How can I find my lover attractive again?
Hey AB; i've been dating this girl for a year. It was the first time I really felt 'in love' (i had a million times before but i was younger and stupid.)
Anyway; she is very sexually selfish. I was patient at first; she would come over and expect to be satisfied then leave. This isn't usually a big deal and it's not something to consider but in this case... our orgasm ratios were like 5 her: me 1.
We've talked about it.. a few times and she is trying but now, the thought of having sex with her makes me feel frusturated. I always make sure to get my partner off; it seemed like common sense. After so many experiences of her being satisfied via horrible rough sex and me giving up because my cock gets too numb after 30 min of having 'FUCK ME' shouted at me, or me giving her oral while she thrashes around obnoxiously like a bad porn to the point that when she gets off I just want to not be hear her.
I don't think this relationship will work.. She's like, the nicest fucking person I've ever met but I have never been so unsatisfied sexually in my life. I'm not hard to get off; I can put off getting off until my partner cums. I always wait
Long story short; after someone's turned you off with their sexual inconsiderness and ineptness... is it possible to want to have sex with them again? Has this gotten to a point that can't be reversed? I tried so hard to stay in love but i'm fucking exhausted and her overly-affectionate personality coupled with her sexually selfish ...
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