My boyfriend admitted to cheating on me after he caught me cheating on him with another man. My boyfriend told me that he made out with the other woman on his couch and now I get upset everytime I see the couch. What can I do?
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Well at least he told u himself and he must be more upset at u for catching u. Yes, I agree u should be upset too, but it's the ones that get cuaght cheating that take longer to regain trust. I say, both of u should try counseling and talk the reasons as to wut lead u two to cheat. I'm also wondering how he caught u.
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Well, if you are still in a position to 'see the couch', it means that you still go to his place and that must mean that you are still together. That's a good start. Since he seems willing to work on mending the relationship after the mutual cheating, suggest this to him- 'Let's go shopping for a new couch, honey!' If that is not feasible, throw a slip-cover over the thing and re-arrange all the furniture in that room. I realize that this answer sounds facetious, but it might be a practical solution.
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Get a new couch
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You ought to tell him that the couch is upsetting to you and that you want him to get rid of it. If he truly wants to work it out with you then he should understand the reasons it upsets you. He should get rid of it. Good luck!
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Well, you are both dirt, throw each other out.
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You two deserve one another. Just, in the name of humanity, DON'T HAVE CHILDREN. Children don't need slutty dogs for parents. Get him sterilised, and get yourself spayed.
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You both need to grow up. You're not ready for a relationship.
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Call it even.
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break up with the "couch"
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Nice bunch of cheaters huh?
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maybe neither one of you's should be cheating
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