Am I a bad person if I don't want to be warm to cold people anymore?
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killdrphil
ANSWERS: 15
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Yes.
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How do you know they are cold and not depressed or in pain, or autistic, or shy, or ashamed or the way they talk or look or any number of other reasons why human being withdraw?
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If you were a bad person, you wouldn't even care.
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Absolutely not. How many times do you have to be slapped in the face by a wet fish to say, "stop slapping me in the face with a wet fish!" I've been slapped a lot. Not anymore.
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Definitely not! They usually don't care whether you are warm or not to them. Find WARM people to be warm to...there's plenty of us around. :-)
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No of course not everyone is different in many ways :)
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No!!! Personally I have stopped being nice to mean people, both online and in real life. Some people are just beyond "redemption." Besides, cold people should get the treatment that they deserve.
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You sound like a nice person who has been hurt a few too many times. You wouldnt be asking this question if you were a bad person.
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Nope. That would make you a sensible person.
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Naaah ....that's how it works ....being cold to cold people :P !
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I'd say just avoid the "vampires" you've been hanging out with...they just want your body heat & your blood, wo wanting to know the real killdrphil. ;)
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no not at all!...
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I debate the same question often. I like being warm to everyone and it makes me feel uncomfortable acting cold towards anybody...so as soon as I detect that someone is cold I try to stay away from them, as much as possible that is. I guess so I don't have to leave my comfort zone just for them!
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Don't know who said it, but I always go by it: "Never act humble to the haughty or act haughty to the humble."
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i dont think so, theyre the ones being bad by being cold
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