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Sure. It's probably your better angel telling you you're too young.
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I'm only 17, but I doubt that it's not normal. I mean, getting married at our age is ridiculous. Neither of us would be ready, and so as a result, the thought of it scares us.
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I would say it would be.I thing that one should experience life and wait at least until 25 years old.
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At 18, yes this is normal.
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Well I think it scares me one cause I am not ready and 2 cause if something goes wrong I dont wanna have to go through all that pain I see so many ppl go through and its just scary :( my bf is 22 and he sometimes talk about it nd I laugh yeah but i am so scared actually amd I tell him that but he doesnt seem to understand he takes it the worng way nd says unesessary comments. :(
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Yes, it's normal. I wish more 18 yr. olds had that fear.
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Completely normal. I am 33 and divorced... it still scares the crap outta me.
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Yes,as well it should at the age of 18;)
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One of your earlier respondents had a pretty fair answer to this. In a way it's not 'normal' because you're ahead of most others of your age, I think. That is, most 18-year-olds aren't thinking of marriage. So to the extent that you're thinking ahead of your age group, then you're not 'normal', but 'ahead of normal', if that makes you feel any better. Also, most of us don't learn to be afraid of marriage until after we've been in it, so you're ahead of us there, too.
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I'm 33 was married one time for three years when I was 20-23(it was a nightmare) and to this day I am still mortified of the idea of marriage, I don't think I will ever get married again. Luckily for my my gf feels the same way.
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That is not fear...that is wisdom. Axe
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Yes it's normal! I am 25 and it scares the hell outta me!
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Well...it isn't mandatory. Don't do it until you're ready, that's all.
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Not at all. You have your whole life in front of you so of course settling down seems completely unnerving.
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Yes, that's pretty normal. Marriage is, or should be, a huge commitment - a life-time one, in fact, to just one person. The problem is that at 18, many people simply haven't worked out who they really are, what's really important to them, or what they really want out of life. Until you do that, it's very difficult to choose a life partner because for a relationship to fully work, you both need to share the same set of important / core values / principles / beliefs (and I'm not talking about religion here).
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It is sane. Marriage is the leading cause of divorce!
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I didn't get married til I was 30.
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