The Best/Safest thing is a Dildo you purchase from your local sex shop. This is the same for lubricant. Most Jokes regarding guys sticking things in their ass revolves around men experimenting. Its best you use something that was specifically made for it. Same with lube. The chemicals used in KY and other brands are specifically formulated not to irritate or infect so don't get to crazy unless you want to spend an embarassing night in the hospital. As far as the thong is concerned its enjoyable by you because of the feel of it on the outside of your anus. The tighter against it the better. Its not unusual even in a non sexual way. My old roomate was station in Europe in the US army for 20 years and he wears mens thongs regularly. Its not uncommon in Europe.

lube = spit from the back of the throat!

Hello, I am 100% straight man, and i only wear thongs and g-strings, the way it feels on your anus is superb, the people who think its not common they are idiots they never tried; once they will, they will never say like that, i hate those flimsy boxer in which your penis is hanging around and touching and rubbing your thighs without any reason, ask your girlfriend what does she like, a nice sexy thongs with clean and smooth body or boxer with lots of body hair, and i love anal play by myself i use butt plugs and having good collection of those, and have a fantasy to play anal games with my wife, anal toy is the best option to put anything in, in starting its hurt a little bit, but once its there trust me feels very good, however i don't like doing in and out with that, but leave it there for a while... move around, sleep watch TV, drive car, go shopping etc, its great fun, just make sure you use plenty of lube, for starting body oil is also not that bad but lube is best as they made for that only, so go ahead to your local sex store or order it online, here are some sites to order it online.. http://www.edenfantasys.com/ http://www.adameve.com/ Reply me back if you have any more questions

never tried it but i wont knok it till i try it and try another guys cock up ure ass - if u r gay

i am 44 strait man and have been putting thing up my ass since i was about 12 i now have large dildoes and a t- ball baseball bat i use bat is 25 inches long i take it handle end first am now taking about 15 to 18 inches want to try to take it all in 6 months or so.

Mate, you dont make lube you buy it. There is some excellent stuff out there that doesnt dry out, isnt sticky, stays oily and is fine for your body. Check on line or go to your pharmacy. I wouldnt use KY jelly tho cos its sticky and definatley not vaseline. On your other point, its your arse mate, shove what you like up it and wear what you want too. Normal varies from person to person, whats normal to you may not be normal to others. I dont know if your straight or not, but if you are, but are cool enough to get past labels etc, then i seriously recommend that you try being shagged by a bloke. It wont make you gay or anything, some people do it cos they love how it feels, not cos they fancy or fall in love with blokes. Its cool to experiment mate. Just chuck all of societies rules out of the window. We are all sexual, its society that sticks the labels on us. Good luck

Ps...why dont you go online and buy your self a dildo, you need to be careful what you put up your bum. Nothing sharp, nothing that can get stuck and nothing fragile like glass. Get a dildo mate, its the right shape and its safe.

Ps...why dont you go online and buy your self a dildo, you need to be careful what you put up your bum. Nothing sharp, nothing that can get stuck and nothing fragile like glass. Get a dildo mate, its the right shape and its safe.

1) Buy a dildo. If you cannot get a dildo, then use fingers. Shoving things up your ass that should not be there is dangerous. 2) Baby oil makes OK lube and can be bought with the idea of using it on the skin. Otherwise KY or vaseline (vaseline isnt great). 3) Thongs is not common, but men do wear them. Personally I find it odd and dont like it, but wtf! Go for it!

a girl's finger - make sure she gets it really wet with saliva and does not have sharp nails

I've used carrots and english cucumbers, my fingers, my friend's cock, dildos and tall cans of up to 2" diameter using plenty of lube. I also like an enema now and then. The butt is a fun place.