What's the name for the feeling you get when your significant other cheats on you?
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ANSWERS: 100
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Hurt. Is something the matter?
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Fooled
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indignant, resentful, enraged, exasperated, wrathful just a few from experience
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Betrayal?
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Heartbroken?
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Let down, P-ed off, Suicidal, Homicidal
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That's the "Shock and gut-wrenching heartbreak and betrayal" feeling.
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Like someone or something just ripped my heart out. Sad, embarrassed, devastated and shock. I think that is why we see so many questions on here about cheating like it's no big deal to some,yet look at our answers. I would NEVER want to hurt another person like I've been hurt.
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Thankfully, I have never been there. If I was, maybe disappointed would be the word.
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destroyed. like a broken window.
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Dejected
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Like you weren't good enough,low self-esstem, always thinking bad about all other guys thinking there all the same, heart-broken, hurt, and lots of other things
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NAUSEOUS
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Its that "I,m going to kill the f*****g B*****d" feeling as far as I know.
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white hot rage.
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Scorned and devastated.
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soul destroying, hurtful, gut retching, betrayal, heart breaking, soul destroying, disbelief, devastating, shame, guilt, shock, rejected, dejected, and did i mention totally soul destroying that gives you the lowest of lowest self esteem!
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Jealousy
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A sick to the stomach, pissed off, and dissipointed feeling. Kinda like you did something wrong, but you didn't.
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angry, devastated and choked up
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Devastation I would imagine , before pure rage set in but that is just how i think i would feel
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betrayal, distrust, off balance - like the rug was pulled out from under you, maybe foolish, loose self confidence
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Angry? hmmm...is there a sale on a killer for hire position, or would my shotgun do the trick?
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If you only suspect cheating---intuition. If you catch them in the act--I can only speak for myself, but nausea was the first thing I felt. . . .after that, determination (to divorce the jerk as quickly as possible).
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Violence
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Anger, hurt, rage, rejection, betrayed, run-over, used, sad, to name few.
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dread little death fear shame lost fallen
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hurt, betrayed, angry, feel like you didnt deserve it, caught completely off gaurd with a big fucking slap in the face-feeling
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Resentful and betrayed.
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I think that ALL these answers are correct and that if someone cheats and if it still bugs you, then just leave.
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deception
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Betrayed,angry and hurt
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I beleive in klingon it's Gaargaque
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S-H-I-T
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Like my heart just sunk into my stomach.= Pain.
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Rage.
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destroyed and broken like your not worth anything
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Betrayed, disappointed, devastated, foolish, embarassed, stunned, disbelieving, none of it is good, don't go there if you can possibly help it.
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The "WOW" I thought you were better than this, OUCH that really hurts and I LOVE YOU but I REALLY HATE YOU TOO NOW - YOU CHEATER!!!
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Insanely intense anger.
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Its the feeling- this can Never be undone, how can I possibly lay down beside you every night and trust you completely with my most vulnerable thoughts and hopes and dreams? Its watching the foundation of your life collapse and crumble- knowing it can maybe be replaced but never be the same.
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heart borken into a 100 and 20 thousand pieces
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Rage & Revenge. Hurt because everyone else knew except you, betrayed because you trusted someone & they let you down. Sick because you are afraid you may have unknowingly contracted some funky vd or worse. Then vengeful because hell hath no fury like a scorned woman!!!
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Gutted.
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I have not been able to eat or sleep in three days!
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i agree its the shock, heart breaking shattering life in bits, nothing will ever be the same again, feeling, followed by hurt, anger, pain, tears, shouting and finally you go numb. I actually heard and felt my own heart breaking when he told me hed slept with another woman, a living nightmare
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Dissapointment.
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completely violated, shocked, hurt, devastated and no desire to go on, then later anger
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gut-shot.
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Negociable.
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nausea
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Like your soul is exposed and raw. Torn up inside. Disrespected. Dishonored. Betrayed. Degraded. It feels like what you thought you had was just a lie.
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Terminal, full body nausea. I haven't felt anything as painful in my considerably long life. The pain of it never fades totally.
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"Lawyer"
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Desolation.
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Anger and sadness
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Homicidal. Vengeful.
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Dumbfounded.
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Betrayal, stabbed in the heart. So many here have described it well. I know experiencing it is very painful and hope not all have felt it.
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Poison.............
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it another four letter word HATE
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gutcrusher
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Rage.
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f***ing rage!
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the feeling of betrayel
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Intense betrayal..which starts a domino effect of the negatives..hurt rage hate...etc
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You mean the deep sinking feeling in your chest that feels like someone punched you so hard it took your breath away? I think that feeling is called heartbreak.
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a big fuck you!
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Alone.....
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I've cheated on someone that I really like, perhaps even love. But it was a drunken mistake, where i introduced a mate to a girl, where they knew i had a g/f (very clearly said). But my stupid self led me to kiss her, when she leaned against my head - and it happend. From there, i feel sick to the stomach and can't explain this to my gf - because I kind of liked it for the few seconds it lasted. But wish it hadnt happend at all, i feel like its broken my bond with her.... :(
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Jealous
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Empty, it's a very surreal feeling.
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betrayed, heartbroken, devastated
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Warm and fuzzy
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Devastated
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betrayed..then pissed...then cold
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"Murderous rage" springs immediately to mind.
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"righteous indignation."
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heart put into a blender wrap myslef around a pole while driving sick feeling inside stomach the world has come to a complete stop life seems meaningless cold numb
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Female intuition?
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humiliated???
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You get hurt, angry, embarrased, resentful... I could go on and on.
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I imagine that I would feel like he grabbed a knife and stabbed me in the heart, and the pain would be with me for a long time, even if I tried to ignore it. I imagine it would be a heart wrenching experience. The words I would use to describe this are: betrayal, heartbreak, hurt, upset, shock, pain, etc.
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murder
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devestated.
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Mortified!
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heartbroken
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Heart broken then angry...
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Not good enough, insecurities, low self-esteem. Thinking solitude is best for you for the rest of your life...
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Betrayed.
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At the very instant of discovery.. LIVID. But, after conformation, realization, and anticipation of the future... APATHY for them!! ap·a·thy –noun, plural -thies. 1. absence or suppression of passion, emotion, or excitement. 2. lack of interest in or concern IF ANYONE ELSE CAN TAKE THEM THEY ARE NOT WORTH HAVING! cut your losses. I would love to write a book on this subject. E me at WhenLifeHurts@writeme.com
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I just can't breathe.
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It's called Jealousy... don't listen to the others... they assume you already know.
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despair
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wonder
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rage. i guess. never had that happening to me.
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RESENTMENT. and its getting over that that is the problem, if you can get over the fact that hes been with another woman , then you can make it work, on the other hand it is also a key point that will enter his mind that if you forgive him once, youll forgive him again. Depending on how much you love him, you should make him grovel, pay the price, better still cheat on him, and not tell him, until the times right, then your even, but if your a walk over, hell do it again, but if you want him, make him suffer, to earn your trust, if he loves you, hell do anything, grovel and cry, and beg you, if none of this takes place, hes not worth it. most importantly FOLLOW UR INSTINCTS
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my boyfriend WHO did cheat on me by having sex with a random girl at his stupid house party when he was DRUNK thinks its excusable because HES A GUY and we ARENT married its really sad because it happens TOO OFTEN very sad but two of my best friends were cheated on by their boyfriends and i saw them ache and go through a hard time but NEVER thought it would be me because my boyfriend acted like I meant the world to him but sadly He did something this STUPID and yes I broke up with him its been a month and only time can tell if he ever deserves a second chance, not that i trust him, i just dont no if i can ever find sum1 like him again
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vomit making.
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Like the walls are closing in on me, and I can't breath. I am sinking in quick sand, and I feel poisoned by some thing in a bottle with skull heads on it. Like she took a knife and stuck it in my heart, and then twisted it.
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