ANSWERS: 8
  • I think the odds are he is playing games, but you can never be 100% sure. It's possible that he feels uncomfortable talking on the phone and that is why he does not return your calls.
  • It might mean that he is not emotionally equipped for a serious relationship with you (or possibly anyone at this moment) and just wants the physical pleasures of it. It could mean any number of things..without knowing him, hard to tell. He could have other interests and is just keeping you on the side until you give him what he wants or he comes to a point where he knows what it is HE wants. .. not really sure
  • I have actually found myself doing this before, I am not really sure of my motives, but with some self reflection, I do believe the girl involved usually tries to get too close too fast making me uncomfortable---hopefully this view point helps out...try keeping things more casual and making yourself a little less available
  • I think its a game...my best friend palys it alot...he lets the girl know how much he wants her the 1st week and then she starts thinking...and the next week its cold and she starts to miss how he acted...now she could move on or she'll call and say "hey I was think about what you said...do you still fill the same way" and then he mostly has her right where he wants her...if it doesn't work and tells her he was shy and doesn't know how to deal with it and didn't think she liked him...its a very worked out plan...haha
  • Stop calling. let him call you. let him miss you. it sounds like he does like you, but he's still figuring out how he wants you to fit you into his life. if it moves too fast, anyone gets scared away. and we all don't work at the same pace.
  • All he wants is to get in your pants. Step back and look at the whole picture. Tell him to take a hike.
  • Honestly, it sounds like hes not really that interested.
  • no he's not playing games...it means he's kinda weird. I wouldnt bother. Its just a sign of things to come in the relationship...you dont want a Hot and Cold kinda guy....

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