I'm NOT racist at all, but I was wondering, I am a white female and always get hit on by black men. Never my own race. I was wondering what is up with that. Why do I attract black men? Again, not that there is anything wrong with black men, just wondering
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Apparently my sista, you got soul!
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Are you a booty girl? That WOULD explain it some
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G'day Countrymouse01, Thank you for your question. It may be that you are bootylicious and attract their attention. As long as they are nice guys, it shouldn't matter. Regards
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Are you blond or redhead Mystified by colors
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its probably cuz u hav a cute butt.
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I'm a little curious how come when I ask this question, everyone's response revolves around the booty. Is it a stereotype that black men love bootys or is that just the usual case?
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It may depend on where you live, where you hang out, and how you might dress. Please forgive my bluntness, but do you have a big butt? These things matter, you know.
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If you have big butt/thighs you may attract black/latino guys more than white guys. Most white guys aren't attracted to hip/thigh areas on women. I know many white girls that never get hit on by white guys but black/latino guys hit on them all the time.
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you're a racist, just bang the black dudes, they have giant wangs and I'm stereotyping, hear the bass? jk
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White men are familiar with the bitchy attitude present in white women. (im white. Black men unfortuanately arent familiar with this, and go hit on white women, not realizing theres a reason many white men no longer go for white women...their bitchiness. I think black men are just maybe a bit naive when it comes to white women. Once they find out what bitches white women are they'll stop hitting on white women.
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Well, being honest I think it has to do with your body. most (not all)Black males tend to like women with hips and butt, so if you have hips and butt, black guys will be attracted to you. at the same token, most white males like thinner women with flatter butts and larger breast. also, i guess you live or work in an area with a higher population of blacks. if you look at some of the "hot list" by say Maxim magazine, notice the women don't have much butt. I have an issue where they picked J-lo as last in "the celebrity women you would want to stand behind". i think they picked Megan Fox in first place, i though, gee I like J-lo butt, LOL
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What kind of "onion" are you rocking?
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Maybe the places you frequent have the answer to this,,try not going to the places where folks you aren't interested in congregate.
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Also to note is that white men's wills have been crushed by societal politically correct bullshit. I would bet that largely if a white man said and acted exactly like some other races in terms of sexuality it would be a lawsuit, erstwhile the similar actions and attitudes from other races is seen as sexy, daring, or whatever. So it is positive reinforcement vs. negative reinforcement. A white guy hits on a woman and off the bat they're probably most interested in what kind of car they drive. The same not being true for other races I would say generally. That, and the "I like big butts"(sir mixalot) answers are totally true. I think it's probably that many black mothers were lower income and lower income quite often means fattening diet, which means little black babies fixate on "mommy = fat", throw in a pinch of Freud and voilà, they like big butts
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Got a Lotta Junk in de Trunk, Huh?
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I don't know... Maybe you haven't met a "nice" white guy... Maybe all that you've met are just assholes... I wouldn't know why they'd be (or not be) attracted to you... Physical appearance doesn't bother me (well, to the extent of hygiene)... I'm one that believes it's on the inside that counts... So, I don't honestly know why you are getting more black men than white ones... But good luck... and sorry that I couldn't help... :(
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lol , black men are really realy into white men these days . Be happy you arent on my end I attract asian women (im not lesbian) and mexican and middle eastern men.
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blacks are FAR more attracted to large butts than whites. in my last drug study I roomed with one other white guy and 3 black guys. they were watching BET and a butt flashed on the TV that made me and the other white guy turn away in disgust... all 3 black guys hollered in delight. also the urban culture which is predominantly black is extremely casual about intimacy so I would wager they hit on far more women per month than anyone outside that culture.
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Do the black guys in the areas you hang out in outnumber the white guys? If so, then statistically speaking, you are more likely to get hit on by black guys. Another thing that might have happened is that perhaps it all started with one black guy. Perhaps some guys saw him hitting on you, and from that everyone began assuming that you're just in to black guys. Consequently, black guys think they have a good chance with you and white guys think they don't. I know it sound stupid, but maybe that's what happened.
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lemme guess....you are a curvy, thick womanly build!!!! When i was young, i got a lot of attention from black men as well. Dont be offended by it. They have better taste in what is a womanly build as opposed to a childs build. For white men, the IN thing is a female with no butt, no boobs, no hips, basically a legal version of a child. Be thankful black men still love WOMEN!!!!
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without seeing you or knowing your personality, where you live, the demographics of that area, how you dress, the way you talk..it's hard to say. So many factors could play into this. As someone naively said "it could be because you have a curvacious bod and black men appreciate that more than whites" well I dunno if that is the case, I am a man and I appreciate all kinds of women and I know other men of other various colors that like all types of women. Where I live I see interracial couples all the time, most times its a fat white woman and a skinny black male. So maybe black men do like big white women, but I'm sure just as many white men do too. I'd say it has more to do with how you act, the clothing you wear, the area you live in and how you carry yourself. If how you are identifies with black culture then a black male might be more inclined to hit on you possibly. If the demographics of where you live are like where I live, with a higher black to white ratio, then sure obviously more black men would hit on you because there's more black men than white.
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stop wonderin gurl... itz their loss (wite-guyz)... jus b koool wit the atenshun yu get frum 'whum'-evr yu r gettin... :*... peace!!!
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Most black men are attracted to White women. It may be the way you carry yourself that makes them intrigued. Maybe way you dress, speak or your body that makes them especially attracted to you.
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Be a lot easier to answer if you posted a pic of yourself. You must be hot, though... ...we don't usually hit on skanks.
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probably your drawn to black men and ignore white mens advances; its not the big butt thing, theres plenty of white men that love the big caboose; I love a chick with a round butt, like two piggies in napsack; you should post a picture so that we get a better idea of your delema.
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its probably just your benevolence.....they are looking/playing , to score...you might make them lucky..... when i was 12, i had one black guy, who was not all there, i felt sorry for him and tried to help in class...he ended up stalking me, scared me half out of my mind....then ,the same year , I walked into class, sat at my desk and another one had carved all kinds of 'lewd' stuff in my desk about me...again ,not that there is anything wrong, except they feel ELEVATED when they catch a white woman....now, how RACIST is that..:) but i have had many black men say , 'black women to domineering'.... you are nice and they take it the wrong way.....
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I have been reading "the butt" is the reason. I really don't know one single man that doesn't love big butt and boobs. I kind of worry about a man that likes to see an adolescent boy figure on a woman. Since I don't even know when, men have been into an hour glass shape. This is why most sex symbols are curvy women. Women have always desired having a nice round butt. They even buy jeans that are snug on their butt to show it off more! What mad would want to see a woman with a flat or tiny ass regardless of race? I think big round butts on women are hot! Its raw sex appeal baby! You know what I notice...guys with women that have no butt and boobs staring at women that do!
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Everyone is racist to a greater or lesser degree. It's controling it? That's the answer. See the film 'Crash' with Sandra Bullock and Matt Dillon. Brilliant!!
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it might be the way you dress that or if you are overweight?
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Blonde, big arse, trashily dressed? If that's you then you may have your answer.
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may be you have nice curves +3 you should ve posted your picture so may be we can tell you why +3
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Why not ask the guys who hit on you? Seems to me they'd be the best source of information on this topic.
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Cause you are addicted to black monster sausage
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