• know that its there past if they love you it wont matter because they are with you now.. I am some what in the same position but I need my SO to get over my past. Yes I made my mistakes and I have screwed up but I promise the same mistakes I have made before wont happen again, because I have learned from them. I love him with my whole heart, and that lets me stick around until he does forgive me for my past. So it just takes time, patients, and trust.. I wish the it would hurry up but you cant force love, and you cant force them or yourself to get over there past
  • You wait for time to expose it's healing qualities and it usually comes through in the end.
  • What's in the past can't hurt you. There may be some issues that you and your S/O need to work out due to things that happened in the past, but that's a normal part of being in a relationship. Unless what we are talking about is his/her abuse of others, then that is a different scenario. In that case, you might want to reconsider getting involved with this person.
  • G'day Anonymous, Thank you for your question. You have to accept them for who they are and hope they have learnt from the mistakes of the past. I have made mistakes as well so we're all human. Regards
  • realise what he did back then was in the past and its the presant and the future that is important obviously it depends on the past? is it ex partners or behaviour? its not important who hes been with its important hes with YOU NOW
  • Unless it's a past that interferes with the here and now you shouldn't be bothered by it. You have a past just as your s/o does, are they having a problem with your past?? If it's a problem and you had nothing to do with the past your irked by then maybe this isn't the right relationship you should be in. Everyone comes with baggage even you.
  • unless his/her past directly affects you, then it shouldnt, if so, discuss it, and work it out with him/her

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