Would it be inappropriate to ask a woman on a first date if she has been female from birth?
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Sheriff Raff -Answerhag
ANSWERS: 40
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First date? Yes
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Wouldn't seem so these days.
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Asking multiple questions about her female friends or male friends.
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just where do you go to meet people? LOL
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No offense, but if you asked me that on a first date, I'd slap you out your chair.
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Not the first date, but yes it's a fair question these days. Perhaps by the fith or sixth date when you're contemplating sleeping together. Of course, don't wait until you're both naked and about to jump in the sack to say, "Oh by the way, are you a biological female since birth?"
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Born a male always a male.Surgery cannot change a persons sex only their appearance.Its a question I would never ask.
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Army Veteran So does that mean you have no preference?
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Very.
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I'm not sure it be "inappropriate", but it is definitely a very personal question, and an unusual one, she will form an instant opinion of you when you ask. Whether it's a negative (or VERY negative) one or a positive one (less likely) depends on the girl.
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Hahahaaaaaaaaaa!! NO!!
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probably the best time if her saying no would stop you seeing her.
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Wait until the first night together and go hunting for scar seams ; )
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What would make you suspect that has'nt been?
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A good way to have your first date be your last date. LOL
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It's scary out there these days. I wouldn't ask, but after a few dates when you go to her place, just check out photos, ask her to see childhoood pictures. Be a bit of a detective before flat out asking.
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I think I'd want to establish that before the dating actually happens. Just me.
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You seem to have put allot of thought into this. You sure you don't have some 'chick with dick' porn in your collection?
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i think that'd be fine to ask someone. Especially with all the technilogical and medical advances out there these days. I would deff want to know.
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i laughed at this question, but these days there are so many of those operations. me being born a female, i would be pissed off if a guy asked me that. but if men really love to look at women than they should be able to study and listen for those kinda clues w/out asking. but asking to see a picture of her from when she was a kid could help. or of course 'fooling around' would give him a better answer.
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No.One should ask that immediately ;)
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If she looks too unfeminine, has a mustache or a beard, or her voice is two octaves lower, wears a shoe size 14, has no breasts to speak of, I would think it would be appropriate. Otherwise, no.
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Depending on the general personality of the person I would either be very insulted or think he was kidding around with me.
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LOL... WOW!!! this definitely isn't the average question but hey... If it really matters to you whether she's been female from birth then why wait till the first dater to do it. If you ask and don't get the answer you like, are you going to never call her back and break her heart? If it doesn't matter then wait till you get more comfortable with each other to do some detective work, unless you just wanna blurt out "Have you always been a woman?"
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Yes because that would be considered discrimination. I'm kidding.
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You said "If she has been female from birth" do you mean if she hasnt??
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appropriate or not. im not going on any dates with any woman i have ANY suspision of this.
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If you had a bad experience with it before and you explain it to her then i dont think so. But you should let her know why you are asking her first so it would make it less offensive. but you should find out before you go on the first date.
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Yes. ;)
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Only if you're gay. :)
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Well, how would you feel if you were asked if you were male from birth? Perhaps a little too feminine for your date?
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hmmmm, that strikes me as inappropriate. curiosity should be suppressed for the sake of politeness.
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Nope, as long as you do it with discretion and respect. It's like asking if one has kids, or something or that nature.
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No, it should be quite appropriate. I'm fairly certain a transexual wouldn't want to trick you or any shit like that anyway. Well some would, but that's exactly the reason it's appropriate to ask.
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Well I would be offended if I was asked if I had always been a man, so I don't think it is appropriate.
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Only if the person wanted to see her again. Asking the question will most likely insult any woman who could truthfully answer yes.
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I think so. If you suspect that she hasn't always been female and that's a problem for you, why would you ask her on a date at all. If she was born a female she's probably going to be offended, whether it's on the first date or not.
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depends
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I don't think so.
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Any woman who finds it offensive is not open to an honest relationship and should be avoided. The guy has a right to know.
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You should be able to tell by the way she speaks and acts.
HungryGuy 
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