We've been together 7 yrs, married for 3 yrs and because we're not where should be by now and have not accomplished a thing together and have had no gain to speak of all these years, I want to get a divorce and move on. I feel like I'm wasting my life and to get matters worse my biological clock is ticking. We love each other and I don't mind staying friends afterward and help him out if he needs me. But he doesn't want to end this relationship, thinks that we can work it out and things will be better. But I have my reasons not believe him. No matter how good and genuine his intentions may be, he just doesn't have what I want in a partner at least financially. He moved in with me soon after we met, but never contributed in paying the rent and other household expenses. He only pays for groceries and doesn't like to discuss about money & finances. I've been making more than him so I didn't mind it for a long time, only complained occasionally that it would be nice to work as a team and that I probably would've been better off living with a roommate who contributed. He thinks I'm all about money when I raise this issue, but I'm not. To make matters worse, he's a pathological liar. I found him on social networking and dating sites back in 2006 claiming he was single, didn't want kids and looking for casual relationship. He even had his pictures up. I was so miserable crying and arguing with him most of that year. He deleted accounts, said it was his friend testing the waters with...