Could have received it as a gag from someone at work or a friend. Be careful how you approach this because the accusation could lead to him actually going for it. Jokingly quiz him on why he has one and evaluate his answer.

He could be holding on to it for a friend

I would assume his innocence. But, set your mind at ease and discuss it with him. Remember you found the condom, so it was not used. Therefore, no cheating. But, ask about him and keep your antennae up.

Do you guys use condoms? First question When he wore these jeans do you remember where he was going or doing that day? If you as acouple do not use condoms. I would wonder to? Get your thoughts together. And bring it up - calmly

I asked him and he told that it was on the ground in our home and a guest arrived and he put it on his pocket to hide it. we use condom as a couple however I am not sure whether or not he is saying the truth.

I really dont want to answer this, but I will. Any married man that has a condom in his pocket and states he found it on the ground, and someone arrived and he put it in his pocket is suspicious in my opionion. Why not throw it away or tell you about it? I am not accusing him of anything but the answer he gave you seems rather lame. It is up to you to really confront the issue. Good Luck

It's good you spoke to him. You know him best. Examine the facts. Judge his response. Has he been honest in the past or not? Be observant in the future. How does he spend his free time? Do you trust him in other matters? The final judgment is one only you can make based upon your knowledge of your husband.

What do you think?

Why don't you ask him about it? I can't believe that you would go to a forum of strangers when the person with the answer is right under your own nose. Please tell me this question is a joke. My husband's mother found a condom in his jeans pocket a few weeks before the wedding. Sbe tbought we were having sex. We weren't. Maybe you husband likes to jack off into a condom so he has easy clean up? Maybe you would be morified so he made up a different story? In any event, if he is cheating on you, as least he is trying to prevent sexually transmited diseases and pregnancy, he isn't all bad.

First I found condoms. We talked about it, he denied seeing anyone. I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Then I found phone numbers. He said sometimes people give him phone numbers, he doesn't even want them. Then I found an earring. All the time, till the very end he denied everything, then he confessed. I figured out where he was going, by watching the miles on his car. I clocked the miles to all the places he frequented and checked his car mileage when he got home. No way, he was going far out of his way to see someone!

Sorry.

maybe he was planning something with you

Trust your instincts.....

What do you think??? Is it normal for him to carry them to use with YOU? If not, maybe a little chat might be in order.

I would be very surspisious even if you do use condoms,why would he take one out???? I wouldnt rrust him seems too odd,then the numbers etc it doesnt add up right.Keep an eye on him hes bound to slip up.

did you ask him about it? do the two of you use condoms? why would he have it in his pocket?

hmm, my husband had condoms in his suit pockets, he always denied everything. i couldn't prove anything. then he got caught, and he had been cheating, so i would have it out with him for the truth.

Why? You don't want him using condom's or something?

Innocent til proven guilty, only you know in your heart of hearts tho if he is telling the truth

I once found condoms in a travel bag belonging to a boyfriend of mine. We didnt use condoms but he had been in previous relationships where he did. I trusted him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. It all boils down to trust.

make your own judgment.

Your story sounds like he is cheating, but I sometimes keep a condom around in a pocket. We're old enough that pregnancy is very unlikely, and neither one of us sleeps around so disease is not an issue. The problem is that, well, sex without a condom is *messy*. Use one and everything is in this easily disposed little "bag". So if we're out and about together, and "it" just can't wait until we get home, out comes the condom and away goes the possibility of a mess.

Hard to say if he has been cheating on you. If you use condoms then i am sure he would use that as his reasoning. If you don't then i would suggest he has some explaining to do. Innocent till proven guilty, remember that.

Follow your gut instinct. I've taught my boys, but the youngest has been a "Child-molestor- magnet" since he was small. At least 1 of his brothers ALWAYS went with him [grocery store bathrooms, etc.], & he knows his instincts-- God gave them to us for protection. TRUST yourself. ___________________________ if he is guilty, he will become defensive, may even say you are crazy. If he isn't, he shouldn't have any problem being patient, kind, & reassuring.

if you two use condoms, and have sporatic sex in places he may need to have one on hand, then no.. if you use them, but they stay in a sock drawer, then maybe... if you don't use them, they he definately is.. best to ask (not to confront)

Men carry condoms with them for one reason only.!!!

Yes or is thinking or about to cheat on you.

Follow him, don't mention it because it will give him time to make up a story.

depends do you 2 use them?

Does he go out a lot without you? Does he play on the internet a lot then acts weird when you ask what he's doing? Does he spend more money? Is he trying new techniques on you sexually? Or the oppposite...Does your gut say he's cheating? A condom in a man's pocket means a lot if you have other reasons to believe.

Could be, just keep your eyes and ears open. Trust your gut. Mine cheated twice in the last 2 years of our 20 year marriage - trust your gut. Good luck and I hope he's not.

Safety first that's what I say!

His excuse could be true, but odds are is had other intentions for the condom.

He's prepared to; but you only have enough evidence to be suspicious, not enough to conclude.

It's hard to say whether his explanation is true. I'd just keep a very cose eye on your condom supply! Look at the brand you use, count them, look in his pockets every day if you must. Not a nice thing to do, but better to be safe than sorry. You need to know the truth and he has already given HIS explanation. You need to check for a few months to see if it all adds up!

Seeing how I haven't used a condom in 20 years I don't know what to think, I would have to say he is innocent, by some fluke he got lucky then unless you know he is prepared for you then he should not be carrying around condoms to begin with, I have never ever had one, never tried one and have never been asked to wear one except for once and not having one did not use one so I would believe whatever he said, if opportunity arose then suddenly would not have to use one, don't leave signiture, pretty much says it all

don't be a fool!! he is cheating. he hides it in his pocket??! why doesn't he just throw it away. don't make excuse for him because you don't want him to leave, because he is cute or has money or whateva. I don't want to be cruel, but if you stay with him, your sad, in denial, and need to work on your self-esteem.

People pass out sample condoms all the time for promotion. I just stuff them in my pockets.

no hes not cheatin, maybe he was making balloons, plus hes probily got a small piece like me. and im only 2ft tall.

It doesn't mean that he actually did. An open condom wrapper would mean he did. He maybe thinking about cheating or there is just one left. I've been through this many times. Asking him he will only deny it. You are better off researching him then to let on you know, which is the hardest because right now you want to just knock the s*** out of him. Talk to him indirectly about your marriage, are you happy what do you need more out of me or relationship. Check cell records, watch more closely to where he goes and with who he is around. Once you have information then come forward. A man backed into a corner will always lie unless you have the ammo.

Tara asked one question on here and never came back again. Do you think she confronted her husband about cheating and he freaked out on her? We will never know.

If you don't use them or that brand he sure sounds like he is. Ask yourself where was he going and who came over the last time he wore those pants. That'll be a big clue. My fiancee and I used condoms, but he never carried one. They always stayed by the side of the bed. So the idea that one would end up somewhere else in the house is very unlikely. His story is just too lame. And on you're other posts, I'm sorry you had to find out that he was cheating. It's never an easy thing to deal with. But don't worry, you'll make it.

Honey, not just yes but hell yes. There is not a story good enough to cover that one up he either did or is going to/planning to... it sucks... it happened to me too. :(

Was he?

As Scooby Doo would say.. Rhuu Rho ! I think there's something very strange going on. Keep your eyes peeled !!

Might only have it in case of emergency.

Either that or he's got a rubber fetish.

if you and your hubby don't use condoms when you have sex, then what in da hell is he doing with them ? If that's da case, he's cheating on you. Sorry !!!!

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Probably. I was married and found condoms in my husband's lunch bag. Turns out he was picking up hitchhikers and boffing them. If your husband is not currently cheating, he is looking for an opportunity. Best confront him and start a dialogue!

If he didnt cheat yet, he's def THINKING about cheating, which in my opinion is just as bad.

YESSSSSSSSS

Well it sure sounds like it , close enough anyway

You should put it back and check again in 2-3 days if its still there

ON OR IN? if you found it on his jeans then beleive it of not it may not be his but if it was in his jeans and you guys dont use condoms (which im assuming you dont because if you did then finding one wouldnt be a big deal right) then that is definitely a precursor to cheating.

Why won't you just ask your self some questions? where were he that day? did he worked until late? Are there any signs that he is cheating on you? http://www.squidoo.com/Catch-Your-Man-Cheating

Unless he masturbates into it or you use condoms in your relationship, of course he's cheating on you, or plans to. Are you also cheating on him?

Not necessarily.

Are you guys regular condom users? Where was he that day or the day before? Think about it, and deep down you will come up with the logical answer.

tell him your ready to try that new condom he bought for the 2 of you and watch the look on his face :O

All I know is if I found a condom on my husband I would confront him about it immediately... at a moment when I knew I could catch him off-guard. If he couldn't give me a good enough explanation (better than- "I was going to use it to make an animal-shaped balloon at my nephew's birthday party!" I would probably hire a private investigator. Maybe this is why I haven't married yet...

Maybe he is saying the truth but you should check it by your self becouse men usually don't care in the pocket some condom they found! http://catch-the-cheater.com/signs-of-cheating-husband.htm

NO. A CONDOM IS NOT A SMOKING GUN, However, it is a reason to ask questions. Don't look for his answers. Rather, look for how he answers. Prepare a series of questions that would require him to give more than just one word answers. If his eyes drift up and to YOUR left (THAT'S YOUR LEFT - it's easy to confuse that), there's a CHANCE he might be lying. Again, EYES TO YOUR LEFT is ONLY A CHANCE that he's lying. When a person's eyes drift to the left, a person is accessing the creative part of the brain. If a person's eyes drift to the right (YOUR RIGHT), they're accessing the memory. DON'T EVER LET HIM KNOW that you're looking for this. It's easy to keep yourself from doing this when you lie. Either way, I hope things turn out well for you.

WELL LOVE I HATE TO TELL YOU BUT IF HE DOESNT USE THEM ON YOU THEM WAT OTHER REASON WOULD HE HAVE THEM OR IT???? IM A NEWLY WED AND THE SAY EXACT THING HAPPENED TO ME JUST ABOUT TWO WKS AGO!!!! GUYS ARE ASS HOLES SRRY IF THAT OFFENDS YOU BUT ITS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH!!! L8TR DEAR

Probably not, but the condom is.

I don't know, why don't you ask him?

doesnt exactly mean he is cheatin on you. but if you do bring it up you got to watch out for that trust factor... Like why were you even going through my pants? dont you trust me? things like that might actually make him think he should do it.

Hi to all, This happened to a friend of mine whoose girlfriend found a used condom in his dirty jeans? She was shocked and questioned it and the guy said that he intentionally did it to test her trust for him and that he intentionally made it seem used and wrapped it in toilet roll and planted it in his pocket knowing the woman will pick it to wash it. what do you guys think ? Does this xplanation fly?

Most likely he is cheating on you. be realistic!

Well that depends, do you two use condoms? If the answer to THAT question is no, then the answer to YOUR question should be fairly obvious at this point.

If it was used, then probably,if not than probably.

Does he use them with you at all? If not, then he's probably cheating.

Do you use them with him?

Yes, unless he's using it to fill with water and throw at people.

Thats might be for you.

I would think he is. But you know how the saying goes, "Don't believe what you hear and only half believe what you see." There MIGHT be a reasonable explanation. You will need to ask him about it. Good luck. lol

Thats not a good sign dear. It's not common for husbands to walk around with condoms in their jean pockets especially if they claim they love you. He more than likely is cheating on you. Does he seem more distant than usual? Does he sneak off and make phone calls? Does he come up with elaborate stories that seem questionable? Does he fly off the handle with you for no reason if you ask him anything?

Just like all the clichés I started to suspect something was up when my boyfriend of six months became distant and started working late. He also didn't answer the phone when I rang him, and he always had his mobile switched off when we were together. I wanted to check it for text messages but he was really protective of it. I must admit I tried to hack into his e-mail but I couldn't figure out the password. I know I should have talked to him about it but I couldn't face the showdown and guilt if he denied it. My techie friend told me that I should get his mobile phone checked out. So I brought him a new mobile for his birthday, he was gadget mad and loved it, and I assuaged my guilt by thinking that even if I found out nothing, at least he'd still like the present. I got the opportunity to use it a couple of weeks later when he said he was going to the gym, having already been earlier that day. I contacted the http://www.computersleuth.co.uk and had the phone checked, and it had loads of hidden text messages on it from his ex girlfriend. By the time he got home his bags were packed. He didn't have a clue what was happening when I told him to leave, and that I knew he was cheating on me. He didn't deny it. I don't feel ashamed of what I did, but I would have felt very guilty if he was innocent. If you have an inkling it's better to know. If I'd have asked him straight out, I know he would have lied to me. I didn't tell him how I'd done it but all my girlfriends knew and were very impressed. Lisa

Do the two of you ever use condoms? If the answer is no then he is either getting ready to cheat, thinking about cheating, or already has cheated. It's time to start asking him some questions.

well.....if its not for you then, i recommend a baseball bat for start!

Always carry a rubber.

hmm. well i would've put it back and seen what he had done later. check again and if its not there then he obviously did something. then i would reccomend a quick trip to the shed to get the base-ball bat.

he either is or is intending to.

more than likely but do you have teenage boys? maybe he bought it for them or something. But if it was in his pocket and you guys dont use them then I would be very cautious.

This seems like it would be pretty easy. If you two do not use condoms than id say its a good chance that he is using them with someone else. If you do use condoms there is no problem. However condoms in the pocket are not good enough to confront him about. Keep it documented, write it down in a journal. Your going to need to get more evidence to use when you do decide to confront him. I've seen many men weasel their way out of the good ol' "I found a condom and we don't use one...whats up?". This should arise your suspicions and you should now take on the role of private investigator. When you start looking at the signs you will begin to uncover things. Good luck! Visit http://www.thecheaterdetective.com for some more advice . Chase

Do you use condoms at this stage of your relationship ??? Why would he carry one if he was not cheating ? Get real girl.....HE IS CHEATING

Only if you think he is. You have to analise this situation yourself since you know your husband better than any of us here do. +5