I live alone for a reason. That would depend on the 'substance'. But if you mean hard drugs then you're not dealing with the person anymore you're dealing with the drug. I'd suggest rehab for her and narc anon or al anon for the person suffering beside her.

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Archie Bunker

Tell her to quit voting democrat.

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Linda Joy

Get your own place, and don't catch her tendency to complain, or is it too late for that since you're complaining to us?

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Murzy

I would move out.

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Army Veteran

Did you ever close doors when you were a kid? I ask because you sure leave a lot of them open.

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