What do you say or what does it mean , when your long term bf says to you , I dont like to sleep at you during the week as its not my comfort zone and im tired for work the next day. lets just keep it for the weekends .
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silent eclipse
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That would hurt me first of all and secondly if my fiance told me that, then he would be finding his own permanent residence excluding me. I would not like being kicked outta the bed for nothing, in other words, if he has good reason to kick you out then so be it, but that makes no sense to me, if he is tired at work then maybe go to bed a bit earlier and then maybe not do anything late at nite that would keep you up too late, like sex or whatever, that (the sex) I would keep for the weekends if it is the sex keeps you all tired, but not the comfort of sleeping with your loved one. Hope this helps. sorry if it sounds to blunt, but it is the way I have chosen to answer.
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I don't like to sleep at my bf's during the week either. My home is my comfort zone too. I prefer to sleep in my own bed
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It might mean that he simply prefers to sleep in his bed. That the things he needs to relax before bed are there. Reminds me of a friend's situation, he couldn't sleep at his gf's house cause she was a slob. His allergies would act up and he would be itching because of her roach situation.
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so he's staying at his place during the week? i think it's ok... let him get his rest. sometimes it's better when you guys don't see eachother every single day so it gives you time to miss the other person and you appreciate the time you spend with them that much more... maybe you can see eachother once during the week and on the weekends. if it's serious, maybe you should talk about moving in together?
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I wouldn't worry about it too much. My wife and I have been married for years and we sometimes have difficulty getting a good night's sleep in the same bed. We both tend to move around a lot in our sleep and it can be disturbing.
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