ANSWERS: 43
  • Yes it is Ok. There is a time and a place for everything. it will happen on day.
  • Of course it is! Who's to say what's "Okay"and what's not? There will come a time, just wait and let it happen when it may. If it makes you feel any better, I'm *15* and I've never kissed a guy before.
  • Of course it's okay. People who judge people for either kissing or not kissing by a certain age certainly have too much time on their hands! This is only something a person themselves can decide is "okay" or not. Some people never want to get married or kiss, and that is okay. Some people don't even want to kiss until a certain age. That is okay. It is all okay. I know a lot of people may be saying that you need to kiss somebody, but honestly, you're young and you don't need to kiss anybody. However, it is okay if you do kiss as well! I didn't kiss a guy until I was 18 - and that relationship didn't work. I haven't been with a guy since 2003, and I haven't found the right guy yet, and I've not kissed anybody since, and I'll be 25 next month, and I feel that this is okay, too!
  • yup.. don't rush it their are a lot of girls your age who havent.
  • Lol there was a guy who just said the same sort of thing, and I will say the same sort of response, I am 17 and I have never had a girlfriend, or kissed a girl outside my family, and I dont really care, I am perfectly happy without a girfriend, you should think more on the lines of what makes you happy instead of what society expects you to do. asking questions like "is this ok?" seems to me like you are making sure what you are doing is within the acceptible lines of conformaty, you will be happier if you just do what makes you happiest, provided it does not affect anyone else in a negative way...
  • Thats fine... im 22 and I never kissed a girl before. Some of us just dont chose to do that. Others may not have the chance either way its perfectly fine. Don't feel like you need to rush in and kiss some guy just because you want to say you have.
  • Why wouldn't it be? It isn't as if there is an age that it becomes illegal to not have kissed someone, and the kissing enforcement police are going to swoop down on you and torture you until you kiss a guy. Not kissing a guy at 14 is actually pretty darn normal.
  • Of course.
  • yh its fine im a 14 year old boy who hasnt been kissed yet but be patient and you ll be fine
  • i had my 1st kiss when i was a sofomore in high school and it sux so dont worrie i just hope that ur 1st time doesnt sux
  • yup yup, its totally fine. it will happen sooner than later and then you will realize you spent too much time worrying about things that aren't really that important. welcome to the world of adolescence!!
  • so.. your 14.. so am i;)...
  • Of course this is ok. I think kids feel too much pressure to rush into physical acts that they are not ready for these days. Kissing usually starts out innocent, but once that starts, other expectations often follow. Don't let anyone tell you it's not okay to have not been kissed. It will happen someday when the time is right.
  • good grief, i'm 17 and i've never kissed a guy...i don't ever plan to either! actually, i think 14 is a little young to have been kissed by a guy...
  • Baha, I hope so because if not I'm doing something very inappropriate.
  • dont wast the first one! i did with a random girl, make it special.
  • Sure it's ok. Don't get all worked up about it, when it is your time it will happen. Just be yourself and have fun.
  • adolescences sucks, don't feel pressure. You do what you feel is right.
  • NO!! i was 12 when i got mi first kiss, REAL KISS
  • NO!! i was 12 when i got mi first kiss, REAL KISS
  • NO!! i was 12 when i got mi first kiss, REAL KISS
  • Yes I think it's fine, I've never kissed a guy either and i'm 14.
  • Join the club!!
  • I'm 14 and I've never kissed a guy. I think it's okay.
  • Yes. It is absolutely ok.
  • i got my first kiss at 17.
  • I got my first kiss when I was 15, so I'm obligated to say that yes, it's completely okay to never of kissed at 14. Though in my honest opinion it really is. I think it's good to be older and wait for that kind of stuff. You'll be more mature and ready, not to mention most likely better at it. Kissing isn't as big a deal as people make it seem like it is. I felt kinda behind because I was later with all that kind of stuff than my friends. I used to wonder, okay, when is this gonna happen to me already? So I get where you're coming from.
  • 16 and never kissed a girl
  • i am 14 also and i have never kissed a guy or gril. I hope i never kiss a guy at all
  • i'm still 14 and tbh i have but it wasn't so much a big deal. you worry about it but when it comes to it, it just happens :p don't worry about it :) honest.
  • Chyaz: Of course its OK! Don't let anyone pressure you into doing ANYTHING until you're totally ready =]
  • watch never been kissed with drew berrymore its really good she waits for her first kiss when she's in her mid 20s the guy is perfect wait for that perfect guy =]
  • Yes. That is absolutely okay. I didn't get my first kiss until the age I am now (17). :]
  • It's not only okay, it is admirable. Don't rush. Take your time. Kiss boys that you like, in due time, when YOU decide to kiss them.
  • im a guy, 17, annd i just had my first kiss last weekend..... i was drunk and made-out with my friend gf, but it was my first kiss.
  • you have the rest of your life to be kissed! dont rush into anything or overthink it. you will know when its the right time and guy.
  • of course, when the time is right you will
  • Ive never kissed a guy wither and i'm 14 too. I get exactly what your going through. I feel like I really want to just get it over with so I can move on and not be afraid to have a relationship with a guy whos more experienced. Not being kissed is really holding me back and I think about it all the time. I don't know what to do wither but I think the time will come. Good luck:)
  • Yes. Its perfectly fine. I did'nt have my first kiss until about a month before my 15th birthday.
  • Of course! You don't need to kiss a guy or a girl for that matter. +5
  • couse it's ok! I personally say it's even good! BBuild up the tension! Ps: good Luvk!
  • Why wouldn't it be alright. Enjoy your childhood, it really does go by too fast. Plenty of time for relationships later. There will still be boys when you are 18 and even then, it still ok if you've haven't been kissed. Its your body. Don't get into a sex race with your pals. You'll gain more self respect for yourself if you wait till you are ready and not before then. You never want to kiss the wrong guy just because everyone was doing it and he was the first guy to come along.

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