ANSWERS: 100
  • I've never met a guy that likes a girl "acting"...Only met ones who like them real, and not plastic.
  • I can't speak for all guys, but to me that is an instant message to turn and find the nearest exit.
  • Immature guys who're looking for "cute, innocent and stupid" like it. Mature men don't. I obviously can't speak for other men, but I have been through seven different sorts of hell and 1/2 of Georgia in my life. I want a woman who can stand at my back and hack 'em down when they come at us from that direction. Wilting wallflowers leave me cold.
  • If I were a guy I wouldn't want a gal who "acted" in the first place..I'd go elsewhere to find a real gal who was honest, open and not trying to impress me with an "act! :)
  • To me, cute+innocent+stupid = bimbo. I will generally move on to women who are willing to display more substance. . . .
  • If it's an act, it could be very annoying. If she's actually like that, yes I would like that.
  • That really annoys me.
  • I personally don't like it. the whole Jessica Simpson, Paris Hilton vapidity bugs me. I don't feel I could have a proper conversation. A lot of guys like that though, because stupid means they could be gotten into bed easily, or I'm assuming that's what some guys think. Or, maybe it's because Paris flaunts her crotch all over the media, therefore, soem guys think that girls who play dumb like her will give them some crotch
  • Apparently yes, due to the fact that it is a common ploy utilized by women to manipulate men AND men tend to take the bait, hook, line and sinker. The conflict in our society arises when women wish to be taken seriously and treated as equals. When this behavior is the norm, well, the status quo stupidity with many will reign...
  • How about no acting period. Just be yourself, and always try to be a good person, respectful.
  • I can't stand that act.
  • we hate that
  • ok. you should neever "act"to have a guy like you. and you should never act stupid EVER. but cute. yea u can be cute. or at least try. cuteness is a born thing i think. like. to just be cute. innocent. if your not. don't. =]
  • Cute is not too far behind innocent and innocent is not too far behind stupid... believe me I would rather all of the characteristics in a girl than try to ignore the fact the we man as well as the opposite sex have gone through each one of them in their life... bottom line... they are ALL acceptable...
  • I hate that so much it makes me want to burn them alive.
  • Not really. Actually, that would kind of annoy me.
  • No. I'll take a pass on those ladies.
  • No. Ladies, just be yourselves and we'll like you (or dislike you) for who you are.
  • Only if it's not an act and only for short periods of time.
  • Does cute and innocent have to be in the same sentence as stupid? She can be cute, innocent and smart. If a girl plays cute and innocent she's obviously smart.
  • Some guys even like it when a woman is smart and I don't mean smart ass. Being intellectual is the key in my opinion.
  • Like the current best answer,acting is bad. Also,why would anyone want to act stupid?
  • Only if the cute innocence and stupidity culminate in him getting laid
  • That drives me INSANE! I have a low tolerance for ignorance and stupidity. Dumb statements and brain-farts here and there are fine because we all have moments. However, I could not deal with someone I could not have a meaningful and deep conversation with. SO IF YOU ARE WITH ME, LEAVE THE ACTING FOR THE STAGE!!!
  • I am a guy, and i want a partner not a little sister.
  • As long as they're good looking and great in bed, I could care less.
  • Hate it when they act that way. It's a different story if they ARE cute, innocent and stupid:)
  • i don't think all of these adjectives neccessarily go togther, nor can they completely describe a person
  • i don't like it when they act cute, innocent and stupid. i like it when they really are cute, innocent ans stupid
  • I don't care for acting .. especially stupid.
  • yes.........but not at the alter
  • Sure, I like it when a girl wants to show interest in me and flirt. If a girl doesn't know me or what type of man I am she might not know what the best tact is at first. Give her some cues and unless she isn't playing dumb she'll switch.
  • Why would a guy want a potential girlfriend to act around him? We already have actresses like Cameron Diaz or whatever. If I were a guy (it doesn't matter anyways cause I'm bisexual), I wouldn't want girls to intentionally act like brainless bimbos around me. Not only is it pointless, but it's also embarrassing to the female race. Smartical girls, that's why we have education. :)
  • i am a guy and don't like it when girls act ditsy. It annoys me and make me not want to engage in a conversation with them. But genuine innocence of heart and mind is something i am attracted to greatly. And cute isn't so bad either. lol
  • I sure as hell don't...and I should know, I'm a guy!
  • wow. I really hope your only asking this question as a joke. Acting "stupid" does not attract a guy, or anyone for that matter. Guys want smart, classy, funny, independent girls. Not idiots. dont dumb yourself down, because someone will just call you out on it, and actually make you feel stupid.
  • I don't think they "like" it so much as it triggers the "easy lay" center in their brain.
  • I think my brother must. He repeatedly picks the girl who is dumber than a box of rocks. The cutesiest of cute and innocent, forget about it, no one has ever been more innocent. He finds them all at the local watering hole. Phony ole barflies.
  • I can attest to the fact that many, many guys LOVE IT.
  • Some guys do but I prefer an intelligent and confident woman.
  • cute and innocent can be ok...but don't act stupid.
  • No smart girls are sexy. I think its all about how their personality relates to mine. If there was a stupid bimbo I would tell her to get a life.
  • It turns me on, and I like being turned on, so I'd say yeah. Can't say wedding bells start a ringing from it though...
  • yes. Yes. YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • All above, but stupid.... I'd be embaraced to present my STUPID girl to my friends and family....
  • No. It makes me fear that my great inheritable genes may be spoiled by some awful ones in my future children...
  • Im interested in seeing this one myself? Im not a dude so I can't answer objectively, but im gonna guess some do and some dont? *Wow I feel psychic all of a sudden...
  • I love cute and innocent girls. For me, Cute = sexy. However, I can't stand girls who act stupid because that gets way too annoying, too fast for me and I'll start to lose my respect for them.
  • I like it when girls are cute, ditzy and random, I think its adorable, but I wouldnt like for a girl to act that way, i want to like a girl for who she is, not for who i think they are.
  • Definitely!After all Male always looks for supremacy!
  • Yes.... I don't think it is necessarily as much of a sexist thing, as it is they like to feel good about themselves. It is in their nature. Well, maybe not outright stupid, that is never attractive, but just a little bit ditzy ( not to a ridiculous point ) and innocent is always good.
  • i think it really depends on the guy. certain guys like girl who act in certain ways. they will most likely look for girls who act in a manner that they like and try and make moves on them or whatever.
  • Not only does it depend on the guy but also the situation. it really bugs me when a girl acts stupid or cute at the moment!? so just be careful on judging when to do wat!?
  • We gravitate to people who are like us. If we are shallow and stupid, that's what we will attract and that's what we'll get. Smart, confident men will want and attract smart, confident women. A man who likes cutesy, stupid, innocent women will deserve everything he gets.
  • Acting is the key word, but even then I don't want a female acting like that towards me when I first wake up in the morning.
  • Cute, yes. Innocent, maybe. Stupid, absolutely not. At least I don't. No reason to make yourself seem stupid...
  • Personaly, no! It is a major turn off. Most girls that do it think they are cute, but the truth is it is very annoying.
  • If they act no, but if that's the way they are...yes. As long they are nice...no problem.
  • To be honest its a hard one as every one is different however in my opinion i dont think so. If you act all innocent stupid and cute it makes you an easy target for other people to take advantage of you in the wrong way and its only a matter of time before you get hurt. On the other hand in my personal experience if you act sensible mature and cut you will attract the right person who will respect you and Adore you as he will be aware a sensible person who is matture wont take anything less then you deserve (the best). Its just a matter of what path you decide to take.
  • only the outwited.
  • Personally, it's a huge turn off. But everyones different. I've always like girls with plenty of confidence, and maturity.
  • No, I don't think so.
  • The answer to this is somewhat age dependent. Personally, I like girls, women that act cute but "know" they are doing it, and know that you know they are. It can be charming if not carried too far or done too often. Personally, I hate stupidity and the display of stupidity. I see no reasonable excuse to 'act' this way and nothing good can come of it. Innocent? Some girls simply are innocent or this is their natural demeanor, yet there is innocent and there is naivete, which is just a form of honest ignorance, or, rather, someone that just doesn't know about a particular subject. So, cute can be nice, charming, innocence is better than being hardcore if it's honest and there's no excuse for stupidity.
  • I think that acting cute and innocent are fine but if you act dumb i'd think you are and I'd laugh at you not with you
  • Thirty years ago, perhaps yes. Today, a most definite NO.
  • I can't speak for all guys, but.... I HATE it. Give me a smart woman over a dumb girl every single time, without exception.
  • well they do. for an instant. but it's only 'like', as u put it. not loooove. :) and if they like it, it's only superficial.
  • Innocent sure, stupid is just annoying! The innocence can be seen as honesty or being naive at times...
  • Any guy who likes a girl who "acts" will most likely get everything he deserves.
  • No. I know I'm a girl. But there is a girl in my school, who acts like a total idiot, and everyone knows she does it for attention. So all the guys hate her now, and nobody talks to her. So no, because guys hate dealing with us enought. :D
  • most guys just like it when they act cute.
  • Ofcoarse they do when they want to get what they want! However, if they were actually looking for someone to date seriouisly it wouldn't be the stupid girl. No one wants to marry the stupid girl so don't act that way if you can help it!
  • no! a stupid guys wud only like such girls...every one wants a substance of maturity in their partner !so its useles to pretend and act stupid..!
  • I'd buy me pair of brand new sneakers so that I can run as fast as I can!
  • WELL AN ANSWER AS A GIRL SUMTIMES COUPLE OF US ACT PREETY SILLY, N A LIL CUTE BUT THATS PART OF US DATZ INSIDE, WE AINT GOING TO BE SERIOUS AT ALL TIME CUZ DAT WILL BE PREEETY BORING AND SUM GUYZ WOULD UNDERSTAND THAT!! AND SOME OF THEM WHO BE SERIOUS ALL DA TIME WONT UNDERSTAND DAT AT ALLL IF YOU AGREE WITH ME PLEASE COMMENT
  • cute innocent dont mind but stupid no,and would nt want a woman that acted
  • I love it when they act cute and innocent. Acting stupid is a "no no"
  • I think cute is definitely something some guys like, although it's hard to act cute if your not natural, and innocent is nice too. The turn off here is stupid, and most guys I know aren't interested in stupid girls, even if its just an act.
  • Yes and so do Aliens, remember the movie EARTH GIRLS ARE EASY... Guys are just like Aliens - Just kiddin' guys... I guess :-/
  • the word act letss it all go if she is cute innocent etc... because thats her then finee thatss cute but actin that way is way far than finee
  • Certain men do, for sure. They are generally the ones who want a trophy wife they can have babies with and present in public but a freaky mistress or two on the side to have serious fun and conversation with...
  • i dont and anyone who does should stop,
  • no guy likes a girl who acts she has to be real not a fake bitch
  • Its cool when a gurl acts like hurself, ya dig? unless yous a freak, you, like hardcore freak, aight? just be chill
  • Wow! Given the average IQ in this community, I'd say, Hell Yeah!!!
  • LETS SAY CUTE AND SMART.
  • nope not at all. they absoulutely ahte it it makes them look dizzy and stupid
  • guys like it when women are receptive to them. that kinda behavior is usually a simple sign that this is the case. a woman, is a person...not to state the obvious, but, i do believe they are more than capable of conveying that kinda of information to a guy without acting juvenile, that being stated; do i like it? who cares as long as she likes what i do!
  • Some guys might like it. However, if you want to attract a truly compatible guy for you---BE YOURSELF. As a woman, I have attracted the highest quality of men by just being myself. I happen to be quite opinionated and strong willed. You put on the "act" you will more than likely attract the wrong person for you. Being intelligent, mature, and confident usually attracts QUALITY :)
  • no of course,a girl must be herself and not try to impress a guy in any way cause
  • It is okay if she is genuinely cute and innocent, and I don't mind if she isn't the brightest girl in the world as long as she can still hold a reasonable conversation, but not if she is just putting on an act.
  • for some guys they might think it is hot but for the majority they dont like it. Unless you are really good at it
  • Not me!
  • Oh yes, they love It !!!! It helps them with their ego's when they feel the need to talk down to a pretty little girl. Men are intimidated by woman of strong substance and opinions.
  • NO GIRL SHOULD ACT LIKE ANYTHING JUST TO GET A GUY. JUST BE YOURSELF AND IN MY OPINIO N CUTE AND SWEET AND INNOCENT ROCK THE CHARTS BUT STUPID NOT SO MUCH
  • sometimes, but i prefer girls to be themselves
  • unless you act unwittingly and invite me to your house for some hot cofee....No. simply put the ditzy blond attitude may get you a one night stand if you do it correctly...but if you want any certain guy what you should do is just start hanging around with him and his friends. Say that you really like being with him. and then when you've both had a drink...or anytime actually...just have some random hot sex that you have to initiate. Sex shows the guy you're interested for starters, make sure he knows that you only did that for him because you really wanted him to see how you feel about him. and then just act like nothing happened when hanging around with him till you get him alone again. Trust me. I'm a guy. most of us who are decent are kinda grossed out by the ditzy/naieve act (stds?). Just act normally and when you get him alone jump his bone. NO guy who's interested would deny you that priveledge, and at least if he turns you down you get a ride out of it :P

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