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Yes. And now I'm pregnant, haha.
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Yes. Cackle cackle cackle. Won't see me in THAT situation!
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Oh yes...you just have to let fun lunches and emails suffice.
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Yes. Three of my closest friends all got married in about a 4 year span. I'm happy for all of them and went to all their weddings, but marriage is something I have never had the desire to do. I have a kid now, but me and his mother are no longer together. I come from a family of failed marriages, from my parents, aunts, uncles, and even my grandparents when i was still in high school. I think that was what made me decide that I didn't want to be married. If my grandparents can't make it last, then why the hell should I try.
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yes right now, its the most depressing period in my life
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yea and you wanna have fun and do things and they all have settled down at like 18-20 years old
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yes, right now.... I really hate it.
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My situation was the opposite. I was the eighteen year old mother and bride wishing I had the rights and freedoms of my peers.
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Yes that is a situation I am in now.
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yep! and i am so happy for all of those friends of mine with spouses, fiances, and kids. haha. or i try to be anyway.
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yes it's a crappy feeling.i like the term 5th wheel syndrome.
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Yep and it was lonely.
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3 friends of mine are prego; 10 at least are married. 1 is engaged. :-/
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YES ALWAYS!!! I had my first kid at 27. My friends started having kids at around 15 or so okay? Those that didn't have kids ALWAYS had boyfriends. To be honest, I was always entirely fine with all that. These friends of mine when their boyfriends would be with us, it wouldn't be a make out session so it wasn't uncomfortable like that you know? I loved it and you know, people who are taken on some level or have children (not so) secretly envy those who don't. Relationships and kids take a great deal of responsibility, time and so on. I guess it depends on which is more appealing to you.
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I slept with the married wife, bought a hooker for the engaged man, got drunk with the pregnant woman and sold cocaine to the kids. I felt better.
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You looking to get pregnant?
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yup... thats pretty much whats going on. slowly but surely all of them are getting married or having babies or both.... its annoying.
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All but the have kids part.
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Just the kids part. We couldn't carry on any in-depth discussions because everybody was "cooing" the babies.
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No, I'm afraid I was the one that got married before most of my friends but we never had kids, so everyone had those before me .
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Yes. Everyone I worked with and hung out with got married and had babies but me. I got married, had a baby and until this day regret it!
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yeah....it's a pretty sucky situation to be stuck in...esp if you don't even have any potential guys...
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That is how it is now. Half my friends are married with kids and everytime I turn around someone new is pregnant! I mean I'm 20, so I don't feel bad about it and I'm not jealous. I am engaged but I'm not getting married for over a year and no kids for at least another 5. All I keep thinking is that they really need to learn to use condoms...seriously.
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Nope. I had kids when I was young. I beat my friends to it. I kinda cheated though. I skipped the engaged and married parts.
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