Would you dump someone just because they kissed someone else?
by 
Freaky_Chick
ANSWERS: 33
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No, but I might take the opportunity to have my way with someone I've had my eye on for a while, with justification.
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Not necessarily, people are attracted to all kinds things, It's more important how someone is when they are with me than when they are on their own that counts to me.
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There's all kinds of kisses. You kiss your mom...and then there's the kind of kiss that curls your toes. Depends on how long you've had the relationship, what kind of kiss it was, and whether you think it's likely to happen again.
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Well NOW, since I am only 17 and still in high school, if someone I was dating made out with someone else, then I would be likely to dump them, just because at THIS time, that COULD be serious cheating. A lot of teenage couples are not really sexually active, so the farthest they could cheat on someone would be making out or something little more than that. When I'm older and am having more sexual relationships, kisses won't be as big a deal.
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Depends on the type of kiss and the intention. My wife and I kiss and hug our friends every time we see them. I caught my wife kissing my dog earlier tonight (though she claims nothing is going on). All friendly, innocent kissing. If I found my wife kissing some guy that I didn't know in a rather passionate way, we'd have a talk!
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It may sound harsh, but if it were a romantic kiss with another woman, I absolutely would end the relationship. I don't want to waste my time on someone who can't keep there hands, lips, or other parts away from other women.
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A friendly peck - no... A passionate tongue kiss - yes...
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A friendly kiss on the cheek -no. Anything else, YES.
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i would never waste time on someone who didnt value me as a friend and lover...you need to know the boundries
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Not as a knee jerk reaction. I don't know about anyone else but most of my relationships aren't quite taht straightforward - if we were a couple still in the dating/ getting-to-know-each-other stages it wouldn't bother me nearly as much as if I'd been in a monogamous relationship for several years. In most cases I'd call them up on it though - challenge them and see what their response was - and base my decision on a mixture of what justification they came up with, how much I liked them, and just my general gut instinct. Gut instinct is a good thing - it can often tell you the difference between someone who was drunk and made a mistake and someone who's likely to turn out to be a scumbag.
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was it a "long time no see" peck, or a make out cession?
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yes!!! I put him first and I expect the same.
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yeh. how would they like it if you went off n kissed someone else?? not alot.
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If it was a simple peck on the cheek, no harm done. If it was a full blown "mmmuuuuooooeeellllhhh", dump away.
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To be honest, no. However, if it continued a few times, I would probably consider it.
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If it was a passionate kiss,yes. Though I can't see ANY reason for him to even lightly kiss someone else on the lips. I don't...he shouldn't.
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my ex got mad at me for kissing my guy friend on the cheek...and my friend was gay!
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yeah i would if it was more than a peck on the cheek!! If they can kiss someone else what else can they do with someone else?!! If that person wants to be with you then they shouldnt want to kiss anyone else.
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YES!
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There's a BIG difference between an innocent peck on the cheek and a passionate kiss on the lips. If it was a passionate kiss, then I would definitely say "Get Lost " !!!!!
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yes becuase he/she is yours not no one elses to kiss. what if you kissed someone else i bet you that would get mad to.
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no but I wouldn't let him get into that type of habit. He just wants to see what else is out there. Plus if he comes back that means he likes the way you kiss better:) Temptation is a hard thing to face and you have to give people some time to learn how to fight it
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In the past, I have not broken up with women for doing this, but there are a few cases where I wish I had. If it happened now, yes, I probably would.
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It'd hurt, but we're all human. And humans are far from perfect. how do we learn if we dont make mistakes. If they did it once and felt like crap about it, i'd let it slide but if they made a regular habit, time to call it quits.
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Depends on the body location and the passion in the kiss.
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Depends on the situation: If it was a "spin-the-bottle" type kiss - naw. I'd probably join in ;) If it was a flirtatious kind of kiss I'd be a bit more worried. But no reason to break up in my opinion. Either way I would love it if he would tell me about it (requires open communication).
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Depends on the someone, the someone else, and the kiss.
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im 17 and iv just cheated for the first time. i kissed a guy, who is mine & my bf's friend, whilst my bf was downstairs in bed waiting for me. i was quite drunk bt i know thats not an excuse, i pushed him away when he tried to do anything eles and he begged me to stay with him, bt i couldnt. the guy i kissed also has a gf. do you think i shud tell my bf?
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Absolutely. Anything that you wouldn't do in front of your s/o, tell them about, or would be pissed about if you found out THEY did it, is cheating in my book.
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Not necessarily. If we're married with kids and property, it makes sense to figure things out. Is it a one time event, or is she in love with him and intending on leaving us anyway? Was it an impulse? Are there problems between us which lead to it? One needs to look a level deeper as the implications of dumping one's partner rise.
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yes
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yes
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Depends on the kiss and who was kissed. A peck on the check and his mother no.
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