• No you can't go back and change things but you can rebuild your reputation - you didn't earn a bad reputation overnight and you won't fix it quickly either but it can be done. You need to make amends with yourself before you try to change the perception of others - be sure you want to change because a half hearted effort is worse than no effort at all - you would fall at the first hurdle and then everyone would think they were right about you all along. If appropriate you should apologise to people you have hurt - if they won't give you the time of day write to them, tell them why you behaved as you did and explain why you think you were wrong; ask for their forgiveness. People will either give you a second chance or deny it to you but don't expect them to make it easy for you - you have to prove you mean to do better in the future. Good luck

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