Ladies: What are your thoughts on a guy bringing flowers along on a first date? Is it romantic, or a little too much for a first date?
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ANSWERS: 42
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I know you said ladies, but let me tell you what I do and it always works. Bring a single red rose. Its not too much to blow them away, but just enough for them to know you want more than friendship. Most of all it lets them know that you are thoughful. They always tell me that.
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I think it is super, and I really like flowers once a month even if it a 5$ bundle. Its the gift of beauty, and life....I love it, when I get it :(
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Bringing along a nice thought like flowers should never be considered too much unless he bought out the florist and arrived with several dozen roses! I think it is a very sweet gesture and it would seem obvious he wishes to make a good first impression!
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It's old-fashioned, thoughtful and sweet
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It is a romatic gesture and he's probably a romantic at heart. It also shows he gave it thought and wants to make you happy.
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I'm highly allergic to most flowers, so I don't care for it.
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I think it depends on your date. However, it might look like you're trying too hard. Just be a nice guy and you won't need to spend a cent!
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Its very sweet I'm not a flower and box a chocolates kinda girl but that would be incredibly cute in a silly kinda way the kinda thing that makes girls go 'awwwwww'
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My husband on our first day brought me a single red rose, and you see how that turned out, now we are married.
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In my opinion I THINK FLowers are not rite for the first date maybe if all goes well bring them to your second date
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its absolutely perfect..and it shouldn't be just on the first date!!! it should be every other date after the first lol
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I'm a guy, but I think you can never go wrong with the traditional flowers and candy!
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Too much!! The first few dates should just be about getting to know them more. Flowers create pressure for an immediate decision to be made on whether they like you, I think. A guy I dated a while ago got me the most beautiful bouquet of flowers I've ever received on the second date. It was too formal and felt... awkward. There was no third date.
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I think a simple flower arrangment would be nice and not too much, but he brought a dozen of red roses that would be a deal breaker for me.
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I think it's great! My husband brought me a small arrangement on our first date. Then sent a large arrangement to my house 2 days later to tell me he had a great time and would love to see me again. Married 20 years now.
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Awesome!!!!!
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i think its really romantic, and i would love it if a guy brings me flowers on a first date, that would be so sweet of him..
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I think it's a lovely gesture.
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it depends on the guys personality some guys could pull it off and others can't but in most cases its cute
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I think it's a very nice and romantic gesture.
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BAD MOVE. It makes the guy look like he is unsure and not confident of himself. It's like he is trying to buy her affections. Just my opinion, that has worked for years.
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I think it's romantic.
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Sounds like he has class and a respecful thing to do.
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I think its very sweet. I would love it.
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That's perfect. Very good impression if you ask me.
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well since im a lady i think that it's a perfect thing to bring along. It gives her a sign that you really like her and you took the time to get some flowers for her =) i think it's perfect.
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Mans point of view............. No flowers on the first date. Flowers are something you work up to. On a first date, it gives the air that the guy is a pushover. Wait, wait, wait.
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I think it's too much for the first date. And besides, I hate flowers.
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I think it's cute. Just a few flowers...nothing extravagant.
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I would prefer to get flowers sent to me after the first date with a nice card saying he had a great time....that would be impressive...
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It's sweet, as long as the flowers aren't too much...not a dozen roses or the like. As you’re unsure about the woman herself on the first date, what her taste in flowers is and even whether you’re going to like her, it’s safest to go in for a single bloom, possibly a red rosebud if you want to be blatantly romantic, or an elegantly simple sheaf of flowers. This way, you won’t be spending too much on a date you’re still unsure about, and yet in the event it does not work out, she’s left with a wonderful feeling of a sensitive guy who took the trouble to bring her flowers.
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I think it is a very sweet gesture and deserves appreciation!
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i think it's very sweet. extra points!
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I think it's sweet, but I personally wouldn't want them
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i think its asweet. i think any woman who got freaked probably wasnt all that into dating anyway
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Most girls like that. Just understand that cut flowers die. :( I think it's far more romantic to give her a small, flowering plant. She will think of you whenever she sees and takes care of it. Just make sure it is non-poisonous to pets. Have fun on your date! :D
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i think its a little much for a first date.
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Romantic!!! I'd love it but i'd also be fairly cautious
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Wonderful. More of the same please
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As a man heres how I see it. Flowers on the first date scares them, compliments scare them. Women tend to take things the wrong way. I won't get flowers on a first date from me because I have learned that they need to earn my effection rather then just get it. The say they want it but really they think its smothering.
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A large bunch of flowers is too much on a first date, a single flower is enough as the first date is the getting to each other better. Pay for the drinks and meal would be a better idea, leave the flowers for your 25th wedding anniversary... if there is one.
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It depends on the girl really 'cause some girls really aren't into the whole romantic scene. I personally would love it, but I am rather old fashioned and love a gentleman.
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