I think it depends on the relationship and how it progresses. I was with one guys for 9 months before I slept with him and we lived together for sometime during that 9 months. We slept in the same bed at night and never did it. (I was a virgin) Then the next serious relationship I was in was a little different. That guy go it in like 2 weeks. So it just depends. As far as the same bed thing, I was in a relationship for a while where the guy used to love to sleep on the couch......It had been like that since before I moved in, but I HATED IT.......After we had sex he got up and said Good Night and got on the couch......I LIKE TO CUDDLE, especially after sex and that's impossible wit ur man in the other room. So if your man sleeps with you in the bed at night, DONT TAKE IT FOR GRANTED, you would hate it is he didnt. Cuz every now and then when he would sleep in the bed with me, I couldnt always fall asleep as quick because I couldnt get comfortable as quick, but in my opinion there is nothing like laying beside the person you love and falling asleep and waking up right there beside them!!

I was with a guy for 10 months and regardless of peer pressure and him keep goin on about it i didnt have sex with him. my current bf however i had known for less time,and i had been with him for about 2-3months.i was 17 when i lost my virginity to him. however, i absolutely am in love with him, more than i ever have been with anyone. i agree, it depends on the relationship and how close you are. im now 19, and we have sex as regularly as we both want it, there's no rules on how little or often u have sex, just as long as you both want it, and you activley think about the consequences of your actions i.e if you were to fall pregnant etc and you know how to say 'no' when you dont want it. The main thing is, dont do anyhing you feel uncomfortable with.i knew the time when i lost my virginity was right bcos i knew tht i really felt for him and no matter what may happen between us now, i wouldnt regret it(if i had slept with that other guy i would be kicking myself!). as for sleeping in the same bed, i used to find it hard sleeping with him, i'd get all hot and bothered with the extra body heat under the covers and so on, i know he found it hard too initially, but its something you soon get used to and miss when you dont have it, i love falling asleep with his arms around me&waking to see him there. its just because your not used to sharing your bed. although, now i find it very hard to sleep on my own lol... sorry ive gone on abit, but i hope this helps

You should wait till you feel ready. Either till you really love each other and you trust him or till you feel the urge to. Just make sure he's not the type to tell everyone about it, joke about it to his friends, and point out what you did wrong. It took a long time before i could sleep well with any boyfriend in the bed. And even now this one is always kicking his feet and snoring (normaly stops when i make him sleep on his side)and hogging the bed.

HUNNY IM 17 ME AND MY BOYFRIEND LIVE TOGETHER AND WE DID IT AFTER KNOWING EACH OTHER FOR 2 MONTHS....WE USE TO DO IT ONCE EVERYDAY NOW WE BEEN TOGETHR FOR 3 YEARS AND WE DO IT 3-10 TIMES A DSY! IT PROGRESSES WITH TIME EVERYONES DIFFERENT THO WHATEVER MAKES U COMFORTABLE