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  • low self-esteem? I've noticed it in some girls i know they have low self-esteem so they parade around in very revealing clothes even thought they're attractive in anything
  • absolutely nothing wrong with dressing sexy.I don't think its low self-esteem, rather it is a sign of confidence, if you are sexy and can pull it off, there is no reason not to dress sexy.now when a hot woman dresses frumpy...thats low self-esteem and lack of confidence.
  • I think it also what you've been raised to think is appropriate clothing, or just looks good. Some women think that "dressing nice" = "dressing slutty" It doesn't occur to them that they are dressed poorly.
  • Personally, I think it's because girls want to feel so super amazing, they just have to dress up and perfect their makeup every day before they go to school. And during the day, they're always asking their friends "Is my makeup okay?" because they think it's the end of the world if their eyeliner is somewhat messy. Then girls wear showy clothes because they think it'll make them feel good and that it would somehow make them more successful later on. That's at my middle school. I'm not so sure about the real world people.
  • ...becuase they are afraid if somebody sees there faults they wont be attracted to em. (makeup, heels, skirt, tanning, earings)...blah blah blah blah...I think it to be very ignorant...I dress alright...but i dont spend money, and time and my energy on my body...i spend it on my soul. I am beautiful and i know it...but i wear no make up. if i go out, ill get ready...but not primpt...blah. My husband told me "Theres a beauty in your most girls dont know exists"...cuz i give them ME and all of ME...and not My body...
  • It's a matter of choice.They are free to do whatever they want but,sometimes when a girl tries to dress out of her character, then it might be a case of new found fashion trend or desire for more attention.It's all cool.People have got only one life so why to restrict oneself under forcible constraints.Let people tryout stuffs and learn from their own experience rather than from other's judgements on fashion.
  • I dress sexy just to feel sexy. It's not about being attractive to other people. It's more of an ego boost for myself.. I don't dress "sexy" very often but sometimes a girl just NEEDS to look nice and feel good about herself. There really isn't anything wrong with that.
  • I'm thinking such women have moms who feel the same way. Some women dress for men, some dress to impress other women, some dress to please themselves. None of them understand one another. Happy Friday! :)
  • Not all women think this way...especially if they have more than their body to attract a guy with...you know things likes confidence, intelligence, education,their own money, mental health, addiction-free, and so on...
  • I don't think this is a true statement for most women. Sexiness comes from attitude, not cloths. If they do dress trashy then maybe there is a self-esteem problem.
  • Sexy is always slutty. I've seen women dress in something so simple like a black evening dress with their hair swept up with simple jewelry and look absolutely stunning. However, some women think the more you show the better, but it has the complete opposite effect.
  • conditioning
  • two reasons,one the parents did not care how they dressed when they were growing up. second, they probably had a first boy friend who wanted them to dress that way.
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  • I would say mostly because media tells us that you are only sexy if you look or dress a certain way.
  • Because they are competing for attention from men who otherwise wouldn't notice them. Some think it's what men want, but not all men are attracted to women who don't leave much to the imagination. Sexiness comes from within and men notice this no matter what you're wearing. They also notice when you're TRYING to look sexy, too.
  • To get attention. Like how guys with little penis drives humme.r
  • i think its the culture today that is such a large influence. the feeling to be beautiful, sexy, and powerful is way more different looking than it did even ten years ago. now it comes off looking skanky. its sad. but i really like those new dove commericals urging girls to look inward for beauty. its a good step.
  • I think it must come from low-self esteem or from society. If you dress sexy - you will get even more attention from some men, I guess that is what those women are looking for. It's a shame because women look most beautiful when they don't try to dress sexy.
  • They don't realize that their most beautiful asset is their personality.
  • Because that's the only way we get a reponse from a guy. I don't remember the last time I heard a guy tell me how beautiful I was when I was hanging out in sweat pants... But when you're all dolled up, looking sexy, we see heads turn and guys talking to us...
  • To get men's attention.
  • because they lack the creativity to stimulate you with their minds....
  • What makes you think that is what those women are thinking? Maybe they are dressing that way because they feel if you got it flaunt it. Nothing wrong with dressing sexy but keep it classy. If your talking trashy sexy than maybe your on to something. Anyone can be sexy with or without the right outfit.
  • Don't know. Glad they do. What have you got against it?
  • could have something to do with the fact that men are always raving about sexy, sexy, sexy!
  • well, Personally I adore personality of a women than her dress.
  • They are influenced by entertainment and the media, thinking that dressing sexy is akin to being attractive. Personally, I find that a woman who dresses simply and elegantly is attractive, and to me that is sexy.
  • Vanity
  • dressing sexy makes women look sexy! As far as i beleive!
  • b/c 'those women' don't have much of a personality to work with. so they rely on their looks.
  • All the girls in mens magazines and on tv that men seem to gawk at are dressed sexily(for the most part) so we think that is what makes us desirable to the opposite sex. If we feel we are desirable to the opposite sex, it makes us feel good about ourselves.
  • I think it does the exact opposite of make them attractive. It just makes me think they are desperate and rather sad.
  • its a social stigma that they are taught from a very young age
  • Because they do in today's society, so do men! Why not? It's all part of feeling good about yourself too :) It's nice to dress up, it also shows that you care about yourself ☺
  • It's simple. If you are average you have to dress really nice to look attractive. I would look awful if I didn't wear foundation, color my hair, wear fashionable style clothing and keep my hands manicured. I would just be a plain jane that blends into the woodwork. Women's status socially depends on how she looks. It can determine everything from whether or not you get married or you get a job. There are women who still marry and get jobs if they're not hot, but it's usually not the best job or the best guy. I didn't make this up, it is what it is.
  • Because that's what they see on the covers of their magazines. They want to use their bodies to get attention from men, but little do they realize that they could be getting a much better kind of attention if they conducted themselves with dignity and self-respect. They can still look feminine and beautiful without "putting it all out there". I really wish women would go back to wearing those pretty, modest dresses, they don't do that enough. I have to literally beg my girlfriend for her to put on a dress.

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