ANSWERS: 49
  • Hope I didn't know her.Walk out and go over to his house and check all his e-mails in the last 6 months.Wait for him to get home and give him a piece of my mind.Then break up with him.
  • Walk over and pull her off the bed/him by the hair and tell her to get the hell out of my house before I call the police. Then I might do the same to him.
  • I would be Shocked.. !! that being said: I would simply leave .. And continue on with my Life and Hope one day I find the one I am really Meant to be with !!
  • OMG! Beat him and pack her bags. Then I'd call her mom and ask her... "Guess who's moving back home?"
  • ...probably walk into another room and start breaking things, or get into my car and drive as far away as i possibly could - but make sure i used his credit card for every time i filled up that tank of gas
  • Throw the steaming hot cup of coffee in my hand at his head, tell him to get the *beeping beep beep* out of my house... (like my beeps haha)
  • It happened to me when i was having my first child. I had been away staying at my mums and had gone back to pick some things up for me and the baby. I saw him in bed with someone else. I actually didnt react the way i thought i would, i walked past the bedroom quietly got my things together and left a note saying glad he had a good time and then went back to my mums. Whithin an hour he was at my mums begging for forgiveness. I stupidly three weeks later went back to him. I was 17. we were together till i was 21 then divorced, he was always a cheater.
  • Cut his dick off.
  • I would douse them both in cold water.
  • Shut the door and give them their privacy...forever.
  • He would cease being my S/O on the spot. I'd wait for "her" to leave and help my S/O pack his stuff and have him leave as well. I would not cause a scene..I'd be very stoic about it..saddened, disappointed and wistful about having trusted him to be faithful. But I would not crumble or fall apart..I don't do that. I assess a situation, see what I can do that will be helpful and move on. :)
  • Wonderful! That's a brilliant idea. You have retribution down to a T. lol
  • Crime of passion
  • Stand for means to be short for. S/O stands for significant other. Stand for also means to take kindly to. Copying what others say or do is the height of childishness, and we won't stand for it any more.
  • Stand there in total shock... I'm not sure what would happen after that. I am in a relationship now where I fully trust my husband and he knows my history and I know his... neither one of us would cheat on the other. I'm 100% sure of it.
  • You know.. whenever I would think about what I would do in such a situation, I would hold my dignity and walk away without looking back. However, there is something about my bed. I cannot explain it but since I was a young girl I have always loved the bedroom and how pretty things can be made so my bed is special to me. I have powedered my sheets since I was like 10 and I have always just put a lot of effort into making it beautiful and comfy. I love the intimacy, security and privacy of my bed so I will be honest and say that I would probably be like a little bull who saw red. I would walk to the kitchen and get a heavy skillet and come back and proceed to wreck him as he has wrecked the sanctity of our bedroom. I wish I could give a more self-respecting answer but that would just do me in. Gonna do me wrong? Do it right. Do not do it where I lay my head and leave snail tracks of another in it.
  • I would share my story when my jail term was over.
  • you know how in wrestling when your mate is in difficulty you give him five and then you can swap?
  • Quietly turn around and get the video camera. Post the footage on the YouTube. There's a reason payback is called a...witch. :)
  • I would beat the shit out of both of them, and tell my s/o that is done.
  • dump them and never look back
  • I'd rather never be able to answer that. :/
  • Love them anyways.
  • I'd be letting him discover me in the act of castration;)
  • Walk away. I would not want or need him.
  • I'd ask her if she was doing it just for revenge. jk.
  • spit at him and walk away
  • i know many people may not think they would, but I would most definitely have to knock him out unconcious first and then grab their phones, i would have to give whomever he was with a good beating. unfortunately i didn't have the chance to experience that, and I hope i never would. had i walk in the door and see him full on action with another woman, i don't believe i could take him back. but now looking back to see how i found out, i suppose seeing it would make a great difference bc of the visual aspect, but it never changed what happened.
  • I would probably throw up.
  • Put her out of my house, lock the door so she can't get back in, the put her stuff out on the sidewalk the next day.
  • It would depend if she went gay or if it was with another man. If she went gay, I would go nuts. If she was with another man, I would pull his punk tail out of there, and say to her, "I told you I had no competition".
  • Vomit - i hate vomiting by the way! Two in one! it would be the worst!
  • Been there so I know the answer to this one..Introduce myself to the gf, invite her out for a drink and a little chat and file for divorce ;)
  • it's happened....i cried to the point where i didn't know where i was.. i was shaking SO bad.. after that night, i never spoke to him again.
  • I would immediately walk over to the courthouse and file for divorce using the pictures on my cell as evidence. End of story no negotiation, done deal.
  • I think you would pretty much have to sit down and talk to them about it once things cooled down, certainly not right then, you'd have to wait at least a day for things to cool down. Then I think I would want to sit down with them, and ask them questions, tell them to be honest about what was going on, and try to decide what happens from here. Try to keep it as civil and honest as possible
  • I'd b a man bout it. Walk up to them n say sumthin stupid like, wow looks like yall are having fun. Then jst walk off n go dwn the list of chix in my fone, wait for her to come running at me n saying sorry (like i know she would), look at her deep n the eyes, to wer only she could see that i was hurt, then walk away. Letting her know that she lost the best man she could ever have. Then find that dudes girl n hit her up = P (dnt get mad, get even)
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  • well i have and it wasn't cool. i just stopped by a fast food drive through to get a milkshake ... and lo and behold i see my ex in a car with some other dude making out (very classy place to be making out in the car btw) and i made it a point to drive by them VERY slowly until she saw me ... i didnt even take a single sip of my milkshake :( haha
  • Depends on the situation, the partner and the way they behaved. Was it a one time spontainous accident? Was it suspected, asked about and then denied? How emotionally attached are you to both of them? Are they both not all that important to you but really really hot? Join them then! All that matters is the level of emotional involvement really. What did each of them mean to you? Which will also decide for you which one, or both of them, betrayed you the most!
  • Ohhh i dont know because the imidate reraction would be to kill them both for doing this to me especially my other half! but knowing me id calm down and then talk about what i just saw and want to know everything!
  • Leave. I was evidently NOT doing something he liked and he chose to find it with another. I would never be able to get that image out of my mind.
  • First, I would be angry and hurt, but if I saw them in the act, I would video the situation as proof (or what was left of it), then I would get my son and leave. I would monitor our security system over the internet to know when he left the house, go back, get what I want and be done with it. I don't need to be treated like that and I wouldn't. The eBay thing does not appeal to me, but if it makes her feel better, more power to her.
  • This is a great woman with a great sense of humor. She is very imaginative and probably great in bed herself.
  • Never been in that position but my reaction would just be laugh so loud and be like ''Girl he's yours'' and eliminate him from everything that minded me of him. But see I got a funny looking one, do the same thing in return and let him watch what I first had to witness then be like ''Bye, what's exactly what I wanted you to watch''.
  • Call an ambulance, they are going to need one.
  • call the cops and tell them that you think that some breaking in to your house. i would all so say some thing like hope he is better in bed with you then he was with me.
  • I hate to say it, but I think that I would go PSYCHO. I would flippin loose it to the fact that someone that I care about would dis respect me in such a distastful way. YUP I would do some damage :(

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