If a guy tries to get a girl in bed the same day they met, should the girl take this as a compliment?
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No. As Eddie Griffin said "My dick does not discriminate".
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It's pretty much standard operating procedure, isn't it? Seriously, it seems he is just looking for someone to get into bed with. How is that complimentary?
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i consider it a compliment-i am not a girl though and not sure that make a difference-doesnt mean you have to go-can always just thank them for the thought-------just my thoughts---smile and enjoy the night
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It might be a compliment to her sex appeal. If that's what she is looking for then yes.
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I'm sorry to say, probably not. Many guys are just like that. If he gets you in bed the same day you met, then he calls you after, that should be taken as a compliment.
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No. She should find someone else who will respect her more.
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I would say no. It's obviously saying that he's sexually attracted to her, but is that really a compliment? Guys are not that difficult to "attract"! Personally, I would be insulted by it because, by doing this, he is blatantly saying that he has no interest in the girl other than sex. That's never flattering.
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No it would be far more of a compliment if he showed respect and waited.
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Most women that I know would not, including myself; because we want to know that we are wanted for more than just what is between our legs. And it very well may be that the guy really likes the girl, but behavior like that doesn't reflect that.
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Yes. You can always say no. You know. We won't be offended. And we probably won't stop trying. lol
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it depends
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No never. It is either a sign that the guy is a total ass who is just interested in the girl sexually and will stop at nothing to score with her or he's testing the water to see just how far she's gonna let him go. In any case it should never be taken as a compliment and the girl should reconsider dating someone who is such an ass.
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If being treated as cheap and easy is a compliment to her, then go for it, I guess.
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No it is not a compliment. It is just a guy chancing his arm trying to see how easy the girl is with any guy.
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not in the least.
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I take it the guy is desperate and the girl needs to have more respect for herself than to sleep with a guy she just met.
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Definitely not. She should take it as a warning and stay away from him.
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No..... unless it's an arranged marriage or something and the two people got along great on the phone and through letters and e-mails.
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No she should take it as another point for him on the scoreboard! If he's willing to sleep with her the first day they met, imagine how many other girls have been in that position. GROSS!! He's a PIG!!
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Depends on how hard he tries. At some point, it turns into a threat. If he is very aggresive, then you are likely no more than an object to him. In my past, I would not hit on a girl unless there was some sort of sexual interest. But I was never comfortable with having sex with them until I got very used to them, at LEAST two weeks. I just flat out couldn't get it 'up' prior to that. Every time it was the girlfriend that made the first move on me, even then I was very nervous the first few times. I could masturbate tremendously thinking about them, but it all melted when I got next to them. I was always amazed at who they were, and respected them greatly. This is my view.
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No...take it as he doesn't value you and doesn't want to wait to get to know you. If he did then he would want to wait because he would know that it would mean a lot to you.
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Not really. She should just accept that he wants to have sex and not try and figure out if she's met some kind of criteria.
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absoloutely not. its obvious all this guy is looking for is someone to get in bed with... the girl probably wouldnt see him again after that!
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You should take it as a HUGE insult... If a girl doesn't get angry or annoyed when a man moves in on her sexually, she doesn't respect herself.
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Most men will try to sleep with ANY woman that gives them the opportunity, specially under the right circumstances. This shouldn't be a compliment, the compliment comes in when a man continues to ask you out on dates to get to know you before trying to get into your pants.
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no thats an insult what do you think i am a cheap slut is what i think but thats just my opion
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i wouldn't, because it would mean one of two things. 1. i must be putting out an "easy" vibe, which is something i'd never want to do, or 2. the guy obviously doesn't respect me. or possibly both at once.
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honestly, we dont get all sexy for nothing and we would be insulted if you didnt try but we make you wait to see if you are really interested in us or just sex -
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This isn't a compliment to me. You just meet up with someone and you wanna get them in the sack? We all know this isn't gonna end well.
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He is showing utterly no respect for her, a far cry from a compliment. He is only interested in his own selfish interest and has NO regard for her at all.
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Well no it is sleazy and uncool. I however slept with my boyfriend on our first date. I respect myself fully and don't regret it. We are still together.
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I am a girl and i think yes because it so sweet and romantic
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yes beause the guy really likes u but if u don't feel comfortable don't do it
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I can see it both ways... Yes... He apparently finds you attractive for his tastes that he wants to bed you. No... He keeps pushing it even after you said no... Besides, you JUST met... It's possible that that's all he wants from you. My suggestion: Put him off. If he likes you that well, he will wait. (But, if he's pushing all day, he obviously doesn't WANT to wait... Why? Because he knows if you think about it you won't? Because he's just interested in THAT?)
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No...it's just the guy wanting to get laid, don't think it's anything out of the ordinary. So wave goodbye, tell him to find a cheap skank and keep on looking!
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no this is not a compliment the guy is just plain out disrespectful a compliment is when he tries to get to know you not how you are in bed.
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Why would you consider it a compliment? All he wants is the sex and after he'll just break up with you most likely. Guys don't want the easy girl
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Ummm.... You`re basicialy calling her a slut. If She likes to be like that, then tht`s her choice. but w/e.
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A compliment to her sexual attractiveness, perhaps, but also a major insult to her character, intelligence, and integrity.
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Wouldn't you like to know? ;D
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a normal woman would be pissed at the guy if they tried that. i wouldn't even ask, id wait till they wanted to.
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If he is actually very attracted to her physically and mentally and they just click, then I think that the girl shouldn't think of it as a compliment, but rather (if the guy is doing it because it feels right, and not because he wants to get laid) that there is a guy who she should pursue and try to see again.
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If a girl takes it as a compliment, she is an idiot! It just means he wants to go to bed with her because he is either sexually attracted to her or is just looking for someone to have sex! A decent guy will always want to get to know the girl first plus hey girls! don't we all deserve a little romance, courtship and DECENCY? So the next time some guy whom you just met wants to jump into bed with you, don't just kick him out of bed, kick him out of your life, because S-E-X is the only thing he wants.
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Guys will try and get anything they can get off of a female, sexually. Thats just the norm. Is it a compliment? It depends on whether or not your attracted to him...the flirting aspect is nice, but same day they met? Hmmm...not for me. I think its much more satisfying being in a relationship than a one night stand. I'm a damn prude.
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No. She should take it as a matter of course. She is attractive on a superficial level and he is active on that same level.
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No you should not. That should tell you alot. He is not trying to have a relationship. He is only after one thing.
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What I will say: Where the HELL is the COMPLIMENT in THAT?!?!?!?! He wants to BED HER, FOR GOODNESS' SAKE, NOT HAVE A REAL RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRGGGHHH!!!!!! THAT IS AN INSULT BECAUSE HE IS IMPLYING THAT HE THINKS SHE IS EASY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAARRRRGGHH!!!!!!!! What I would like to say, but held back: GGRRRRRRRRRR!!!!! LEMME AT 'EM!!!!!!! LEMME AT 'EM!!!!!!! I'LL CUT HIS NUTS OFF, PUT 'EM IN A BLENDER, PUSH PUREE, AND MAKE HIM DRINK IT!!!!!!!!!!
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Depends how you look at it...if you just want to know that guys are sexually attracted to you then, yeah, it's a compliment. HOWEVER, if you have more respect and self-worth, he just sees you as a piece of a** and maybe he'll want you for another few days, but when another piece of a** comes along, you'll be forgotten. So, he wants you all right, but only for as long as he's lusting after you. If he on the other hand, wants you sexually, but restrains himself and makes a point of getting to know you then, that's someone who respects you and wants to sleep with you for more than just sex!
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she should take it as a sign that he's not looking for a long term relationship
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I would say yes because that means she's a hottie with a body.
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if you like him and want to then fuck it. if not, he's a dog ^_^
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if i was a girl i wouldn't take it as a compliment i would think that he thinks that i was easy.
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totally if a man sees you as an object he totally digs you.
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Sorry I would refuse the sex on the 1st date.. Maybe the 3rd if he is lucky.. Cause more then likey if your easy on the 1st date he will not be back again.JMO
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No, they should take this as a peverted weirdo.
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it depends. As a guy, i know girls have a sixth sense. I also know a true beautiful girl compare to a good looking slut who just wants one thing. There is a difference between a guy who wants a one night stand and a guy who feels he somehow connected with your sould for the 5 hours you meet and wants too be one with you. So the answer is it depends on the guy, and as a girl you should lock onto your sixth sense which will tell you if he cares or just wants one thing.
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That is no compliment. He is just seeing how long it will take him for someone to sleep with him. He just is seeing how easy you are and that is not a compliment.
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You could look at it that way and take it as a compliment, but also a guy who would want to get in bed on the same day you meet, I would consider a pig who is just looking for a one night thing. But if you would like to take it as a compliment, he probably wouldnt want to if you werent good looking.
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Only if she is a moron!
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COMPLIMENT? NO...DISRESPECTFUL? YES
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NO! if he had any respect for you, he wouldn't try to get in bed with you the same day he met you. I would take that as a sign of maybe he was using you for a piece of ass. people shouldn't have sex the same day they meet anyway. thats just my opinion
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NO. Men who really like women don't try and get them in bed right away because they have respect for them and want to build something...
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obviously this guy finds you attractive but its not a good idea on the first night because he might find you easy and cheap if you make it a little harder for him to get you the more he will want you
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No it is not a compliment, you should know that by now. If a guy can not respect you on the FIRST night, what makes you think that he is going to respect you later?
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it makes it seem like he isn't actually interested in you, just in sex. now is that a compliment?
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Perhaps as a compliment to her physical attractiveness, but certainly not as a compliment to her being a respectable partner for a meaningful relationship.
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gurl no this is only saying all the guy want is to fuck what the hell y would anyone fuck sumon3 th3 first dayt th3y m3t thats mor3 lik3 an insult.
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The real compliment would be if he offered you a fine glass of delicious lemonade for post-coital refreshment.
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Entirely depends - don't think there is an answer really. Most likely he's the sort of guy who'd try to get a CAR into bed just to have some company - but it's always possible he really DOES like u! I think u have to go with the flow.
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eww not the guys a sleeze. men are men theyre addicted to ass.
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in my opinion i would say the guy needs to mature a bit but then again if the chemestry is there and both people are wanting it then i guess there is no problem but i think he needs to get to know her before he gets to that point also the girl needs to be smart enough to not let him get her in that position if she is uncomforrtable about doing it to soon thanks the iron man
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of course not. the percentage of guys like that is so high in today's day and age. don't lower your standards or values for men like this. :)
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If you would sleep with him, you would take it as a compliment.
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No, that's not a compliment. That means he's looking to get laid. Sorry to be blunt, but it's the truth.
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no not at all.
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Sure take it as a compliment-that you are most likely part of a series of women he has tried to get into bed the same day he met them.
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No, it is never a compliment. I a freaking guy and I know that. I want to have sex with one, a notch on the belt, a story at work, bragging rights. I personally lose all respect for women who have sex with me on the first night. I never ask a woman to have sex, you just think that is what I want. We are men and we think about sex. But that does not mean I have to have it. If he is pushing, he just wants to have sex, if he has sex with you the first night and you instigate, almost guarentee the relationship will fail, we guys honestly lose respect for a woman that easy. If your that easy for me, who else are you easy for. Think about it.
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Ahh....NO!
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I think it would depend on the girl really. If it was me, I'd say no and take things slowly to start off with.
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No, his just using you!!! But if he realy likes you he will be in contact with you, try to take things slow
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If she really likes him then NO coz she'll want them both to get to know each other. If she's horny(like I am most of the time) go for it coz you'll just offend her if you turn her down!
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No, the girl should take as an act of lust not love
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Ummm no,,,,, it's just standard. 90% of men say that they will try it on, but dont really respect a girl if she gives in, and they rarely form any lo lasting relationship with a girl that doesnt respect herself enought to wait and see if its real. Same goes for the second and third date too. If its the real deal there will be no end of time to enjoy that aspect of the relationship, but dont cheat yourself of that lovely "getting to know you"stage.
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Nooooooooo. HOW is that a compliment? That means he doesnt RESPECT you.
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No, you should take it as a guy trying to get you in bed on the the first day you met!
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No! He views her as a tramp and doesn't want to get to know her, just satisfy his physical desires. Consider this as an insult. Be very careful because he could have a disease that he wants to share.
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Nope. It merely means he is running booty game on her to see how weak she is and what he can get without a commitment or even spending money on a date! Any knucklehead will try to get some free booty, so that is nothing at all to feel flattered about. If anything, a woman should feel disrespected! A man that thought she was worthy of respectful treatment would not come at her like that... he would be afraid of insulting her and driving her away. So if anything, this type of behavior by a male towards a woman he barely knows indicates lack of respect, lack of caring, insensitivity and a player attitude. He is treating her like she is nothing but tail and for that she should kick him to the curb and keep moving. Ms. HeartBeat http://www.askheartbeat.com
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No. Sounds like he just wants to get some action.
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never
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Only if she's dumb and has low self-esteem and low standards.
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No, i would say its more of an OFFENCE it means that they do not like you enough to persue you (taking things slow) theyd rather have a one night stand with you and never call again
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Yes, absolutely. But you don't have to say yes.
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No Compliments involved here. Only to satisfy his needs & I strongly suggest rejecting it. Accepting it will show you're too easy to deal with and belive me, I DON'T think your relation will continue further than that.
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Not I would not take that as a compliment, I would take that as someone just trying to get into my pants or somethin.
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well if you have no self esteem and self respect, then sure, you can take it as a compliment.
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no he just wants to hit it and quit it, and then never see you again. plz answer mine: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/870228
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no. guys try to get into bed with any girl. especially if their easy. all they want is sex. they go after girls who have already had sex. most of the time. or girls they kno they can get it from.
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Definetely not..Every man wants to get the girl in bed the same day..If a man loves a woman he should wait...
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No. A real compliment would be one who sticks around, whether or not she decided to sleep with him. Men and boys who try to get women/girls into bed right away are almost always ones who are incredibly selfish, and probably heartless.
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the guys prolly a sleeze lol so i say no
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