I met a guy off myspace 3 months ago and we are hanging out together allday, and everyday and his profile still says hes single. we even have sex. idk what to think of this here.
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Who cares... as long as you know he loves you and you love him... whats the problem here? Its just a stupid setting, on myspace.
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ask him about it. Maybe he will change it and it's an easy fix. Maybe he has and excuse but don't get too worked up over it when you haven't even talked about it
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Maybe he just hasn't updated yet. Ask him about it. And why would you have sex w/ someone when you think he still considers himmself single?
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ask him!
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Just because you hang out, and have sex doesn't mean you're in a relationship. You shouldn't assume anything, but if you want clarification, ask him about it.
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i have asked him if we are together or not and he just does not answer my question. he says that he knows that if he doesnt answer my question then it will piss me off. personally i think its immature
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He obviously does not consider himself to be in a relationship with you. Talk to him about it! Maybe he views it as a friends with benefits type of situation, and if you want something different, you need to make that clear to him.
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Technically, he is single. That status changes when he is married. He can add that he is seeing someone though and if you feel that strongly about it, in a joking manner tell him you saw his myspace page and noticed he still says he's single- don't you count? Dont make it an inquisition.
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I think you should be asking this question of him and not us. That's the shortest road to determining what you should be doing with this guy.
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sounds like he's keeping his options open
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You need to come strait up to him and ask him if you guys are in a relationship.. If he says yeah then be like "well i guess that means we can change our status on myspace to 'in a realationship" Then laugh or somethin.. just try it.
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The best way to know is to talk directly to him. Personally, I'd have gotten this answer before I started sleeping with him. After all, why commit when you're already getting what you want?
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If you haven't gotten married, he is still single.
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Honestly, if you're going to question the status of your relationship based on someone's Myspace page, I find that pretty sad. I mean yes, technically, if you guys are exclusive his thing shouldn't say "single", but come on. It's myspace. Is it really that important?
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I wouldn't worry. My bf's profile says that too, but I really don't mind. In real life everyone knows we're together and that's what counts.
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Why would you meet someone off myspace....sad thats why he hasn't changed his single thing, you were just and are fun, a hobbie to him
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Sounds like your not exclusive yet...........or hopefully he's lazy and has'nt gotten around to updating the profile.
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He is still single, and so are you. Unless you got married! Single is just a word. It's not like the profile says "still looking for babes" I wouldn't ask him, if someone asked me that and we were just seeing each other, and yes having sex, I would think what the heck. Just because we have sex doesn't mean he owns me! Until I get married.......I am single!
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Well, honestly, it may just be a "fling" to him, or just infatuation between the two of you. I wouldn't expect too much. Until he puts his foot forward to say to you that he wants to be with you like that, it would be naive on your part to expect too much else from him. No offense or anything. If you two are hangin out and getting along, and even "relieving the tension" (haha), then I would just be happy with that.
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Hey, you decided to spread you legs for this guy. You didn't ask him to marry you first. What do you want?
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Well I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and my Myspace still says single. I never thought about it. In fact his still says single too. I think you should ask him to change it or walk away.. if it's that important to you... it is.
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having sex with someone does not solidify your "relationship" status, especially for guys. being exlusive entails a lot more than a little bump and grind. most people who meet thru the internet (i'm not saying you are one of them) have intentions of just sex anyway, so don't get too wrapped up in where you stand in this guy's myspace world. If it's really that important, I would ask him about it and see if he obliges immediately, if he doesn't, then that's your cue to move on...
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You should ask him about it. If you are comfortable enough to sleep with you should be comfortable enough to ask him a question. If not, maybe it's something to think about.
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I think you are reading way to much into a little thing like there myspace page saying single. Maybe he didnt think to change it. Maybe he just thinks you are friends with benefits. Unless you have talked about being bf/gf I would not worry about. Have you talked about it? Just because you hang out does not mean you are in a relationship with that person unless you have "the talk". Talk to him and see where you stand. You have already given it up to him though
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I have never been on one of these sites but my girlfriends have and they both said that there are many guys on there who just want sex. You should ask him straight out what his story is and why he is still on my space because if you are sleeping with him and your not using protection your taking lots of risks here, even if you are using protection we know how reliable those are.... so ask.
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Tust me on this..he is still meeting people on myspace-keeping his options open till something new comes along/if he still says he`s single then u have to believe their are other girls checking him out..im sure he likes you and is having a great time with you but if his myspace page is working for him and he knows he can meet girls and get laid(your his proof)then he`s not going to get rid of his single status like he`s not going to get rid of you-single guys mentality. ...if u have to ask him about it, he`ll just have to come up with an answer for it..and he`ll find one.
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every time your with him and their is a computer in the room-open up his myspace page so you can see his profile...then walk away from it leaving it open-totally ignore it- do something else and just observe and see what he does...oooor..just respond to his profile with another e-mail address and tell him u like that he`s single and you think he`s hot and see if he mails u back-if he does not know its u, u can ask him anything u want,like.....SOO..HAVE YOU MET ANYONE SPECIAL ON THIS THING YET?? ..sneaky but hey....im sure hes workin it. in the old days you would have to get a girlfriend to do something like that-but now with computers u can do it yourself..no witnesses-ha! `good luck to the both of u.
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Ask him about it. Put in on his page even. I did with the guy i am seeing. I just put up..... Still single huh? And he called me on my comment.... i just said, if your still single is there anyway i could change that? we laughed about it. Oh yeah and it was changed the next day.
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well maybe he didnt relize it yet you should bring it up and ask him about it the next time u see him but dont rush to say it say it at the right moment.
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I think you should ask him about it and see what he says. You should of already had this conversation with him. Guys put girls into catergories and you need to know if you are A friend, someone he wants to date or a friend with benefits. Don't sell yourself short and be careful who you trust online. Everyone lies in some sort of way.
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MySpace is the new booty call, dude.
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