Why would you ask him to wear a butt plug?

why would you ask him that... no never would ask a man that ..... what if he asks you to shove a pole up your butt for the day and walk around don't think it would be comfertable.. plus its the bodys way (not to sound gross but) of releasing natural gas so you want it to build up inside him which does cause pain eventually for what reason for your ammusement.. wow sorry I am really shocked that you even asked him I would be offended.. why would you ask him what is the point.. so you can maybe have something on him if you eve break up....omg sorry I am totally shocked I on his side on this no one would ever ask a man or woman for that matter to do that.. leave that for the bedroom if thats what your into.. that can cause medical problems..

I would never ask my bf to wear one of those. I find it abit of a turn off tbh. If he doesn't wanna wear one then you should respect him for that.

Only if he enjoys it.

I apologize that I am not female, but I feel that anal play- although a taboo subject- is still pretty evenly popular across genders, ethnic groups, ages, etc. Kaylee, I'm guessing you're a bit of a kink-oriented person? If the idea of making your boyfriend wear a butt-plug for you, chances are that you have a natural tendency towards a Dominant personality. This is entirely normal, and in fact- a lot of men (believe it or not! go look it up, its true) are turned on by submitting to a Dominant female. I personally know a handful of men (and a few women) who occasionally wear a butt-plug in public. Its not that out of the ordinary. You'd be surprised as to how many people carry on their daily lives in public while plugged up. Perhaps your boyfriend is hesitant to try it out due to anal play's stigma in society. I'll be willing to bet that if you did get him to wear one,he'd find it stimulating at the very least. Tell him that the prostate gland stimulated in males via anal play is essentially the "male g-spot." A few swift massages gives extremely powerful heightened orgasms. (Something he probably didn't know) I myself was introduced to my first butt-plug by my girlfriend right after high school. She convinced me that it wasn't the least bit bad, and I tried it for Her. From then on, my girlfriend made me wear my butt-plug on dates or whenever I was with Her. I loved the arousal, and She loved knowing that She was in control and "wearing the pants", so to speak. I'm not really sure what you can do- you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink, ya know? Have an open discussion. I'd suggest asking him to just try it once. Perhaps even offer to wear one with him too? If its not his thing, then you can't blame him for at least trying it out. Best of luck!

I don't agree that no girl would ever ask a boyfriend to do that, but he is obviously not into it so don't force him.

As everything to do with anal is still a bit of a taboo subject generally, chances are that he might be into it, but would never ask her to start experimenting around with it (out of fear that she might find it gross and he loosing his face as he'd out himself as being a kinky guy). I'd perhaps suggest to visit a local sex store and browse the aisles a bit and see what his reaction is when you get to the dildo and butt plug section. I think it will be very easy to figure out if butt plugs are an option for him or not.

I'm a typical 42 year old guy and frankly I think it's a pretty hot request. I easily understand how it would turn you on and there is no problem in you simply asking him. People are all very, very different when it comes to what turns us on, our levels of desire, etc... Truth is however, that you really can't force someone to submit to your desires if they just aren't into it. It will only create more problems. Keep in mind that over the long haul, sexual incompatibility will make for a very unhappy relationship...

I can't say if he should wear it for you, but I *can* say that plenty of girls *do* ask their boyfriends to wear butt plugs. There's a sex advice column called Savage Love, it's widely syndicated but it's also published online. I've been reading this for 10 years now and I've also read a book of back-questions that was published, and seriously, the amount of girls who want their boyfriends to experiment with anal play is massive. You are not alone! But I think you should start off a little slower. Play with the butt plug at home first. Once he's comfortable with the idea, then he can try wearing it out if he wants to. Also start off with a small butt plug and shop for it together. Good luck!

not sure what it is but i think he should wear whatever he wants