• She can't make you feel guilt. That's your choice. I don't see any reason you should feel guilty for visiting your mom or living with her if you want. But your grandmother would probably take it better if you moved out on your own than in with your mother. Are you over 18? Have you graduated high school? I don't think your grandmother is toxic. I think you have given her more power than you should have over your feelings and only you can choose how you feel. If your grandmother chooses to cut ties with you that is her choice and not on you. You have to make the choices for your life and you have to live with the consequences good or bad. But you should be able to choose where you want to live and not feel guilty.
  • nnaybe you should go live with your nnonn

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