My boyfriend constantly rests his head on my shoulder and I DON'T LIKE IT. i have told him about the BUBBLE, and personal space and he doesn't get it. What now?
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You guys aren't very close, are you? Actions may speak louder than words; if he won't listen to you just telling him, try this: Every time he does this, sigh loudly and make a point of getting up and moving to a different seat quite some distance away. If he asks you why, tell him that you've told him you don't like it when he puts his head on your shoulder and since he won't listen, you're just going to have to move. He should get the hint.
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If you have communicated clearly and if he has understood what you have said, then his actions indicate a lack of respect and a level of immaturity that should alarm you. Next time he does it, firmly move his head away and state (clearly) "I asked you to not do that and I would appreciate it if you would respect my wishes." repeat that line and move his head every time he does it.
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Looks like your b/f needs to find himself another girl, one that likes physical contact.
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When my grandson does something he's been asked not to (like pull on the beard or glasses), we jump up and yell NO! real loud. It seems to work. You might try that.
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Good luck keeping that relationship going if you're worried about personal space. Wait until the day when he walks into the bathroom to brush his teeth while you're dropping a deuce.
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Get a boyfriend who doesn't want to touch you?
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