Depends. Did you get him pregnant?

Ahhh. This is what I've been saying all along. Slut.

You did it? As long as he didn't do anything I don't think it is considered cheating.......but I just can't be certain without more details. <looks around to see if anyone else is lost>

Depends if you are committed to another relationship and who that "him" is :)

What did you do????? hummmm?????

Well .. After all, you did keep your socks on. Nahh ! Everythings cool !

I sure hope the him in your question was hubby otherwise I think it would be considered cheating. Then again it would also depend on what it was you did all night long also lol.

I'd have done it all night long too, I hate waking up in the middle of the night.

Only if there was peanut butter involved.

Did you swallow?

My friend Stormy, how many times do I have to tell you if he's got more than 2 legs, it's not cheating? lol!

If the game in question was Strip Poker, then no, you did not cheat, and from the sounds of things you unlocked the hidden level.

Stormy...how many times must I tell you...just because you named "it" B.O.B that doesn't make it a "real man"! hahahahaha :P

All night long? Well your sleep apnea is going to be so upset with you. How could you do that to Sp? Who's the homewrecker? Is it that tylenol pm thats been hanging around lately? Tisk tisk.

Well...Duh!!

no, because you slept all night!!!!!!!! its obvious, sorry stormy but if you were talking about sex there is no way you would have been doing it all night......men only say that, the reality is very different!!

What a good dream stormy - lol

No not it all. every thing is fair in love.

your a bitch for cheating is all i got to say dont care bout DR

Only if your spoken for

I slept with my fiance all night long and had hot steamy...umm well you know the rest. No I would not consider that cheating.

You SLEPT! What possible cheating happens when you are asleep!

Do you have photos? Can you prove he did it all night long.

Next time, no sleeping, why waste valuable time. No pictures, No proof.

course not. and surely it's not "his" bed, it's half yours too :)

It depends on what you both dreamt about;)

Only if one of you is involved with someone else;)

Let me solve your problem, Come over to my place and re can re-create what went wrong... you get naked, you get in my bed, you spread your legs, ... ... ... (after a couple dozen times) I'll flip you over, take you from behind for a while ... ... ... Hmm. Well, if you are any good at it... maybe it will be worth it, then we could just leave it between the 2 of us!

Check it here, I hope this could help.. 1. Paying a prostitute for (safe) sex 2. Having sex with someone from the office at a drunken office party 3. Having sex with someone from the office while at work 4. Having sex with a woman you just met in a bar after an argument at home 5. Having sex with a woman you just met in a bar while away from home 6. Having phone/text/cybersex with someone you will never meet 7. Having phone/text/cybersex with someone you do meet 8. Meeting someone for a drink who your partner does not like but they do not know 9. Meeting someone for a drink who your partner does not like and you lied about the meeting 10. Holding hands with someone else in public when your partner is not around 11. Oral sex from you 12. Oral sex on you 13. Thinking of someone else while having sex with your partner 14. Buying secret gifts for someone else 15. Sending secret texts to someone else 16. Telling someone of the opposite sex all your secrets and your feelings about your partner but without touching them at all 17. Kissing someone else passionately 18. Buying flowers for someone else but not telling your partner 19. Buying flowers for someone else who your partner does not like and not telling your partner All of those are cheating, and that list is but a tiny tiny fraction of what I think another person would use in a fight - and when trust is broken, a fight (hopefully just verbal) results. So going back to the article at LifeHut, and using that list, I got the impression that the author there would tick all the ’sex’ items. Of course reading this list he will tick them all probably, but that was my impression. And I think that the sex assumption is wrong. Sex is a biological urge. Stronger in some than others, inflamed by alcohol and circumstances but it’s just an act. It’s almost ‘notch on the bedpost’ stuff, it’s about conquest, immediate satiation, lust, scoring and any number of other euphemisms we have for sexual intercourse. In the end though, it’s a base urge and one that arguably we can lose control of at times. Note - I said arguably. So the sex thing .. yes, it is cheating IF both partners agree - and that could be a complex area. Cheating is when the harmed person says it is, not when you think it is. Number 16 is the killer - and I’ve known people who would class 10 as a hanging offence. There’s no touching going on. There’s no base urges happening, but they have just bared their soul to someone else. Which scenario is worst ? • Your partner walks in and says “I’ve just had sex with X from work” OR • Your partner walks in and says “I’ve just told everything I feel about us and you to X from work” Initially, the first hurts but this - however much you protest - could be ‘defended’ albeit it in a way you might not agree with. But the second ? there is no defence for that. That was actively disclosing information to someone else who now possesses that information and even if they never use it against you, you cannot feel the same about them again. In fact they both hurt, but very differently. Because of the first, physical intimacy becomes difficult but because of the second emotional intimacy is ruined. The problem is that you simply cannot ask all the possible questions and even if you did, you would get not all the answers back. I don’t think you can get through any relationship of any depth over an extended period of time without some form of ‘cheating’ going on. If you have done something - anything - that your partner would not like and you have not told them, then they could class that as cheating. You may not see it that way, but your view counts for nothing at that point in time. Test: if they did what you just have, would you be happy about it ? Another test: if you won the lottery would you choose ‘No Publicity’ because of what the Press would dig up about you ? So where’s my answer ? I haven’t got one. I don’t believe there is one despite all these junk TV programmes and Agony Aunt columns advising us about what not to do and when not to do it. I also don’t think we should carry on our lives as if our partners were perched on our shoulders - aren’t they meant to enhance our life, not possess or dictate it ? Fidelity is what you and your partner say it is. And as much as you believe in it, one day you’ll screw it up. That’s the way life is.

Hmmm. I cracked up reading this question. No f'in way this is cheating it's just...being friendly. Don't worry you're as faithful as a Nun.

nah its kl. if you dont fall asleep it doesnt count