ANSWERS: 43
  • There is someone i will always hold close, love, and value the memory of, but i don't hanker after them or wish they were still in my life, i've let them go.
  • No, I am really happy to say, much like in Labyrinth, "You have no power over me!" There was a long time where I was still attached, and that was really painful. But I feel free now.
  • Yes because no matter how hard you try, there are some people who will always hold a very special place in your heart.
  • Unfortunately yes isn't a day I don't think of her :-(. she has moved on and I'm happy for her but wish she was with me!
  • I'm so happy to say: No!
  • No, I am not.
  • I am still, but I will be over it soon;)
  • No, but I've had my eye on this cute little Q for some time now;)
  • Yes I am, because my ex says he wants to be my friend and still calls me regulary just to chat about his day etc...but goes out with other women and knowing this really hurts me.. I tell him not to call anymore, a week maybe 2 goes by and he always finds a reason to call and the whole hurt thing starts over again. He knows I am hurt, and I think it feeds his ego...I HATE HIM.
  • i'm scarred physically... so I'll never forget him (even though i'd like to)
  • yes and will be for the rest of my life. He is not an ex he had to leave.
  • Of course not.
  • yes, but each day gets a little better...
  • Not anymore THANK GOD!!!
  • Nope I can,t stand the woman beater. We were together for 11 years it was hell. We have 3 children together. I have not spoke to him in months. I,m much happier now(:
  • Well, not exactly emotionally attached, but cellularly attached!! He calls every day!!! 4 to 5 times a day!!! Drives me crazy!!
  • very much. i find it hard to let go.pathetic, yes.i dunno i just can't teach my heart to fake things.
  • Who? :-) No, I'm not attached to him at all. It's funny because at one time I thought I would never get over him. But, alas, I barely remember his face. It's a wonderful thing!
  • Hell No... Because I used to have VERY STRONG reason before someone became my ex.
  • We went to couples counseling about 3 months, after him saying he'd go for 3 years and making excuses ("I know what I need to work on, you need to work on your stuff"). When counselor asked if I want a divorce, I said, "At this moment, yes, but ideally, no, I want to spend atleast next 4-5 months to make things better." He said he didn't want one, but he initiated filing for divorce within next few weeks. He said counselor told him he should seriously consider divorce. He asked me to sign papers 2 months later. I begged him to wait, we didn't do all we could, but he insisted he wanted divorce. Not wanting to stop him from something he was so certain about, I signed papers. 3 weeks later he said he thought he made a mistake. We tried to make it work again; I decided not a good idea after threatening situation (he said he was playing around). We lived together until could afford our own places in different states. I kept the kids. He said he wanted to try our relationship again in a couple years & he wasn't going to date for at least a year. Found out froma friend he was dating someone 1 month after we lived apart. Kids missed him so much & I did too; we moved to his city few months later. He broke up w/woman before I moved near him, she was seeing her ex & my ex at same time. Kids & I visit him but it's same stuff; he won't go out w/me, just wants to be w/me at home in bedroom, leaves early in the morning fishing alone or w/friends and leaves me with kids all day.
  • I was until a few days ago actually. But then he told me that he thinks that cheating is healthy. Which I don't agree with at all. And it made me realize that he more than likely wasn't faithful to me. So he isn't even worth thinking about anymore.
  • My wife, Bethany Price, cheated on me before and after our wedding in September 2008. I found out about it all just a few weeks ago, and we're now separated. She's moved on so fast, she's already dating other guys and it really hurts because I still love her. I had a terrible Valentine's Day yesterday knowing she was with some other guy. My heart is utterly broken. I don't know how to keep living.
  • Well, i wanna choke him every time i see him. Does that count? LOL i wouldn't hurt him. or would i? O.o ;)
  • No! My ex is the mother of my children. I do treat her and respect her as such--we get along well. In fact, we are co-working on a book project, but that is the extent of our relationship. No emotional attachment at all involved.
  • I think if you if you don't have some little bit of attachment to an ex that there really wasn't much of anything there to begin with. I mean, how can you have loved or deeply cared about someone and then there be nothing at all? Yeah, your feelings may have changed for them, but to be totally gone? I think a lot of people try to make themselves believe that, but I don't think it's 100% true
  • He still has the ability to make me cry. Everything he says is cruel. So I guess I am.
  • Unfortunately, yes. He can get my anger flared with one inconsiderate thing. There are too many attachments to ever be emotionally free. We were together for 2o years. That's a lot to throw out. I will never forgive him for destroying our family.
  • haha emotionally attached as in it hurts me to see him hurt untill i found out he was so using me, now i just want to beat the crap out of him
  • I have been divorced for over 12 years, have had other relationships, but because of my freindship and devotion to my ex and my family, I cannot build a solid lasting relationship. The men I have seen are very understandind but I just can't seem to bring them into my family and ex husbands life. Please help me find a way either back into his life or out
  • Yes, and he is too. If you truly fell in love, you won't get over him/her ever. I don't necessarily think It's a bad thing, it is great to have something real in ur heart.
  • Good grief no!
  • No it has been so many years I would not know him if I passed him on the street.
  • Not just regular, every day, normal run of the mill No, but HELL NO !!
  • Beyond appreciating the life experiences and lessons learned through my experiences with my exes, no.
  • My ex has remarried and had a kid. But I am still single and childless. I wanted kids but at the time he wanted to chase women so we divorced. But he is calling me, apologizing as to how great a wife I was, ironically. He has tried to come over several times, I have not given in as yet. I am angry with him but of course I still love him. He made a stupid decision to impregnate another woman then marry her, then regret it and want back his first wife.
  • Absolutely not.
  • Yes i still love him. He's my baby's father so i'll always care about him. Even if we didn't our daughter, i would still love him.
  • yes and I have raised his sons and we been divorced for 28 years. Tell me how do you handles that. He is remarried to a very mean person and I have tried marriage again. But my love lives with he doesn't even know. Nor does he care
  • No. I can remember a lot about how I felt with them if I try and there are a lot of good memories. But they are yesterday's news and I act more in terms of forming new emotional attachments.

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