ANSWERS: 8
  • Let go of that fantasy and show your girlfriend how much you love and care for her . She deserves it
  • Don't leave the one you love for the one you like, they're sure to leave YOU for the one they love. Sounds like the GF is perfect, even though men have a habbit of wanting what they can't have (cars, women, etc) - look at this lust as just a passing craving. Play "games" with the GF to spice things up if that is what you're craving. I'm sure she will be happy to please you.
  • There is that old saying "The other man's grass is always greener". The problem is, that we tend to look and keep on looking at the other man's grass, instead of appreciating the nice lawn we have. It is, believe it or not, a choice. You can say to yourself: that grass is not mine, in fact is on someone else's lawn. So I will acknowledge that it is nice to look at occasionally, but I will appreciate the lawn I have.
  • Want a dose of reality...if your girlfriend is so perfect, why should she be with someone who's in love with someone else? Dump your girlfriend, chase the fantasy you can't have...and then see if you feel the same way. Love is different from infatuation.
  • Just take some time to sit down and think about what your life would be like WITHOUT her. How would you feel if you didn't have any contact with her whatsoever for 1 week. How do you feel now? There's your answer.
  • I think I know why you feel this way. It's called BEING A MAN!
  • I know it's possible because it's happened to me. It's chemistry. There's no easy way to get the other girl out of your head. Just spend even more time with your girlfriend, hold her, think about what you've got, and how much you could lose.
  • This is also a great way to put up a wall to true intimacy with your gf if you distract yourself with another woman. Being in-love with someone you can't have has a way of being in-love with a fantasy you have developed of that person. Focus on your gf and her wonderful traits. Ask yourself what you are scared of.

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