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will now yeah
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After the last experience yes I don't want a theif or murderer in my house.
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yeah It's not that big of a deal, but you should just use it for your personal info, not bring stuff up that you found n act all crazy, especially if you don't even live together or have been together less then like 6 months
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No, if I had to do that then Iwould not date them.
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I have not but it is a suggestion I have given to friends before.
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Uhmmm probably not.
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I am not that insecure!!
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I have never done that personally. I like going into a new relationship trusting the other person. However, I can't say that it is a bad idea if there are kids involved. You don't want to put them in a bad situation. I don't have a problem with someone checking into my background because I have nothing to hide.
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I seriously doubt that if I felt a check were necessary I would still be with them.
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I should have in my last relationship,
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Would not need to, I think I would know them well enough where that would not be necessary.
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I did on my last g/f during a continuing education class. She is divorced so I ran her husband also. Can see why she got divorced.
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Hello Spicy Hot...No, I think that is what the dating process is for, If any red flags came up I would deal with those as they arise. It is a choice who you date and if there are things that do not fit, you are free to move on..The woman I see now has told me her past and some problems she has had, but she is honest and has/is doing the right things to fix them....
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To be honest - its a really sensible idea, theres too many weirdos out there these days!
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Probably not, although that's not to say I wouldn't check on a few things myslef. ;-)
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I haven't before, and I don't think I would.
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If I were unattached and wealthy I would definitely do something like that. It is a sad commentary on today's life though, isn't it? Even if I weren't wealthy I might do something like that just to make sure the guy isn't a loose cannon with a long history of violence. Of course if the guy found out he'd probably not like it much. It is a complicated process these days for sure. You have to try to protect yourself but living a life of paranoia isn't very appealing either. :)
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I have been out of the dating circle for 35 years now. I would only do that if I were dating strangers, something I never did. I always knew the people I went out with.
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Gentlemen don't dicusss such things. But as, among other things, a private investigartor,I am called upon to make a number of descrite inquiries.
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No. That's an "invasion of privacy". I believe that if someone wants you to know something, they'll tell you.
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