hope you can help me. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now. i love her, we were always honest about everything, she had told all about her past the same i did too. but now it turns out that she had slept with her cousin when she was 10 years old. she hadn't mentioned this before because she's ashamed of it. the reason I understand but I'm afraid more things happened in the past. Similar situation had also happened a few months ago. then I asked her if this was the only one from the past or if there was anything else then she indicated to me that she had nothing to hide. (apparently not) i want to forgive her after she lied to me but i still love her. I also know it was her past. but it's not easy either. I'm also afraid I'd never believe her again no matter what she tell me. I am also afraid that I would hurt her with what she has done in the past. I don't want to cause her any pain and worries. but it's also hard for me to leave her. I can't just have her removed from my life. But I don't want to hurt her either. my question to you is should i leave her or try to forget something which is very very difficult. if i have to do the second then is my other question how to forget or accept her past?