yes and was right. their whole night played out in my head I could not sleep and felt very sick to my stomach. it is a feeling i never want to feel again.

Not at all. He's always home or at work.

I suspected my ex was cheating for many months before we broke up. I was right.

yep and i was wrong

Yes and when i started to dig, I found out my gut was right.

I knew my ex was cheating...I walked in on them.

Yes. Without proof they have the benefit of the doubt.

my previous bf hit on my two best friends, and naturally they told me.

Yes... not a fun feeling to have. Passes and goes, but untill the day I have a proof I will stay with her.

I was an unsuspecting, trusting wife....who is now single. LOL

Nope...

yep!! just had a "gut" feeling...and found out i was right, always go with your gut feeling. it will never lead you wrong!!!

i have and sometimes i have been right and other times i have been wrong about it. you gut instinct is always right, sometimes the answer is right in front of your face.

No never.

Nope. I have always completely trusted each of the 3 people I was in relationships with before. I did not let the fact that my ex wife cheated on me make me suspicious of the other 2 people I would eventually become involved with.

Oh yes . . .my ex . . . and in the beginnin, it was my own insecurity I think, and he didn't do anything to reassure me. I was 18 when we married, had some abandonment issues from childhood (didn't know it then) and I was constantly terrified he was going to be unfaithful and what would I do? It eventually happened and I tried to get through it, but as soon as I went to work and made enough money to take care of me and my 3 kids, I was done.

Yes and I was right, but he was always accusing me of cheating...hummm, well after we broke up he told me he was a dad, but he said he never cheated...lol...umm I know how to do math!!

once. i was right. i don't regret breaking it off.

Nope. I've never been cheated on. I'm THAT awesome;) (yeah,yeah, yeah......I know that some of you are thinking that I'm naive and I just never CAUGHT anybody cheating. Well, don't be such a pessimist.)

i am currently in a relationship with a guy right now. and its really great. although, he lives two hours away from me and has a lot of good friends that are girls. he has told me time and time again that he loves me and would NEVER cheat on me, i just have this feeling that cheating could be a slight possibility since the distance is well you know, far. [kinda] everyone asks me if i trust him cuz of the whole distance issue. and i do (completely), its the stupid girls i dont trust.

Yes. i've been cheated on 3 times in the past, my mum cheated on my dad at least once, most of my friends do or have done. my current girlfriend thinks it is ok to snog other guys and is out tonight. It all makes me very sad.

All of the above. Everyone I've dated that I've had that "feeling" I was being cheated on, I was right. Once, whe I was dating this guy, he introduced me to his close group of friends (guys and girls alike), and for some reason, I had this feeling about one of the girls he introduced me to, like I knew that there was something between them. Low and behold, he ended up leaving me for her. Go figure. My intuition is always dead on (lucky for me).

Don't believe I've ever been cheated on and proud to say i've never cheated on anyone either.

Yes, and I was right.

yes, and im sure i was right because he cheated on his daughters mother to be with me. i knew he was a scumbag, i just didnt want to believe it. for anyone who reads this, cheaters are most likely gonna cheat again, dont be suprised if they do.

Oh yeah! And vice/versa.

Yes and I later found out he was cheating on me.

Out of 2 wives and 2 serious GFs only one was cheating......Good track record ladies....

yea my girl is cheating on me....GOD FREAKIN HO'S !!!! LOL LOL LMAOROFLLL but yo fer real i kno she cheatin, she got dem std's and i be like wtf SERIOUSLY GURLLL BACK UP OF DAT MAN SHITT I SEEN EM BOYS GRINDIN ALL UP ON MY GIRLS FOINE ASS AND I BE LIKE WTF DAWG AND THEY BE LIKE DIS SHIT IS GOOOOODDDDD and imlike WTF DAWG so yea i smackaho later on and shit it was curazzyy PEACE

I just found some explicite text messages sent from my wifes phone to a guy that she does bookkeeping for. She claims that they were a joke. I then told her best friend about it and she said that it was true. What would you do? We've been married 9 1/2 years and have an 8 1/2 year old son. I just cant get that picture out of my mind

yup, have u?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs and have been living together for 1 year now. I have never had problems of him cheating or suspicions that he might be until last week. He went to a restaurant and one of the waitresses hit on him, they exchange numbers and have been communicating behind my back. He somehow decided to come clean and tell me and I dont know what to make of it. How do I know that he has definately cut off all communication with her? Do I move on like nothing happened or do I leave just to make him realise that I am not willing to stay with a guy that is going to cheat on me? What do I do?

Just like all the clichés I started to suspect something was up when my boyfriend of six months became distant and started working late. He also didn't answer the phone when I rang him, and he always had his mobile switched off when we were together. I wanted to check it for text messages but he was really protective of it. I must admit I tried to hack into his e-mail but I couldn't figure out the password. I know I should have talked to him about it but I couldn't face the showdown and guilt if he denied it. My techie friend told me that I should get his mobile phone checked out. So I brought him a new mobile for his birthday, he was gadget mad and loved it, and I assuaged my guilt by thinking that even if I found out nothing, at least he'd still like the present. I got the opportunity to use it a couple of weeks later when he said he was going to the gym, having already been earlier that day. I contacted the http://www.computersleuth.co.uk and had the phone checked, and it had loads of hidden text messages on it from his ex girlfriend. By the time he got home his bags were packed. He didn't have a clue what was happening when I told him to leave, and that I knew he was cheating on me. He didn't deny it. I don't feel ashamed of what I did, but I would have felt very guilty if he was innocent. If you have an inkling it's better to know. If I'd have asked him straight out, I know he would have lied to me. I didn't tell him how I'd done it but all my girlfriends knew and were very impressed. Lisa

My exhusband had serial affairs. Yes, I did suspect. My current husband had one affair. Yes, I did suspect.