What is your definition of "sexually impure"?

Would you marry a sexually impure man? It cannot be earth....you must be mistaken....some far flung planet lost in the dark ages no doubt.

If she is a good woman then yes. What if she had been married before?

I'm slightly bi sexual, that is, like a lot, so if I loved her, yeah. I'd also marry an "impure" man if I was in love with him. Like my boyfriend. Maybe someday we'll get married. We talked about it before. And God knows how impure I am. He'd still marry me. ...we're just broke. There seems to be no problem between us as far as that's concerned.

What, may I ask naively, is the condition of being "sexually impure"? Is this some sort of judgment that is being made about the sexual activity of a person? Does the question suggest that if one has had a sexual experience then that person is "sexually impure"? If the act of having sexual intercourse makes one "impure", then all married couples are "sexually impure". If, however, the act is neutral but the status of the person participating is the issue, then the act is not the subject but the person. Are we talking about the notion that one who engages in sexual intercourse without being married to the partner is "impure"? If so, then we have to ask about definitions of what constitutes marriage, valid marriage, putative marriage, common-law marriage, religious marriage, civil marriage, marriage at sea, and so forth. Are there some sort of magic words that change the act of sexual intercourse from being impure to pure?

Yep!

Do you mean with STD?

I doubt there is a human on this planet that is sexually pure and anyway how is anyone sexually pure?

A what?

Do you consider yourself a "sexually pure" man? Virgin, no masturbation, modestly dressed and no lustful thoughts? I really doubt it.

Sure would.

Sure, it's pretty difficult to find one that isn't, honestly.

Can't... I'm a woman.. it's illegal...

But of course! I am a sexually impure man.

I'm sorry, I dont understand what you mean by sexually impure?

I did.By your definition, the brutal rape that my wife suffered before we met makes her "impure". Before you try to chuck her into a concentration camp you better check your ammo supply and bring plenty of friends.

What does "sexually impure" mean? If a woman who's not a virgin at time of marriage - I did. If you mean "not purely of one sex" then I don't know.

How would I KNOW? Is there an FDA purity stamp on her ass? Does she SMELL different? Wha...?

would you marry a religiously overbareing bigot.?

If sexual purity is being a virgin, never masturbating, dressing modestly and never having sexual thoughts - then yes. I would marry the sexually impure one, who has plenty of experience, who knows how to make sex fun, and who is likely to want sex often enough.

Ok so this is your definition, copy/pasted from your comment: "I know I'm going to get crap for this but here goes. She doesn't masturbate (we already covered that one), she is a virgin, she dresses modestly in public, she doesn't think lustful thoughts. That's my definition." You describe a woman who is not entitled to her own thoughts and feelings, is the posession of her man, is not allowed to experience or enjoy lust, should dress the way her husband wants her to. Not only does this sound medievil, it is very sexist too. It is degrading a woman to nothing more then an object. And on top of that, I think women who want to be this way, are extremely boring. A woman who wants to be that way is denying herself to be who she really is. A human being, with her own mind, fantasies, feelings. She obviously feels that she needs to sacrifice this all to satisfy her husband. There is no equality in a relationship like that. And even though this is a personal choice, in most cases coming from a religious background, unfortunately in quite some countries/societies ideas like this are very dangerous. They poison peoples minds and repress many people. Unfortunately in this time there are still many men all over the world who want their wife to be like that. As long as they do, many women are treated like less then shit. Infact, there are still women killed because they didn't behave the way their man wanted them to. Or even, how a society wanted them to behave. Women are openly stoned to death for NOT wanting to be someone's posession. Hell, they even get stoned to death because they where raped, and thus were not 'pure' anymore. So, yes, I would marry the impure woman! And I would NOT marry the 'pure' one. Our ideas would be far too different. You might wonder why I, as a woman, answer this question by telling that I would never marry a woman like that. This is because I firmly believe in personal freedom. In my country I could marry a woman if I wanted to, and hurray for that!!! I hope that you wouldn't marry a woman like that either, and that this is not your idea of a perfect relationship.

I read you definition of a "sexually impure woman" here: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8064869 I think that this definition only suggests the impurity of your own mind. What you call a "sexually impure woman" is for me a woman with a healthy developed sexuality. No "impurity" here. Of course, I would marry such a woman. Moreover, I would avoid to marry someone who would not have developed a healthy sexuality, and I would also not marry a woman without premarital sex.

Absolutely, if I were a lesbian. I was not a virgin when I married, in fact was pregnant with our second child, so I guess by definition my husband did.

I wouldn't marry any kind of woman. The question would have to be "Would I marry a sexually impure man?" But WTF does that mean? If you are a man looking for a virgin I believe you too should be virginal or close to virginal as possible. If you aren't, then you should definitely not be allowed to taint a virgin.

IMPURE WOMEN ROCK!!!

nick you are one of those people granpappy warned me about.

Hosea 1:2 When the LORD began to speak by Hosea, the LORD said to Hosea: “ Go, take yourself a wife of harlotry And children of harlotry, For the land has committed great harlotry By departing from the LORD.” 3 So he went and took Gomer the daughter of Diblaim, and she conceived and bore him a son. if it was strictly prohibited, why would God command someone to do it? and not just impure thoughts but a HARLOT!

It depends. What kind of things has she been doing?

That's the only type I would marry. Prude's no good.

Oh brother.

I would. Since I am not a virgin I cannot expect her to be. Even if I was, her past sexual exploits wouldn't matter...

Sure. I'd do it knowingly. Most guys do it knowingly or unknowingly. Or don't bother to ask. . And really I think the word 'impure' is unjust and inaccurate. There's nothing special about virgins and nothing bad about women who have had sex.

I obviously am a woman but I would marry a sexually impure man because if he as a virgin and didn't pleasure himself or tried to restrict himself from thoughts of a sexual nature that would really clash with me wanting sex about every day.

Well being a woman and knowing almost all my friends are not virgins anymore, I think it will be very hard to find a "pure" woman.....

What IS a sexually impure woman to you ? The phrase have quite a lot of different meanings in different cultures. ranging from 'have flirted with men' to 'hermaphrodite'.

im 24.i dont anticipate getting married til my late 20s.early 30s. i am NOT a virgin....but i am by no means sexually impure... the person i marry will doubtfully expect me to be a virgin at 28, or 32.

I don't know. Preferably a virgin. I am sixteen and looking for one that I will be with for a long time and maybe marry but I doubt I'll meet her until I'm at University or after. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AND EXPOSE THE NEW WORLD ORDER

I'm a Christian. I would like to marry a Christian. A pure one preferably.

By your definition there is no such thing as a sexually pure man or woman. All babies play with themselves.

in a minute if we loved each other.

heck yeah send her my way with lots of money !

It's not legal for two women to marry in my state. But if it were and If I wasn't already married to a great guy, yes I would. I take it you frown on this. :o(

Of coarse i would. The more impure the better i read that in my bible last night. Hay, Nick how about you, your girlfrined and me have a threesome? :)

i've been looking through your questions N I C K, and it sounds like you have some serious problems. especially with women and sex. get mental help!

Thats my hope.

what do you mean by sexually impure?

Given the divorce rate in this country I would say yes.

If you love someone, why would it matter? Even Jesus forgave Mary Magdelan. Are you above Him?

No. Mainly because in my country I couldn't marry a woman, even if I loved her with all of my heart. The government is still somewhat anti-gay rights. If I could marry a woman, I wouldn't really care if she was sexually "pure" or "impure". I'm not that shallow.

I have, my first wife was pregnant before we married and one hell of a real woman. My second wife was a virgin and a waste of flesh.

Nick, some have sinned and been forgiven. God forgives and forgets it. Shouldn't we as true christians do the same? It is a pure love that makes a marriage not a pure partner.

I am a woman here but would like to answer your question my opinion is Yes,,If I were a man I would marry her if you have known her long enough and know quite a bit about her. Her background and such. If you two love each other 100% then I say go for it.. make sure you know her complete before you get in it too far. So this is my opinion!

In a word or two Hell Yes, because it is the person you are marrying not their previous acts.

What is that supposed to mean?

what do you mean by "sexually impure" woman? if you mean a woman who likes sex and has had lots of experience? (Samantha Jones/Kim Cattrall from "sex in the city" for example) then HELL YEAH! as long as she tests clean of std's I'd marry her in a hot second.

I'm going to presume that sexually impure women either refers to a woman who is no longer a virgin or either has a very liberal mind when it comes to sex? Why should that matter when marrying someone unless it completely conflicts with your morals, scruples, way of life or etc. For me it couldn't matter. I'll marry a woman who stimulates my mind, body and soul and if she happens to be impure by those standards I couldn't care. I'm marrying her for who she is.

Are there any around???I thought they all get hit by lightning bolts.

If she made it with a donkey, I'd probably have second thoughts. And third thoughts. Maybe even fourth thoughts!

Now a days everyones had sex. If you have had sex i would like to hit you right now. What should matter to you is her personality, her good qualities instead of focusing on the negative.

I'm not into women, so probably not. I wouldn't NOT marry someone just because he's had sex, though.