How do you deal with baby pangs? I want to get pregnant so bad, I can feel my biological clock ticking and its driving me crazy. How can i deal with being baby obsessed? i am not ready for a baby for a couple more years-i need to finish school and marry.
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I feel the EXACT same way you do. What I do is basicly distract myself from it as much as I can. And when I can't, I say to myself, I'm in college, I have one maybe one and a half years left, and I'm doing this for my baby, I'm getting ready to have my baby by being an educated person who will be able to be stable when my child is born. In the mean time hopefully my boyfriend will propose (four years its been now) and if he doesn't propose by the time I gradute college, I'll have to sit his ass down and tell him how it is or I'm leaving because I want kids and I can't wait for him to be ready if he won't be ready after 6yrs of being with me (by the time i graduate it'll be 6yrs together) so that's my personal plan. Just see yourself as already planning for the baby as if it's on its way. Everyday is one day closer to those beautiful two pink lines :)
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i´m in a similiar situation. for the first time in my life i feel something strange, like this kind of yearning to have a baby and for a while it became an obsession. luckily i am in a relationship and the person i am with is much more rational than i am. he wants to have a baby too but when we are both settled and able to support a lifestyle that would include a family. having a baby is easy whats hard is all the consequences that come with it. personally i probably wouldn´t have a child alone, that would be too much work and i know that i will need lots of support, but i still respect women who do that. i guess what i think is most important is for the mother to realize when is the best time to have the child so as to give it everything it will need to be able to cope with life. its no easy task.
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I don't have them.
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