My best friend knows that I like someone. She is forcing me to tell. But actually, its her. Should I tell or not?
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What will it hurt to tell her? She may surprise you. Maybe she has a feeling that you do like her, and she just wants you to tell her, because she may be feeling the same, and is afraid just like you.. Good luck with whatever you decide : )
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No-one can force you to tell them who you like.
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Guess it would be good to get over with it ....atleast you would remain faithful to your friend :-)
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don't hide :) ... who knows you may end up with a jem for life :)
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It seems to me she is not a best friend because she is trying to force you to tell. In my opinion I say it's not a good idea to have her as a friend. If she is making you do something that you don't like. Tell her that you need a break from her or try telling her that you don't want any contact or phone calls from her. It's time to end the frienship.
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Go for it! It's a time for new beginnings! :)(:
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Dude, plant a big wet one on her lips and you won't have to say a thing. She will know exactly what kind of relationship you want. Good luck.:-)
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Do you like her? Or is she the one that actually likes the person she is forcing you to tell? Now I'm confusing myself.
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It sounds like you want to tell her...
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I see you are in India. Do you parents have a hand in planning a marriage for you? Is this woman someone who is in your social status that you could marry? I don't want to get you in big trouble because your social system is different from the United States. I see your Myspace.com name is Horny. You might scare you friend seeing that you advertise yourself that way.
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You might actually find that maybe she already knows and maybe thats why she is trying to get you tell who it is! Try writting her a letter if you dont feel confident enough to sa it to her face or maybe buy her some flowers to give her the hint, Hope you get the girl at the end!
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Actually, I think she already knows that it's her. Woman's instinct, I suppose. She just wants to hear it straight from you ;)
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she already knows you like her we as women just love for you guys to tell us it makes us feel so good in side.
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She already knows. Just tell her.
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Honesty is the best policy. she's (he's) your pal. Be honest, out with it. Tell.
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Tell her. But do you guys amazing chemistry? Do you both have moments where you just look into each others eyes? Do you love everything (well, at least a majority) about her? If so, then do it! Best of luck :)
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You can close your eyes to things things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.
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if shes that eager to know she probally wants to hear you say her name, or if its someone else, she'l know who she'd have to compete with to win you over. go for it.
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You have no reason to go relationalship-fishing with any girl,and keep how you feel about them to yourself. It could become a game that could cost you more than you are willing to pay in the long-run. And in a word you are not being "honest". Not a good way to start out any relationship.
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of course you should tell her, if she wants to know so bad thats a sign she may like you so if you tell her she will tell you weather she likes you or not, if she doesnt you still have your friendship and if she does you guys can move things to the next stepp. hope this helped!
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I would tell them because they are your bestfriend and the fact of the matter is that they probably already know and just want you to be okay with it
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This is your cue...and you didn't even have to set it up. Now don't mess it up. Be straight with how you feel about her and you'll get the girl!
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you should definitely tell! it's always difficult to admit feelings for someone.. but if she's ASKING for it.. then i say let her have it, baby! in a situation like this.. you always have the excuse that "she asked you to tell her the truth" in case it doesn't go quite as planned. MAYBE she's asking because she hopes it IS her? and if not, she'll definitely be surprised. you should always tell people when you care about them, how MUCH you care about them, WHY you care about them.. that way you have no regrets, my friend. best of luck!
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Tell her. Tell her today. Tell her tomorrow. Tell her everyday. Life is too short to waste. TELL HER
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personally if i suspect a guy likes me i try and get him to tell me. so that may be what she is doing.
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YES YOU SHOULD TELL HER. EVEN IF SHE DOES NOT FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU WILL FEEL BETTER ONCE SHE KNOWS
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Yall are together now?? that is so cute!
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do it! im dating a guy that was my friend for years! one day we just finally told each other how we felt and we had the same feelings for each other!
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Tell her, if you're close with her she might already have a feeling. lol
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i think that she already nows and just want u to telll her but i mean if u guys are best friends then just tell her or him
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Hell yea tell her!..if she wants to know so badly she might really want it to be her XD
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I would find a place you can sit where there is no one who might hear (Who know's what people would do at news like that anymore??) and tell her flat out. If she (he) says they don't like you 'that way,' you have a shot at still being friends. If something else, I don't know. Love is like a rubix cube, only few can solve it.
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