Need opinions please :)
Hey everyone! I'm new here but want to ask everyone's opinion. Me and my boyfriend have been dating going on 7 months. We live together and have known each other for over 14 years. Here lately we have not been intimate with each other, it's actually been about 3 weeks. He's older (in his late 40's and I'm also in my 40's as well). I tried to call him on my lunch break today being he's off to just chat (like we always do) and no answer on neither phone. I called him again about 30 mins later and he tells me that he was napping and didn't hear the phone, the house phone is extremely loud btw! Am I just being crazy or do you think I have anything to worry about. I feel kinda silly for asking this in the first place. Thank you :)
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If that's all you've got to go on, I'd say give him the benefit of doubt. My house phone is loud too, and I've slept through it. When you find a hair different from your own on your pillow, or a lipstick smudge that isn't your color ... that's the time to start worrying and asking serious questions.
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If things are going well then why allow worry to ruin your good time? Its about the great times you have together. There are no prizes for figuring out whether he is spending himself on someone else and nothing you can do about it anyway. If you love to chat during lunch break fine but trying to keep tabs on him will not make him feel good about you. And by their mid 50s or maybe even earlier men do slow down so do expect that. If you want to get him going park yourself next to him at home and start masturbating and bringing yourself off - after an O or two he will get the message - that works with most men. Long as you don't overdo it.
Ice man 
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