ANSWERS: 17
  • Stop buying into the idea that love controls you. Love is a feeling - a strong and powerful feeling - but it does not dictate our actions. When we take an action, we make the decision to do so, despite the fact that many people use "love" as an excuse for making stupid mistakes. Love is a strange and wonderful thing. We don't have to put a lot of energy into it for it to exist. It can cross oceans and break boundaries and inspire greatness, but love does not equal instant gratification. It just doesn't work that way. It is important to understand that love does not disappear when people come in and out of our lives, it does not hover over each person like a dark cloud, despite our conclusions about the pain we associate with this, the love remains, I believe. How we choose to deal with it is ultimately up to us to decide. Some people do not deal well with it and let anger take over, and practice hate, but that's the easy way out in my opinion. So, how do we let someone that we love go? We just make the decision to do so, and then we feel love anyway. Whether they come back or not, we feel love.
  • if you truely loved them, you wouldnt let them go
  • If you believe that one of you needs to find themselves before you can really have a true relationship-that's how you can love them and let them go. You love them enough to let them find themselves or find yourself.
  • simple. let them go. forget about it.
  • Catch them in bed with your best friend. It will be easier.
  • if you love someone and want them to always be happy you will do anything. sometimes letting them go can make them happy :)
  • If you really ever loved them at all... I don't see how it is possible. Only in the case of physical abuse where even though you love them if you are in physical danger... It's not wise to stay, you still love them.
  • You are lucky to have them in your life for a while. If they want to go, let them go. Maybe the next person in your life is even better for you. +4
  • I've managed. Not easily, but I've managed.
  • Yeah, how's that possible, not on my end! :)
  • Because if you truly love someone you need to do what is best for that person -- sometimes letting that person go is best for him or her.
  • YOU LOVE THEM BUT YOU LOVE YOURSELF MORE. YOU RUN LIKE FORREST GUMP....
  • IF you truly love someone .. and .. they do NOT love you ; and want out of the relationship / friendship .. whatever ..... You want them to be happy with their lives ; so if they are NOT Happy with you , do not love you ... YOU let them go , so they can find the happiness that they deserve and neeed ... THEN; YOU must also move on without them and find your own happiness and love ...
  • reminds me of a poem i wrote.... LET ME GO BECAUSE....... LET ME GO BECAUSE, YOU WANT ME TO BE HAPPY, AND I'LL BE GREATFUL FOR YOUR CONCERN, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOU LOVE ME, AND I MIGHT LOVE YOU IN RETURN, LET ME GO BECAUSE, YOU KNOW I NEED SPACE, AND I MIGHT WANT TO COME BACK, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOU KNOW I FEEL TRAPPED, AND I MIGHT NOT NEED SO MUCH SLACK, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOU TRUST ME AND I MIGHT PROVE TO BE TRUE, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IN US, AND I MIGHT BELIEVE IN US TOO, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOU SEE MY PAIN AND THAT I'M HAVING SOME DOUBTS, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOU UNDERSTAND I NEED TIME TO FIGURE THINGS OUT, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOUR BEING SINCERE AND WE MIGHT BEGIN TO GROW, LET ME GO BECAUSE YOUR NOT SELFISH AND I MIGHT NOT WANT TO GO. whostolemyhelmet
  • Because love is about making the person you love happy and healthy. True love is not greedy or selfish. If you love someone -- truly love them -- you can let htem go if it's in their best interest.
  • When you love someone, you want only what is best for them and what makes them happy. If letting go makes them happy, then that is what you must do, even though it hurts so much.
  • If you are sure that their love is dead or that there is no way to compromise or fix things, then love them enough to let them be happy in some other way.

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