• What you are looking for isn't closure. You want the usual can't let go excuses to keep giving you reason to maintain contact because you want to repeat the same old habits you two have done all the previous times you supposedly broke up. It's just a game so you can claim a break up but you know you'll get back together again. You don't need "closure" you need an ending that means what it says. 9 years of playing this game is toxically childish. Either get married or cease all contact forever and stop with the you'll always be jn my heart and think of me junk. Remove all contact info and block him from contact on all social media and move on with your life. THAT'S closure.
  • You are in a situationship, while it fulfills something in you, you won't end it. Question is, if he finds someone he loves and you don't hear from him again, would you be OK, are you investing your emotions because when he ends it, it will hurt. Form other relationships where stability and trust can exist. Have you dropped your standards to justify a casual flirting fling, which temporarily makes you feel wanted, but where you ,may feel crappy afterwards, until he hits you up again? If so you need to build your self esteem. Choose someone who chooses you, and makes you feel special and wanted, who can actually be there for you.

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