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Cheat then leave
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loaded ? +5
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Chleave.
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One of the pleasures of being gay or bisexual is that there's an alternative -- a 3-way.
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To leave after cheating!
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Well, one time, I had this gf that cheated on me with another guy (whom had a really cute gf himself), so she cheated with me on her boyfriend so they would know what it felt like to get cheated on... Quite frankly, don't know if that was the real reason, I just think it was an excuse to have sex with her... Aaaah, my troubled youth...
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Never, never, never cheat!! Not happy, leave!
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Leave - if you don't want to be there at least be honest about it!
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never cheating for leave
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Right off I want to say leave. But for many people that is not an option. So I have to say it all depends on the circumstances.
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Leave. You shall never cheat specially to other people.
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yes+5.
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suggest threesome first. if that doesn't fly (or it's more than sexual) leave. but never cheat. ever.
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I would definitely leave someone before I cheated on them
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Leave Las Vegas.
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Depends. You may feel the compulsion to stay together for the children's sake to make sure thet are raised properly. If yor relationship with your spouse is in the toilet, what does it matter then? If one or both continue to hurt the other then their is really no commitment going on there. We all say cheating is bad, but what other things in a relationship are equally bad (alcoholism, drug abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, alienation of affection, etc)?
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Leave. I think cheating is horrible. If you are going to end the relationship, end it before you begin one with another person.
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can I just beat my head against the wall for a few more days? I am sure eventualy I will be back to saying "leave, cheaters are worthless sacks of crap" but then I have even MORE conflict.
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If you're just in a relationship and are definitely going to leave or cheat, leaving is the best option. Why add onto the pain of a breakup with 'cheating'?
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Cheat!!!! It's better to play than to get played!
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Leave.
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Leaving makes more sense!
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don't know your situation, but cheating gets really messy. Would leave before cheating.
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well if u are a playboy then cheat ur way for love.
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Cheating is lieing...polyamory is a much better alternative. This way you don't cheat and no one is offended in the relationship. It can make things better too.
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Leave definately. Cheating lowers your integrity and hurts the one you once loved and cared about.
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Looking back... in hindsight.... I should have just left :(
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Leave then cheat.
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Never fall I love that way your not cheating
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Leave
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Whatever you like. You are the one who has to live with it either way.
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Leave. If you are tempted to cheat something is wrong in your relationship or wrong with you. If you cheat you are no better than the person you have problems with and possibly worse.
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Leave. So much easier.
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Work on your inner strength and wisdom so that you can make that decision yourself and not lay that responsibility on others. Religion, New Age books, Novels and community work shops can help.
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you cant cheat unless your the property of another, so its kind of a loaded question, leave.
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If you cheat you have already left.
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cheat -> pleasure leave <- peace
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Leave and come my way.;-)
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Leave, it is best that way. +5
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why cheat for a few minutes of pleasure...at the risk of months of sorrow as a result of your irresponsible decision? I would leave..
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Leave it if you can't fix it, don't cheat
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Leave.
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Leave. cheating will just ruin their self-esteem
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leave
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Leave! :o) +5
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Cheat = evil, deceitful, and abusive. Leave = painful, but not nearly as painful as the above.
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LEAVE-CAUSE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUD N WHEN IT COMES BACK AROUND IT HURTS TWICE AS MUCH!!!
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Leave. If for no other reason than out of respect the person I once loved.
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I say just leave..I mean if you get to a point where you are gonna cheat on someone, just end it, you basically already have ended it by cheating, why keep up a lie and have to deal with all the mess of getting caught and the like? It's just too much damage for both parties, just end it.
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Leave :)
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Leave, doesn't feel right to cheat.
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leave & come to the U.S.A we need more pretty chicks like you!! kick him to the curb from what i hear there are very few pretty women like you there he will never find better
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I'd leave before I'd cheat on him.
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Is that my only options?
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If I need to move on, I will do so before I find another. It would be disrespectful other-wise. I never cheat!
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Leave , cheating hurts so many involved and it can get ugly, leaving is hard at first but with time it gets better, cheating leaves a bad lingering hurt and is rarely forgotten or forgiven
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leave. its more respectful to him and you will still have a good name. it'll show you have balls to end it rather than take the easy way out and "cheat" which isn't easy. at all.
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most people cheat then leave, or the cheat part puts right what was wrong in the first place
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Leave. Its the right thing.
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Leave! dont cheat it will mess who evers your going to cheat on up! Thats not nice, im assuming this is what you mean, lol x x x
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If you respect yourself and your partner, LEAVE first!!!
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Cheating is definitely a punk way out.. if you have the balls to cheat on someone why not let them drop and be mature enough to face the problem and either figure it out or leave.
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I don't care what you do as long as you come to me, baby! LOL!☺
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If you feel that you need to CHEAT .. LEAVE ... Why be a skumbag about it and CHEAT ? Just get out and let the other person konw that the relationship is NOT workinig and that YOU are going ...
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Cheat. Then leave. That'll show 'em. lol
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leave
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Leave.
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Leave if he/she cheats.
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Cheat first. If it works out leave.
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Neither. Just work on your problems.
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If I suspected someone of cheating on me and I found proof. I would definitley break up with that person through an e-mail. On the other hand if someone is married and they have children together. I would just go to some couples counseling and then take it slowly from there. It might be a greater chance of having less problems custody wise with the children. You might work out who will pick up the kids on these days and such. If you feel like the kids will not be safe in the hands of the other parent, then time to get some legal help. (just some extra advice) Good Luck!!
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Leave!
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Leave. Honestly, I used to cheat on my boyfriend of two years alot. Now that I look back on it, (even though he never found out), I've realized it's better to just leave. You feel better about yourself, and you're not betraying someone's trust, even though they may never know. But you'll know. Do him/her the favor of leaving, they'd apporeciate it much more than being betrayed to that extent.
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Just leave.
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Rather leave then cheat
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Leave. Better for everyone.
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If he cheats, I cheat, THEN i leave :)
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never cheat, leave and find something better.
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leave
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leave
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Leave,Don't cheat! Cheating is hurting...Even you don't love the person anymore,don't cheat...don't play with feelings...
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Leave
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LEAVE. Cheating one someone is a vile thing to do.
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Hello. Hope you are fine. Leave. Thank you.
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Meant to answer not comment. Most cheat....wouldn't you agree. I don't.
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I would cheat. He has probably cheated on me, so now itll be my turn, if I was to meet someone really worth everything if I lost it all. I would take my chances.
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leave
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Let's cheat on my girlfriend.
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Don't believe in cheating but he did so I just left.
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Disguss counceling.
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Leave.
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Leave......why would someone want to stay with someone else if you feel the need to cheat on them.
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